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Ive had glasses since I was three and finally im getting contacts. Im going for an appointment to learn how to properly stick them in and stuff. I know they'll be able to really answer my questions but can anyone who has them tell me what it was like the first few days the had them? Some people told me it was painless, most others said they were in alot of pain & that it burned. I just wanna know so I can be prepared for whatever feeling I get. thanks, I'll rate.

Meg

well meg I have contacts and it will only hurt if one you put them in up side down or if the lens is dirty. but it will sting for about 30 secs and your eye's will be blood shot for a few days

Somtimes in my private place i dont know witch but somtimes there a (bump or zit).I`ve never had sex.And i`ve never shave over there.When the doctor takes your urin sample isn`t that soupose to tell if you have any dises over there.Plese help me I am so confused.

what I think it is razor rash [if you shave there] or skin eritation hope I helped

feel free to ask a qustion in my in box ~_~

my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop

my cat does that too here's something I did go in a room with a door a shut it the cat mit cry for a moment but will stop

Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high.

the red bumps are razor rash that can be cleared up in a couple of weeks if you stop shaving there and change razors that mit be the problem.

hope I helped feel free to drop a qustion in my inbox.

i absolutely ♥ my bf. but lately weve been growing apart. what can i do to get the 'spark' back into our relationship?

to get that spark back you guys need to hang out more get to know each other more . hope I helped

Hey im 14 and i really enjoy having girl friends not just for the kissing and stuff(dont get me wrong i think its nice) just for someone to like alot and talk to alot and do stuf with! What are some ways to get someone???

don't worry you will find a gf soon just keep your eyes open.don't give up ^^

if you have any Q's to ask me just put them in my inbox

alright you peoples.. lately.. i've been having BAD makeout cravings! and i cant get a bf.. so um how can i get a bf?? how do i make people like me?? anyone will do to help with this one! and if there are any BOYS on advicenators reading this PUH-LEASE help me on this one-- any boys tell me what guys like.. thanks!! :)

I really can't help you entill you find out that boys like you for who you are not who you pretend to be

hope I helped if you need more help send Q in my inbox

can anyone give me advice/critisism on this poem that i have to hand in for school? what do you think of it?

she walks along the beach
with her hair blowing in the soft, cool wind
searching for seashells along the endless path
as she glides her toes in the hot sand
looking out at the ocean, her eyes catch a wave
it crashes against the water with the reasurrance of another
glaring out at the ocean, her life seems so simple
yet the dark ocean is filled with depth and wonders
questions that will never be answered, and a promised
continuance of the peaceful mind that the beach
will always bring her

dude I am but I realy didn't like I am sorry

ok im really hungry and im home alone. there really isnt alot of food in the house but we have tostito corn chips and i wanna make some kind of dip with them. if you have any easy dip recipes for tostitos with stuff that can be easily found in the house please give me one!! i have alot of mexican shredded cheese but thats really not enough to make a good dip. i have some more stuff on hand..just any dip recipe for tortillas would work. thanks!

this is one of my favs.

get some cream cheese and salsa and shredded cheese.
put the cream on a plate the the salsa on top with a pinch of cheese on top then in the microwave for 30 seconds

I'm having my Sweet Sixteen party this month and I was wondering if you had any ideas for ways to keep my guests entertained during the 4-5 hour period. I'm holding it at my house, I have a buffet, a tiki bar, a seating area, music, and giant torches. The only activities I have planned are a candle lighting ceremony, and cutting the cake and opening presents (those will help waste time), then I decided to have a bellydancing contest (just for laughs), and then a hula-hooping contest. My theme is Hawaiian/Luau. Please help me find more ways to get the time to fly by!

mabey do one of the mystey hula story things I had one and the time flew and had fun

OK. I have this little problem because I like this guy who is younger than me by like 10 months. People say it's not cool to date younger guys but I don't care. So here's my problem: I like him a lot, but I wanna be more than internet friends. I know him and he knows me, we go to the same school, but we don't talk in school, only online. And one time, my friends told him that I liked him and he said "Don't say that or else I'll throw up in my mouth" but that was a long time ago and he said sorry for it and I forgave him but now I'm feeling mized emotions again. I like him a lot, but at the same time I wanna hate him. What should I do? Still talk to him? Not talk to him at all? Or not be friends? I'll rate anything please!! I really need help...

1. what's your heart saying to you.
but you must of done that all ready now 2. don't lisen to your friends they probley gellin about you liking someone.you need to talk to this guy see what he thinks of you not what your friends say they mit be lieing.

best of luck and I hope I help

i need to write a poem for my creative writing class. it can be about anything in the whole world. but, the thing is, is that i can't just write a poem off the top of my head like that. is anyone here really good at poetry that can make one for me real quick? it doesnt have to be long, but at least 10 lines, and it can be about anything at all. i really need help on this, ive been trying to think of something for the past hour. thanks so much!!

write about things you like.

would it be better for a brunette to go to a red shade? most of my friends are saying red instead of blonde...what do yall think is better?

i say go with what you want but... red is what I think

Ok well my friend and I when we were like 13 We kissed (she's a girl) because neither of us had been kissed before! But I realyy like this boy that likes me back a lot. We've gone on dates and kissed. But the kiss with him seem's real and when I kissed my friend it was just an example. Now my friend is OBSESSED with me, I mean I told her the kiss wasnt real and she is just obsessed! My boyfriend HATES her and now I'm starting to hate her! Please help!

tell your obsessed friend that you like her as just a friend and not a girl friend. that you like this boy as a boyfriend and if she can't handle that then tell her I guess we can't be friends.

There is a guy that I like and I’ve never kissed before and I was thinking of going for a French kiss if I get to kiss him, but then I though about it and I started wondering if it’s a turn off for guys if you French kiss them on the first kiss. Can you, please, give me your opinion? And my second question is, do guys judge you on the way you kiss, is it very important to them if you are a good kisser or not?

I think stick with normal kissing and see what happens next best of luck

i am having a problem i am goin out with a boy but sometimes i really like him then sometimes i dnt i dnt no wat to do pleez help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know what you are going though and here's what's goin on maby this is a message 4rm your heart telling you he is not the one 4 you

I always have no idea in the morning on what eye shadow to put on. The main thing is I don't know what colors look good with my hair color. I have a light brownish-blonde hair with a nice light tan. and what color would look good with my lips?

pesonally I would go with either natural or a light pink hope it helps

Okay, well.. this was my first time having sex. but it was like a spur of the moment thing and i didnt even realize it was going to happen. but i was like no i cant get pregnant but he said that if he didnt keep it in long enough to ejaculate that there was no chance that i could get pregnant, is this true?

that's a lie any amount of sex even 2-3 mins and you could be pregnant

i'm 15 and my last serious bf was when i was in the 7th grade. i'm not shy, i talk a lot, i get along with everyone,i have a good sense of humor, i don't want to sound stuck up but i'm not ugly. my two best friends have bfs one of them has many pimples on her face, my other friend has been know as the ugly duckie. their bfs are really cute. is there something wrong with me, that i can't get a bf? i feel so alone and behind my smile there is a girl depressed that has a problem with self harm, and has no one to talk to, and feels unloved!

don't worry your true love will come soon

any HOME - REMEDIES to get rid of pimples dat work kinda fast thanx ill rate high !!! member HOME-REMEDIES !!!!

here's my little secret fix that's quick and easy , get a banana and about 2table spoons of honey put the banana in a bowl and sqush it with a fork not to much or it will too watery and and the honey.

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