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HELP
ok i am a girl 14 and my boyfriend is in arkansas (his hometown) and he hasnt even called me! friday was my birthday and his best friend called me and wished me a happy birthday but he didnt and he hasnt called me at all and i havent talked to him since the day he left for arkansas which was 12 days ago and i dont know if he his waiting for me to call or what ! i CANT break up with him i love him to much what should i do ?
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Arkansas is a state. Duh. He is sending signals that he doesn't like you. Break up with him.
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well call him and ask what's going on. you deserve to know why he didn't call you on your birthday! cuz its your birthday and your boyfriend should call you! I hope everything goes ok!
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is he hurt? is he injured? is he sick? what if he had an accident? does he even care? does he even love you? questions like this prolly run through your mind at this point. and all i can say as a guy is that we do sometimes forget to call people but for 12 days well we don't take that long unless we're really sick, or just don't want to be with the girl anymore. cause if i was sick and miles from my girl i'd call her just to get sympathy points, same if i were injured. he doesn't seem to be doing anything at all. so i think he's trying to say something. sorry to break it to you but he might just not be into you.
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well considering the fact that hes in arkansas maybe he doesnt have a phone to call you and you shouldnt just break up with some1 because they havnt called you thatd be pretty lame i mean when he comes back wat r u gonna go say "o hey were breaking up beacause you didnt call me" thats something fat people say
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Well, I *MUST* say.. I don't know WHAT he could POSSIBLY be doing that would disable him fRom picking up the telephone foR AT LEAST 30 seconds a night to call you!!! BBUUTTTTT... in all faiRness, I *highly suggest waiting to get the scoop fRom him befoRe doing anything dRastic. As bad as this seems, you definitely can't decide by youRself to just up and end the Relationship when you don't even know what's going on. Do you know when he's expected home?? I would say that if you don't heaR fRom him by a week afteR he's aRRived home... he's hinting you.. =/ I wish you the best!!
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it depends on what you wanna do when you come down to it.
you can either sit there by the phone, waiting for hours on end for him to call, or you can pick up the phone and call him yourself. that's the most sure way of getting ahold of him. and if he answers, ask him what's going on and why he hasn't been calling you. you don't need to break up with him before you have all the facts. just see what's going on.
<3 steph
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