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hey yall! im jen and im 15. I love to try and help people the best I can. It's what I live for. I've made some mistakes, but have grown from them which I believe helps me help others. I'll try the best I can to help you! I heart u!

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does braces hurt when you get them put on and when they take them off...thanx

they hurt when i got them on. But they dont hurt when you take them off. But thats just me
good luck!

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im trying to decide im bi or gay. i like this guy ill tell u his name its eddie. but hes not the point iv been second guessin my self iv always thought i was straight then recently guys became attractive n girls stillwere. but in the last couple days i dont think i can realy picture myself with a girl. so i need help on how i should decide if i am bi or gay.

mizike

You can’t really decide whether you are gay or not. You really just have to take the flow of things and see what happens. You will like who you like! Sometimes you’re just more romantically comfortable around some people than you are others. Good luck!

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Okay well im in 8th grade, class of 13-2boys 11girls (yes it sucks), and we're graduating next week.. we've all been together since pre-k so we're all extremely close and well i like one of the boys and i want to tell him really bad but im scared it will change EVERYTHING, i was gunna wait til the summer but still i dont know how, im not really shy im somewhat of the crazy/wild type but when it comes to telling someone that u like them im like all weird i guess.. but yeah idk what to do

well you have to take things into consideration. Are you willing to risk everything for something more? Would you be able to stand not knowing what could've been? Just ask yourself questions like that and I'm sure you'll come to the right answer! If you do decide to tell him, and things don't go as planned it's ok! If you guys are as close as you say you are nothing will change if you don't let it! Just take a deep breath and relax! It will all be fine! Hope I helped and good luck!

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All right.. I'm 17 and a girl

So there's this boy.. we've been hangin out a lot lately and it's been a lot of fun like he comes over late at night sometimes and we just hang out in my backyard and talk.. I think I might like him..but I just got in trouble and I'm not sure how long I'm gonna be grounded for or anything..but I still wanna see him..and I don't want him to like someone else.. what do I do?

well if you're not grounded from the phone or computer keep in touch with him! Don't loose what you guys already have! Does he go to your school? If he does that's great cuz you guys can still hang out and talk! Flirt with him and I doubt he will start liking someone else!

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Well, there's this guy that I like and I know he likes me, his friends have told me.All of his friends think that we should go out, but I can't gop out with him because of my friends.See...I'm into Cheerleading and danceing, and hes into skateboarding...two different worlds, and his not the most popular guy either, and well, I am, and I can't really go out with somebody like him. What should I do?I really like him, should I go out with him or do what my friends want and not even talk to him? HELP!!!

well if you really like him, it shouldnt matter that you guys are from "two different worlds"! if you like him and he likes you just go for it! if your friends care about you at all theyll understand that he makes you happy and they should be supportive! hope i helped and good luck!

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this guy told me he could see me as a potential girlfriend... well how long do you think it would take him to ask me out.. and what could i do to make him like me more, so he would ask me out sooner?? please help

it depends on the guy. if hes not very patient then he will ask you out sooner and if he is it might be longer. if you want to get him to ask you out sooner though, try flirting with him more and he'll be more attracted to you! hope i helped!

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16/f
ummmm...like the subject says, i've never been kissed. and it gets to me. everytime i think about it, i get all depressed and start to think that i'm ugly and that no one will ever like me and i'll never be loved. how do i stop thinking about this?! i don't wanna feel like this anymore....

thx in advance
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awww it's ok! I'm 15 and I've never had a first kiss! There's many other people out there that are probably thinking the same thing you are, so don't worry about it! I'm sure you're not ugly! One of my good friends is very pretty and it makes me uber jealous, but she's never kissed! You're probably just waiting for prince charming to come along and that's awesome because it will just make your first kiss more magical! Don't kiss a guy just because you think you have to! Wait and the right moment will come and I'm sure you will remember it forever.

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i really like my friend. we flirt alot and talk about stupid things and i dont think he likes me because
1) i know who he likes and its not me (but i dont mean to sound concieted sometimes i say i like sum1 just so i dont have to admit that i like them)
2) hes 1 of my best friends and hes like a brother to me.

16/f help me please!

I'm sorry! I'm going through the same thing, so I know how you feel. You need to tell him though. Otherwise you could be thinking to yourself five years from now what could have been. I know its a risk, but you just have to get up the courage and do it! I hope everything goes ok!

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ok i am a girl 14 and my boyfriend is in arkansas (his hometown) and he hasnt even called me! friday was my birthday and his best friend called me and wished me a happy birthday but he didnt and he hasnt called me at all and i havent talked to him since the day he left for arkansas which was 12 days ago and i dont know if he his waiting for me to call or what ! i CANT break up with him i love him to much what should i do ?

well call him and ask what's going on. you deserve to know why he didn't call you on your birthday! cuz its your birthday and your boyfriend should call you! I hope everything goes ok!

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