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Weird Friends
Ok, so I have this friend and I didnt know she had myspace until the other night. Well, I found her myspace and in her blogs, she had an entry about "How To Get Rid Of Old Friends?". Well, in the entry she was talking bad about two of my good friends and how she dont want to be their friend anymore. I sent her a message and told her what I say and that I think I should tell my friends about it. Should I? How can I handle this in the right manner? I want to do the right thing. Also, should I even be her friend anymore if she is going to act like this? Help!
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handle it by not handling it. its none of your business, its between her and your other friends.
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well you should tell your friends because it would be wronge not 2 and if i was u i would not be her friend because she could go and talk behind your back one day
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Well, basically, its her decision on who she wants to be friends with. In my opinion, I think that was pretty shallow of her to put that on her myspace. I think you should first talk to her about why she doesnt want to be friends with them anymore, and after hearing her reasoning, explain to her that she needs to talk to the two friend directly. Maybe, she'll have a good reason for not wanting to be friends with them and if she doesnt then i believe you should think over whether or not she would be the greatest friend to you either.
Tell me how it goes..I hope you dont lose a good friend
Janay
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Okay, i think that you should tell your friends to look at her myspace thing, like when your on IM then be like oh have you seen (lets call her maggie) Maggie's myspace profile? and then send them the link tell but a when you send them the link send them the link of her blogs. I know it's sneeky and it's not the best way to go about it. I wouldn't have the guts to do it myself though, it's kind mean to 'Maggie'. Another way to go about it is to talk to the friends or 'maggie' in a calm manner. if you don't like these ideas come back to me.
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It doesnt seem like shes a good friend, actually i think the correct word for her would be "bitch"
Ur lucky your name isnt on her list of "old friends to ditch"
I suggest being a loyal good friend to the 2 friends she talked bad about and telling them what they deserve to know
It isn't good to keep this a secret from them becuz it could later on blow up in your face
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