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alrite so im pretty much awesome i guess i duno wat can i say i play softball and go to FMHS yea! and im gona be a sophmore this year and im 14 and summer pretty much sucks but yea i like listening to music and hanging out with friends because my friends are frieken awesome! but yea i can give good advice because i like to do it and yea as long as its not one of those fucking annoying preppy people ?'s like "like omg wat should i wear tonight" cus u dont need advice to figure that out and im pretty smart youll figure that outif you take the time to know me and i like to read lol

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Ok so the last day of school is coming up and I dot no which outfit to wear??!!?

http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10851&storeId=10101&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12151&categoryId=12151&productId=221862&langId=-1

or
http://www.gap.com/asp/Product.asp?wdid=402015&wpid=285763

Please Help!?!?!

definitly abercrombie..that green skirt was hideous

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My dad gets mad REALLY easy. For an example, the other day i wanted to try out for travel softball and i asked him if he could bring me some clothes to try out in. then he said "what do you wanna try out for? the outfield?" so then he came to pick me up and he saw me playing for a little. When we were walking to the car he was like "do you WANT to try out?" and i said "no anymore.." because what he said to me sorta put me down. so then he said "YOU NKOW WHAT? YOU NEED AN ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT" and i said "I only said i didnt want to anymore i didnt even say anything" and then hes liek "THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO RITE NOW IS TO SHUT YOUR MOUTH!" and i dont know what to do because he gets mad so easy for no reason. HELP!

alrighty my dad is exactly the same way except i play softball too but when i was younger i wanted to try other sports and i didnt like them so i didnt wanna try anymore and hed say the exact same thing and i hated him at the time but now i relize that he thinks sports will help you in the long run because it teaches you about life and competition i know you probably wont but you really should get back into softball its a really great experience especially tournament teams and high school, and sometimes when i was younger and id do something wrong id cry about it and o man he would yell at me soo bad in front of everyone and everybody would feal sorry for me but now im kinda glad he did it because now i know how to handle situations and over come things but i know how you feal just wait one day youll make him proud and you wont have to deal with that anymore

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I have this cousin and she's in 6th grade and me and her are really good friends even though I'm 2 years older than her. Anyways, A LOT of my friends and older guys (like 14/15 yr old guys) thinks she's really hott and I think it's because she has big boobs for her age and to be honest, her bras are really padded. Well i'm sick of guys comin up to me and being like "god your cousins soo hott..she looks older than you!" and pretty much all my guy friends think she's hott and shes really not like "OMG SO PRETTY"..I just don't know what to tell them or what to tell her because it's so messed up..help please? oh yea, and my cuzin is eleven..

just be like alright if you wana be a pedifiler with a 6th grader or just tell them her boobs are fake and who gives a shit if she looks older well great she mite look older but shes not and if they wanna get with an 11 year old then that just shows how desperate they really are

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i feel kinda weird asking this, but i really need help.

my chest is practically non-existant. and when i say non-existant, i MEAN non-existant.... i'm barely even a double A and i'm 16! i can't wear dresses and my choices of shirts are extremely limited because of it. i need to know how i can make my boobs GROW! i'm a gymnast, so i don't think eating a lot of fatty foods would be a good idea.

thx!
i rate high for good answers!

thats why its because your a gymnast their boobs dont grow fast but hey im not saying quit cus well you cant just make your boobs grow either get a boob job (oww)or those fake things you put in your bra

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this is a question for the girls. I just recently straightened my hair for the first time and like ive never really styled it in anyway so i have no idea what to do with it now. its kinda long but sorta short like its not shoulder length but in front it goes down past my eyebrows and so long story short im wonderin wut kind of hairstyles girls like on guys and how to do those thanks much i rate very high.

well i kinda like the skater look where its kinda long like ear lenght and bangs to eyebrows and kinda like when you wake up just shake your hair and itl look messy but dont worry that looks good o short and spiked up

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Hi,
Teddy Baer Hugs and Magical Wishes to everyone from New Orleans. I am a Louisiana Storyteller and author of the newly released book, Theodore Da Baer. I am attempting to get a thread started across this great nation. Our children are growing up with too much violence. With your help, Teddy Baer Hugs and Magical Wishes will soon blanket this great nation of ours.

Please share your thoughts with me. Teddy Baer Hugs and Magical Wishes to you and yours. May your lives be filled with Teddy Baer Hugs and Magical Moments.

AJ
Me too,
Theodore

have bears fuck eachother that sounds good at least its not violence!

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I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.

My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.

My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?

Thanks I appreciate any answers!

you should be worried about it.. why dont you just confront him about it tell him that you think hes going to be flirting with this girl and ask him if he planned on doing it just ask him whats on your mind

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ok i am a girl 14 and my boyfriend is in arkansas (his hometown) and he hasnt even called me! friday was my birthday and his best friend called me and wished me a happy birthday but he didnt and he hasnt called me at all and i havent talked to him since the day he left for arkansas which was 12 days ago and i dont know if he his waiting for me to call or what ! i CANT break up with him i love him to much what should i do ?

well considering the fact that hes in arkansas maybe he doesnt have a phone to call you and you shouldnt just break up with some1 because they havnt called you thatd be pretty lame i mean when he comes back wat r u gonna go say "o hey were breaking up beacause you didnt call me" thats something fat people say

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Me & my guyfriend are going to the movies. We've never hung out one-on-one out of school so this is a big deal since I like him. I'm not sure if it's going to be uncomfortable for us. He likes some other girl (& she knows that) but people keep saying he likes me. Do you think that it'll be weird hanging out alone?

only if you make it wierd just dont even worry about it

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Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high.

dont shave against the hair youll have to shave every day but who cares

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I'm a 16 yr old girl. About a month and a half ago me and my bf broke up. I broke up with him because he kept running off and getting in trouble and was acting really immature. So now we are just friends, and seems comfortable with it but I know he isn't. One minute he acts like he is cool being friends with me, and then the next minute he begs for me back and to get a second chance. But I'm not giving him another chance because he can't ever change and I know it. I've told him many times that I'm not taking him back. At first I was nice, but I have even cussed him out because he was getting so clingy and annoying. He kept calling and showing up places where I would be just to "see me". He can't take the hint. I told him that if he doesn't want to be friends and can't handle that then we shouldn't talk anymore because he's acting like a stalker and it's getting really annoying. So I finally thought he had moved on. He got a new girlfriend and everything was cool. He wasn't calling as much anymore until out of nowhere he starts up again. He started calling all the fucking time and sending me creepy emails saying how sexy I am, how he misses me, and that he loves me.... while he has a fucking gf. So I told him off and then I find out he broke up with his gf and he is telling everyone we are getting back together. Is there any way that I can get this guy to take a hint b/c I have seriously tried everything and he just doesn't get it! Help!

get a boyfriend and if you cant then pretend like you have one or just tell your dad to go cuss him out and scare the shit out of him

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I just got out of 9th grade and my mother still will barely let me do anything. She won't let me go to the beach unless there's an adult there. I can't go anywhere with anyone unless she meets their parents first. She flips out when guys call. I wouldn't care so much but a lot of times a miss out on doing fun stuff because no one elses parents chaperone, they just drop their kids off places, and then I'm not allowed to go. Forget parties, because there are no parents she can confirm with that i'll be safe and not drinking or doing drugs. Does she expect me to never do anything in highschool? She doesn't trust my judgement, and doesn't understand that I won't make the same mistakes she did. I'm tempted to start lying 2 her and sneaking around so that I'm not stuck at home all weekend doing nothing. Soon my friends are going to be able to drive and she says I can't ride in their cars. I'm going to have a lot of boring weekends! How do I show her that I'm responsible so that I can go places? What can I say to her that will help her let go a little and not be so protective?

tell her that because of how she is its making you not want to listen at all when parents are that protective its just gonna suck for you when you getolder because you will have never been around anything so youll be out trying everything new bc youve never been aroudn it and will eventually fuck you up because you wont pay atention to school bc youll be having to much fun partyingshe should still know whats going on but not like she is

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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?

ok he really does only want sex you can tell hes trying to give it off like he doesnt care but he really does thats all most guys want

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K, so I have two male cousins.. both are 21. They are also cousins. So basically we all have parents that are siblings. One of them I'm only reminded of how much I like him when I see or hear about him, and the other I can not get off my mind. They probably wouldn't like me even if we WERENT family, but since we are there's absolutely nooooooo chance we'll get together. My questions are... has anyone else ever felt affection towards a family member (though I doubt anyone will answer that if they have). Is it "normal". I mean, I kinda know it's not "normal" but does it happen more often than people think? And how do I get past this? I know incest is frowned upon... but I'm just so stuck on them...

lol i duno i think my cousins are hott

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Lately, I have to pee all the time. I used to only have to go once a day. Now I have to go once every hour. Anyone know why this sudden change has occurred? Should I be worried? I'm 18 female if that helps.

thats happened to me before.. if it hurts when you go you might be on the verrge of getting a bladder in fection

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how can u be half virgin?

theres no such thing either uve had sex or not some people consider if youve done other stuff besides sex then your half a virgin but thats the most retartedest thing ive ever heard

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I love the intimacy of sharing a bed with my partner, but there's no denying that we get on each others nerves. I'm a reasonably light sleeper, and he snores. I also toss and turn quite a lot and take a while to get to sleep, whereas he seems to be a sleep (and snoring, keeping me awake!) within minutes.

Are we both doomed to a life of broken sleep, or is there a solution? Any suggestion on how to get him to stop snoring or to help me get to sleep more quickly would be appreciated.

u could try going into bed and falling asleep before he gets in there

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ok well me and my best friend(a boy) are really close. some of the time. well a couple of weeks ago someone asked me if we were going out and that we looked like a great couple and or we should go out. after that i started to see him differently. i dunno if i love him as my brother or as someone i would date. i think he mit like me though because he always says things like how i was so luck that he was my friend and would be luckier if he was my boyfriend or like when one of my friends asked me who i liked he would always say "me". plus like when we were hanging out at the prom he would like always be behind me just walking around with me. do i like him as my bf or as my bro ???i wouldnt want to have are friendship lost over this and i do like stuff about him . what do u think?????????

wow i can totaly relate to this ok well i had this best friend guy that i talked to every nite on the fone til 4 in the morning and we new everythhing about eachother and he always liked me but i always thought well hes just a friend well after a year after liking me he stoped but then i relized what a dumb ass i was for not seeing how great he was so i think you should go for it

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Ok well my friend and I when we were like 13 We kissed (she's a girl) because neither of us had been kissed before! But I realyy like this boy that likes me back a lot. We've gone on dates and kissed. But the kiss with him seem's real and when I kissed my friend it was just an example. Now my friend is OBSESSED with me, I mean I told her the kiss wasnt real and she is just obsessed! My boyfriend HATES her and now I'm starting to hate her! Please help!

is your friend a lesbian?????????? well if your getting anoyed with her all u have to do is tell her you dont wanna be friends with her

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alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it?

well its up to you if you wanna continue doing that but who cares what other people say its none of their business their probably just jealous anyways

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