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friends with boys
I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.
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no thts normal. everyone likes boys. sometimes i feel that guys understand me more than girls. it just depends on the situation. you have friends that are girls too so its not like you only become friends with guys. so nothing to worry about. sometimes guys can just relate to you more than girls can, and sometimes girls can just be stupid and not relate to other girls. (i am a girl, sry for admitting girls can be stupid)so to sum it up, its all good-nothing to worry about!
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There is nothing wrong with that. You just relate to boys better. So maybe your a tomboy or something? Well there is nothing wrong with that.
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Most of my better friends are guys. I just feel "safe" around them because I grew up with a lot more guys. There is no problem with that. Hang out with girls though, because later o, you will have to deal with a lot of crap if you're not, believe me. Just have a few close ones though, you don't have to have a lot. Boys are awesome :]. I understand.
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OMG same i love hanging out with boys (no it's not like we are hitting on each other but they are just sooo much easier to talk to then girls) so no its alright i would just be friends with them both and just hang out with them both (not at the same time) if you hang out with them together let me tell you boys change soooo much they won't talk to you like they will be nice and everything when your not around your other friends but then when you are with both (boys+girls) the boys will act like they dont even know you (or at least thats how its like with my friends that happen to be boys)
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i think you hang out with more boys because girls have too much drama.even though i am a girl i would rather hang out with boys just like you because boys a laid back and chill.but girls talk too much,always about to fight,and like to argue.i think it doesnt matter who you hang out with as long as your comfortable and having fun
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be friends with whoever you want to be.
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Hey! I wouldn't worry bout it...I can understand what you mean..I think it's easier to talk to the other sex at times too. If you feel like talkin to girls go for it! if not don't worry about it! Hope it helped.
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yeah you can still hang out with your guy friend but try to hang out with some of the girls around school that you know it might fell diffrent try some of the things they do like shopping and all the fun things they do!!!
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It's completely understandable. Sometimes I'd rather hang out with guys than girls just because there is less drama. Just make sure that you don't completely stop hanging out with girls. It's sometimes good to just hang out with girls. There are bonds between girls (even if we do act crazy sometimes) that can't be found anywhere else. All in all, its fine that you like to chill with the guys. You don't have to change yourself because it's not the norm. Hope I helped.
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dont worry i actually hang out with the guys more too. I also have girl friends though. The girls just seem so boring.. all the want to do is shopping and talk about guys and you cant be as open. Where the guys are all open and stuff and they do more. So dont worry theres nothing wrong with you.
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its ok to hang out w/ guys more! i like hanging out w/ them because they dont judge you on like what you look like nd they dont gossip nd they dont care what you wear to certain things! girl friends are good to have too though..like just because i said that dont ditch all your girl friends..because you do need them too to help you out w/ relationship problems..nd every once in a while its just always good to have a girltalk..but dont worry..hanging out w/ guys is fine!♥
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i think if you feel better around guys then it doesnt matter if you hang out with them i mean who cares what people think! well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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if you like to hang boys do it .this is what makes you you.
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Its perfectly fine! I am the same way!
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Both Are Okay, I love hanging out with guys as well their so funny and you can talk to them about anything and their so understanding, you prolly should even it out! :-), and girls, well, you could compliment them and be like oh i like your shirt where did you get that(store), really how much was it?(it was like 18.00) O wow nice thats not bad and talk about some rip off you had lol...something like that :-), and about events and summer, and boys, and yea! lol
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theres nothing wrong with that. id rather hang out with guys more than girls, because they're not as catty. lol if you want friends who are girls, i wouldnt shoot for the ones wearing the mini skirts and thick black eyeliner. find girls who like the things that you do and arent so judgemental. my best friend doesnt care what i look like or do and i can be myself around her. we act stupid just like you can act around guys. o yeah, and my best friend is asian so dont be afraid to go up to the out-of-place girl. she turned out to be the best friend a person could have. if it doesnt work out right away, dont worry about it. youll find that best friend that you can count on somewhere else. if you ever want to talk to someone, im your girl. <33
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OMG! i am the exact way that you are. I understand where you are coming from, I get nervous around girls too, but i think that its just because you feel like you have to be so good for them or they wont like you, or you have to say the right things all the time. Its good that you feel good around boys, HEY!..if you feel comfortable around them and can be yourself then it doesnt matter the sex difference. It is normal for this to happen. If you would like to hang out with girls more than maybe you should act yourself around them and see which ones understand you. Maybe you might find some girls that are dealing with the same problem as you.
Janay
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this sort of reminds me of me lol i understand what you mean though..boys are easier to get along with..and they never talk shiit about you..because even if a girls is your best friend she will always talk shiit...but thats just how it is...trust me but try to be frineds with girls too...just because you might always need that one girl friend to talk to
Hope I helped
Becky =]
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Hey hun, it's fine. Your just a tomboy! I have a lot more friends that are boys than girls too. But everyone still seems to like me ok. haha. If you don't want to, don't hang out with your own gender. You shouldn't feel weird because a lot of girls do feel more comfortable with boys. If that doesn't help, let me know and I'll do my best to help you as much as i can! Good Luck!
^o^ Julie ^o^
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i am just like you i hang out with more guys then girls, even though i have a lot of friends that are girls, i think it is because dont have soo much drama as us girls do...lol..but it is normal you should be able to hang out wit who ever you want. hope this ehlps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Hang out with who ever you want to. If you hang out with guys too much though, you might have to face some discrimination, which you shouldn't have to in my opinion. Just spend some time with girls to show them that you aren't crazy and boyish. Because you aren't -- you're just a fun loving person who would rather go mountain biking than get their nails done.
ps: i think girls who hang out with guys more have an advantage in their love life if you know what I mean...
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no your perfectly fine! thats exactly how i am..i mean i have friends that are girls but not a lot because well girls can be really bitchy and bring drama every where they go! haha but yea your fine!! dont worry about it..i think guys are more fun to hang out with any ways..
michelle<|3
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Well.. sometimes I like hanging out with my guy friends more then my girl friends. But there is nothing wrong with that. I think that you should hang out with both genders. Your girl and guy friends! Dont feel weird and different because many people are like that. Its just that sometimes.. us girls love to cause drama lol and guys really dont and its just guys are more energetic at times lol! [[ ♥♥ ]]
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nah its fine. almost all of my friends are girls and im a guy. jsut make friends with whoever dont pay attention to gender
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