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me and my future husband
okay,me and my boyfriend loves each other but in a relationship there is always problems.when we talk on thephone he always talks to me like im his daughter or somethin,like he would tell me to shut up ,or say i always be lyin ,then he we would say he love me wat do i do??
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Let him know that it bothers you. Tell him you dont want to be dating you're dad. And that you feel like hes talking down to you. Sometimes if hes jokinq thats fine, but if hes constantly callinq u a liar and telling you to shut up, well thats wrong. =) So find out if hes kidding or not. Cuz somtimes guys use i love you to win a girls heart back and erase teh bad they've done.
hope i helped.
Good luck
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WELL YO0 NEED T0 SIT HIM D0WN AND TALK T0 HIM FACE T0 FACE! TELL HIM H0W YO0 FEEL AND IF HE CANT REALIZE WHAT HE IS D0ING THEN MAYBE HES N0T THE RIGHT 0NE F0R YO0 =[ I KN0W THAT WILL BE VERY HARD F0R YO0 T0 D0 BUT I MEAN W0ULDNT YO0 WANT A BF WH0 TREATS YO0 G00D INSTEAD 0F BAD?? I MEAN IF YO0 ARE PLANNING A FUTURE WITH HIM YO0 D0NT WANT HIM T0 BEC0ME ABUSIVE CAUSE I KN0W 0F GIRLS WH0 G0T ABUSED BY THEIR BFS BECAUSE 0F H0W THEY ACTED [KINDA H0W YO0R BF IS - HE TAKES C0NTR0L 0F YO0 AND PRETTY S00N ITS LIKE YO0R HIS LIL SERVENT!] JUST THINK AB0UT IT SEE WHAT YO0 WANT T0 D0! BUT JUST MAKE SURE YO0 TALK T0 HIM AB0UT !! H0PE I HELPED ♥
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well if he says shut up and means it then u should tell him to shut up and tell him that u don't apriciate it and that you aren't going to just sit there and let him get away with saying that
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well yhu should tell him how yhu feel. if yhu dont tell him he wiont noe nd he wont make it a point to change it. if yhur gonuh marry him he needs to noe or it will progress into a bigger problem as time goes on. break it to him softly. good luck!♥
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umm..hes walking all over you..and you shouildnt let him..you dont let any boy walk over you..your the imporant one..you dont let any guy tell you what to do..but you need to talk to him and tell him that your not his daughter..your his girlfriend..and you need to tell him that you hate it when he tells you shut up..and tell him that you really dont appreciate it..but really no boy shouild be doing that!!and hes your future husband!???i hope not!! well you do what you feels right but you really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel!!
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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Well what i would tell him is if you want to continue to be with me you are going to stop talking to me like im your daugeter dont be telling me what to do if he continues to do this you are just let him go!!
Hope i Helped
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OK DITCH HIM! he sounds like a total loser!
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Me and my ex were exactly like that...but I need to know if you explained how you feel yet? If you havent do you need some pointers on how...?
Go to my advice column and tell me, then I can surely help
Janay
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your boyfriend should never control you. NEVER! he should respect you and let you do whatever the hell you want..if he is playin around with you like that then it is ok but if he means it then he really isnt worth it. if he calls you a lier then he doesnt trust you... you guys should be able to trust each other.. i think the best thing for you to do is break up with him... but if you like him then try talkin to him and tellin him how you feel..i hope everything works out for you and i hope i helped you out..
*~Stephanie~*
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