Member Since: May 30, 2005
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Last Update: July 26, 2005
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Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH (link)
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Sweetie, what I think you should do is go to his house as soon as possible and asking him if you did something to change his feelings about you. You need to talk to him about how he feels because I think something came up..I hope this works out
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Alrite... i met this one guy online. and hes amazing. we've talked about everthing. and like, it went really well two weeks ago. he even said that he liked me. but this week has felt so werid. we havent talked much and now, i look at his pro and it says he has a gf. im kinda crushed. he meant alot to me, and i want to be friends, but he wont im me or anything. im confused help pleaseee. (link)
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Okay, what I think that you should do is IM him at a good time and ask him how he feels. Be like "I thought you had feelings for me, I want to know what has happened between us" At least you two will be on the same page to at least be friends. Maybe he has an explanation. Tell me how it goes.
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well uh ive had some relationsships this year on and off and i really want to have a serious girlfriend for once i guess im just looking for a girl in all the wrong places wat do u think i should do about my girl problem? (link)
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What kinds of things do you like to do? Find a girl who is interested in the things you like, because that gets conversations started.
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my best friend and me share everything but theres times when i cant seem to even talk to her without her getting pissed..like i'll be playing around and she'll randomly flip..somtimes shes just joking but somtimes she rly does get pissed and like will refuse to talk to me yet still wont hang up..ik it sounds weird and all but i dont wana loosed her and idk wut i'd do wihtout her, i just want everything to be ok between us (link)
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what kind of things does she get pissed about?
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for what seems like forever, he means everything to me. We started having sex about 3 months into our relationship, i didnt feel rushed or anything because he made me feel so comfortable, when we first started we always used condoms, he was so afraid not to. But now we don't, at all. Sometimes we have sex 4 times a day, on average about once or twice a day. When he doesn't wear a condom he says it feels alot better, I can't really tell though. When it comes close to getting my period I freak, i get no sleep and I worry so much. I should have gotten it about today but I didnt. Do you think I should be this worried? (link)
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Actually you should be worried. Have you tried taking birth control?? Or even the morning after pill will work? I understand that he might not want to use a condom but you need to. You need to talk to him, "pulling-out" doesnt always work. And I dont think you would like a child right now, and he prolli doesnt either. If you have any other questions on bc or anything just ask me...i hope things work out. You dont want to deal with the guilt anymore.
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ok well i am 15 years old on wensday july 20 2005 and well i have 4 older brothers and 1 older sister and my brother dylon who is 21 he missed 7 of my b days in a row he keeps on going back to jail ha got out june 20 and went back in july 15 he missed it again me and him get along soooo good and he got my back he treats me like a little sister my other brothers treat me like i am just there buddy .me and my dad dont get along at all and since summer started so much shit has happend i have been sltitting my wrist an my other brother west just went to jail who is 25. well i am alresdy sick of life and if it gets any worse i dunno i just wont to give up. like sooo much has been haping i aint gunna say it all because i could go on for a while. i gotin to the point where i dont no what to do anymore and i treid using the kids help line on line but they never replied. i have a boy friend who treats me good he drinks alot thuogh but it doesent bother me... i use to be into drugs but i quit most of them.my sister and i use to get along realy good she was my best friend intell she met this guy since then we dont talk she is pregnet after them being together for 15 months.like i just dont no what to do about anything i am still in school going into grade 10. i am sorry this is getting long but i need help realy bad .in the paper the other day there were 27 quistions and if you were 7 of them you needed counslind i was 21 of them. i cry almost everynight. i cant do it no more what should i do plaese help me....please
katy (link)
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Katy you are a wonderful person for still making it through all of that. Times get hard and I can even say myself that I personally have been through your problems...I shouldnt say "problems" because when I went through them they felt like so much more. I cant just give you advice on here..because if I tried to sum everything up on this little website you wouldnt get better. You need a friend, a great one. To take things step by step with you because thats the only way I made it out of what I was going through. I know exactly how you feel and if you would like me to be there for you I can..Im a little older than you and Im also a girl. I think some one to talk to..to get everything out, to learn how to deal with each issue is what you need. It doesnt seem to me that you have anyone close to talk to. I would love to be there for you, my email is angel_eyes9304@yahoo.com and my screen name is letmiix3u. Please let be help you through this difficult time. And if you decide in no reply then I hope everything becomes better for you, because you probably hit bottom right now...and the only way from rock bottom is up. I promise.
Janay
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ok so my best friend is the kinda person i can tell everything...we are always talking about stuff and are like the closest ppl ever...but sometimes i have to watch wut i say b/c she'll spaz on me...if i try to tell her this or talk to her about it, it makes it worse...what should i do? (link)
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Well, I think that your friend sometimes is a little sensitive towards situations or problems. Maybe you just cant talk to her about it...I mean even if you could it still probably would not change how she deals with things. What kinds of things make her spaz out, give me some examples and i could help you better!
Janay
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k,i really need some points on how to tell him to talk 2 me in a certain way,without sounding like im talking to much control over our relationship... (link)
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well tell him that you feel unsuperior when he tells you what to do...dont say "you are too controling" tell him "I FEEL bad when you talk to me like that" he will understand, if you need some detailed conversation then go ahead and IM me on letmiix3u
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hey, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a long time! he's perfect, really he is! the only thing that bothers me about him is that he wants to talk to me ALL OF THE TIME, like i will spend ALL day with him and as soon as i get home he will call me, and i dont know how to tell him that we talk too much because i understand its because he loves me, but sometimes its just that I need a little break after being with him, and some sleep! he will literally call me at 2 in the morning and just want to talk, and my parents get so pissed so now i keep the phone by my bed just incase. I dont know how to tell him this because I love him so much and I dont want to hurt him. Hopefully you have some advice, thanks. (link)
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alright heres the deal...tell him that you dont want anything to happen between you too, and you dont want either of you to get sick of eachother. You can have your ways around it...trust me you just need to know how you can get him to understand. I have different ways for different scenarios. Go ahead and IM me on letmiix3u...trust me i went through the exact same thing
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I have this boyfriend and he's been talking to this other grl Sydney quite a lot. Now I trust Mike, but I don't trust Sydney. She constantly calls him and talks to him. But Sydney has a boyfriend that she's cheated on and tryed to get with other guys quite a lot. And to top this off Mike might be moving right down the road from her. And I've told him a million times how I've felt and he just thinks im overeacting. I kind of think he has a little bit of feelings for her too.
please help me out or IM me at stiffypuff420
thanks- Chels (link)
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i think that you should ask him if he has feelings for her...try and get it out of him
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okay,me and my boyfriend loves each other but in a relationship there is always problems.when we talk on thephone he always talks to me like im his daughter or somethin,like he would tell me to shut up ,or say i always be lyin ,then he we would say he love me wat do i do?? (link)
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Me and my ex were exactly like that...but I need to know if you explained how you feel yet? If you havent do you need some pointers on how...?
Go to my advice column and tell me, then I can surely help
Janay
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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all. (link)
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OMG! i am the exact way that you are. I understand where you are coming from, I get nervous around girls too, but i think that its just because you feel like you have to be so good for them or they wont like you, or you have to say the right things all the time. Its good that you feel good around boys, HEY!..if you feel comfortable around them and can be yourself then it doesnt matter the sex difference. It is normal for this to happen. If you would like to hang out with girls more than maybe you should act yourself around them and see which ones understand you. Maybe you might find some girls that are dealing with the same problem as you.
Janay
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My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous. (link)
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Well, if your looking for comfort in this area then I think that you should talk to her about it. I think that she will make you feel ten times better about this whole situation. She will understand and make you feel more secure about this. And it doesnt matter if she has more friends, you have a great one, and a great friend is better than a million "just" friends...right?
Feel better about yourself, your probably great!
Janay
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if my boyfriend live long away apart(not that much he lives in alexandria v.a,i live in d.c) and he wont me to come see him and i wont him to see me because i couldnt see him anyway cuz my parents wont let me go that far so wat do i do and i really love him truly
im 13 and he is 16 (link)
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Sweetie, if that boy cares about you as much as you care about him...he would take his happy lil ass to come see you. That's honestly the only option right now. Have you not explained that to him yet?
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Okay.. I know this question has probably been asked before, but I have never found an answer that actually answers my question.
I've been having sex for almost a year now. I can never actually feel an orgasm. I don't get that "feeling" people talk about.
Why is this..
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Well, that depends...if you have sex alot then thats the exact reason. You cant feel it anymore because its been the same penis this whole time, and your used to it. Or it could also be because your partner is smaller than what you are...get what Im saying?? Maybe, if you want the "feeling" you need to either slow it down if your doing it alot, or if he is small then your just going to have to go oral with this one. It's weird but thats how it has to be. If you have anymore questions about it...IM me at letmiix3u or ask me more about it.
Good luck!
Janay
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Ok, so i like this guy, but he said he likes my friend and he told that friend he likes me. Whats going on!?
Plus, my friend and i are nothing alike. (link)
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he is just trying to get the whole kitchen...i think you and your friend need to talk to eachother about him, cuz somethings up and hes just trying to get both of you.
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i am 14 and want to work at cvs. do you think they will hire me this young? and how much money might i make in a 6 day week? (link)
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sorry..but you wont get hired, usually you have to wait til your 15 at the least and even then you probably wont get hired anywhere
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what do u think the right size is for a guys dick (link)
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it depends on how old they are
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Hey whats up ok id appreciate if you all read this it hurt's so much to esplain but it would mean the world to me if you answered it, I will rate evryone a 5just for reading my problem!!! Thanks!
-Ok my name is stephanie I am 15yrs old and I live in jacksonville florida, I have lived here since I was a baby I was born and raised here. Thing is I have a boy im inlove with and I know its hard to find someone that you will love and care for and stuff but I really do! It all started in the 6th grade I had alot of fun and stuff and I met Josh I didn't really liked him and stuff but we were always best freind's and I told him everything and we would always mess around with each other and stuff. But we went out for like a day but I told him he was too much of a friend to me. So then like we were bet friends alll 6th grade, Then round the corner 7th grade came, And I still kept in touch all summer and we got together and I swear he was my first kiss, first serious bf everything (and yes im still a virgin). But yeah we gott into 8th grade and went on with out realtionship so we were like best friends at the same time but like middle school sweethearts if that makes since. We kinda grew up with eachother and changed like with each other and like see the thing is he moved last summer, And I talk to him like occcasionally on the computer and he talks to me and like I called him like few monthes ago to check up on him and we called each other today. And I kno he is coming in 10days to Jacksonville to visit. Thing is its hard to say but I love him alot and like ive only been in like what 2 relationships since me n josh split cause he had to move. And like I dont kno something tells me he wont be stayin here cause he told me he doesnt know if he is gonna move down here yet cause like his mom is poor and stuff and his sis is in college and he doesnt wanna b like in her way cause she is busy and stuff. So like I dont kno what to do honestly im freakin out and I know if he comes back likehe is to visit im gonna get even more attached to him then I already am! But he said he will try n talk to his sis bout it, But I dont kno her so I really cant judge her actions if he wanted to move back! I really wish there was something I could say that is really sweet and will make him come back!! PLEASE ANYONE I LOVE THIS BOY TO DEATH JUST ANSWER ME!!! I have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO so please answer me! I appreciate it all and Ill rate you all a 5!
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Alright, love is complicated..but you probably can understand that. But if you really want to hear the truth. When you fall in love, like really fall in love you, you have to understand that you have to take risks. Now I dont mean great risks all the time, but they can be small ones too. I think that you should wait for him, your 15...which means only 3 more years until you can be together. If its meant to be then its meant to be. I wish I could tell you that tomorrow is going to be great, and I wish that I could tell he would be coming back tomorrow. But what I CAN tell you is this:
Everything is going to be okay in the end, and if its not okay..then its not the end.
tell me how it goes sweetie, good luck with everything
Janay
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okay so it might sound a stupid question but ive got a real important football match coming up and if we win we am the champions of our league. The only problem is im on tag meaning i gotta be in the house before 8.00 its a corfu by the police. but my football game starts then i cant get my manager to change the time should i just play or what. (link)
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well there will always be football..except when you cant play at all when the police have you. Keep your ass inside, I can understand that you really want to go to that game. But dont compromise the other things in life that mean alot to you..because you can lose those too.
Janay
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