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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks!
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First off, I would talk to your friend. Make sure that you tell her what you're thinking about doing. You don't want it to be a surprise to her. Then I don't see why you couldn't date him. I mean you said that there wasn't any communication b/w you and your ex. I would make sure that you're not ruining a potential friend with your ex, just so that you can date his friend. It may seem important to have a bf, and believe me...that's the way it goes sometimes. But bfs are going to come and go out of your life, so make sure that you're not throwing away two good friendships.
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I think that you should tell your ex~boyfriend how you feel about his friend and if he truly did love you then he will not care and just say go for it!!!!!!!!
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Just go out with the guy. Your friend is over him, your boyfriend is over you. No one will care. People worry far too much about this kind of thing nowadays, it's already been two months just go for it.
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just go out with him whenever you want guys dont normally care about that kinda stuff just girls because the majority of them are retarted like that and even if he does care i think he will live unless hes a fag that cries
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It depends on how long it has been. If it has been more than 3-5 days since you broke up with yout boyfriend and him and your friend have been spli then i say go for it and see what happens because otherwise you might not see this guy as much and not be able to ask him. So,i would say if it has been loner than 3-5 days than go for it. If your boyfriend doesn't seem like he cares then you shouldn't either.
There is only the other friend to think about now. If you think that she won't mind then ask the other guy out, if you don't feel comfortable doing this then i say talk to her about it. If she is really your friend then she'll understand. Especially if she broke up with the guy that you wanna go out with. Just make sure that she won't be mad at you if you do ask this other guys out. Consider her feelings yours and the guy you wanna ask you. The guy you dump doesn't need to be a part of this situation anymore. :) Hope i helped. If you want more advice leave a message in my inbox.
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it depends how much it matters to you what your friend and other people think of you. is your friend even over him? if you don't care what other people think..go out with him whenever you want. if you do..wait at least a month. if you MUST go out with him sooner..try 2 or 3 weeks. absolutely no sooner.
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