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plz help i rate high!
i'm 15 and my last serious bf was when i was in the 7th grade. i'm not shy, i talk a lot, i get along with everyone,i have a good sense of humor, i don't want to sound stuck up but i'm not ugly. my two best friends have bfs one of them has many pimples on her face, my other friend has been know as the ugly duckie. their bfs are really cute. is there something wrong with me, that i can't get a bf? i feel so alone and behind my smile there is a girl depressed that has a problem with self harm, and has no one to talk to, and feels unloved!
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The depressed part of you is not hidden that well. They can probably sense it and are staying away. Cheer up! Listen more talk less. I think you will be surprised by the results. :)
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Listen, you shouldn't need a guy to make yourself happy. Because when you act jealous of your friends having boyfriends you probably come off to everyone as deperate. And no one wants a desperate chick. Plus, the fact that your dissing your "friends" shows that you must be really jealous of them having boyfriends. And if having a boyfriend is such "a big thing" to you, then maybe your not mature enough to handle even having a relationship with a guy in the first place. All I have to say is, if I were your friends and heard what you had said, I certainly wouldn't want to be your friend anymore. Did you ever think that maybe the problem is not with the outer appearance of your friends. Its their inner self. They probably have boyfriends because their boyfriends aren't so superficial and just look for outer beauty to "score a girl". They are probably the sweetest girls and thats why they have wonderful boyfriends and you don't. So instead of pouting around about not having a boyfriend, maybe you should think about how rude you are being to your friends, because personally, your lucky you have friends based on the attitude you have. So if I were you, I wouldn't be worried about getting a boyfriend. I would be more worried about keeping the friends that I have.
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Dont feel unloved the right guy will come along and u will be very lucky.
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don't worry your true love will come soon
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The guys must be thinking you are taken since you got a great personality like that and you are pretty. Try to flirt, be yourself, stay funny, & just act like your single! Don't be hard on yourself there are many guys in this world and one is just for you! I hope I helped you any further questions just leave me a message in my inbox! :) From the fresh princess of advicenators (ToNy!)
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Stop Thinking Your The Shit ... Get Over Yoursef + Be happy not jelous for Your friends duhh
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hey you dont need a guy to make you happy trust me the guys will come and go and theres most likely no way that any of the guys in highschool will turn out to be any1s husband i think you should just stop saying stuffa bout your friends and quit wanting one so badly its when you least expect it when youll finaly get what you want just focus on other things to make you happy
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Dont worry, your time will come. i KNOW how hard it is to keeep waiting for the perfect guy...its been a long time for me too. just be patient...you dont need a guy to make you happy! enjoy hangin out with friends, going to teen dance parties, flirting with guys at the movies or at the mall..just having fun...you'll meet someone when you least expect it ..and the wait will be worth it! im in the same boat as you with the waiting..but dont let it ruin your life.
as for the self harm issue you mentioned..its a serious thing and you should stop...no guy will want to date a girl with slit wrists and big emotional problems...
please dont say you have nobody to talk to...you have us here at advicenators, guidance conselor, hopefully your friends (or at least one close one?) a trusted teacher,..etc.
you sound like a great person..just hang in there, live life to the fullest, and when that guy comes along ..it will be worth the wait.
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guys are afraid to date girls better than them. dont worry bout it. boys suck..throw rocks at them. <3
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Well, no offence, but maybe its because you call your friends ugly duckies and talk about their pimples... its just a thought. But, also.. you really don't need a guy to make you feel happy. I don't think there is anything wrong with you, maybe its just that you need to find a guy you like personaly... start flirting around. For all you know there's a guy out there that likes you! You have no idea... so don't get depressed over it! Be happy and get down wit ur gurrllzzz. lmao!
Hope I helped ;-)
~*ash
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