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This may sound gross but...
Ok well my friend and I when we were like 13 We kissed (she's a girl) because neither of us had been kissed before! But I realyy like this boy that likes me back a lot. We've gone on dates and kissed. But the kiss with him seem's real and when I kissed my friend it was just an example. Now my friend is OBSESSED with me, I mean I told her the kiss wasnt real and she is just obsessed! My boyfriend HATES her and now I'm starting to hate her! Please help!
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um....Just tell your friend that you have a boyfriend that you'd just like to be friends, and ONLY friends. make her understand that. don't hate her just because you may think she likes you, and your boyfriend shouldn't hate your friend if he knows that he HAS you and he knows that you're not going to all of a sudden run off with your friend. he has no reason to be angry. Just settle your friend down, and talk to her. if she still doesn't care, then that's when you can get angry and cut the friendship. hope i helped.
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is your friend a lesbian?????????? well if your getting anoyed with her all u have to do is tell her you dont wanna be friends with her
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let me guess...your a girl right...and it was a girl girl kiss...and now shes obsessed ith ou in a sexual way??? If thats so...telll her you have a boyfriend, and you need to be able to spend quality time wiht him because its important to you and your relationship. if you do actaly hate her now....slowly stop to hang out iwth her but fotn do it so fast that it hurts her feelings. do it slowly
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If you feel like you hate her, just tell her nicely that you need some time apart. She's most likely questioning her sexuality, which is really hard to deal with, and I think a good friend would support her. Maybe try finding her a girlfriend? Or just tell her that you don't really mind if she wants to fantasize about you, but you don't want to be involved with her in that way. She might take that the wrong way, though. Basically, I think you should help her figure out what's going on with her (like if she really is going through a tough time with her sexuality), hook her up with someone, and spend some time away from her. Good luck, and don't stress, this isn't worth losing a friendship.
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eeh not to be on this topic but maybe shes bi... bc you i know you said shes like obsessed and i think its kinda obvious... no offense...
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Dont be her friend.
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tell your obsessed friend that you like her as just a friend and not a girl friend. that you like this boy as a boyfriend and if she can't handle that then tell her I guess we can't be friends.
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You should sit her down and have a serious talk with her, tell her that you are, as I call it 'strickly dickly' and that you don't feel an attraction to females. Put it lightly, don't be too harsh, but that talk is definantly necessary, and if she won't listen then maybe, no matter how hard it is, you should stop hanging out with her, but always be nice to her.
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Ew, you kissed a girl! Ok sorry! bUT WHAT i THINK IS SHE'S A LESBIAN AND SHE THOUGHT YOU WERE ONE to so now she totally diggs you! Ok that's all i got! Good luck!
~Maddy~
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