well me and my boyfriend just brokee up, well i broke up with him...and we broke up and he couild care a donkeys ass about it..and it got me really depressed in side..and my mom was always saying how mean he was to me and i just broke up with him just to do it..and i mis him sososososososo much and i want to call him but imm like no i cant it wil make me look like im running back to him..well i broke up with another boy b-4 i went with the boy i just broke up with.well me and that boy went out for awhile and he was so freakin imature..and i just got tired of him..and my mom loves him..so she always talks..and shes always going over her cell phone minutes to just talk to him...and it gets me mad..only because my mom will always say you cant find another boy like him and she wants me to marry him..and if i have a new boyfriend my mom never wants to meet them because she thinks they wont be as good or as cute as my x..so what do i do..its hard to tell her i like somebody or i go out with some body..but i dont no what to do...
karenR answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 12:23 am: You definitely need to pick your own boyfriends. If the last one was mean to you though I believe you did right by sending him down the road.
You need to talk with your mom and tell her that you will marry someone of your own choosing and not hers. Explain to her why you find it difficult to talk to her about boys. Maybe she doesn't realize she's being pushy. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
K2204 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 9:38 am: if you think you made a mistake, tell him! the things most regreted in life are the things you dont say, rather than the things you do. so tell him, and dont wait until its too late. most of the time, people, like your X, say things they dont mean to help themselves to get over something, such as a break- up, inside he may really be torn apart.
tell him!
at least then, you will know if you want to get back together, or find someone new!
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