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PLEASE HELP ITS AN EMERGENCY!!!
Hey whats up ok id appreciate if you all read this it hurt's so much to esplain but it would mean the world to me if you answered it, I will rate evryone a 5just for reading my problem!!! Thanks!
-Ok my name is stephanie I am 15yrs old and I live in jacksonville florida, I have lived here since I was a baby I was born and raised here. Thing is I have a boy im inlove with and I know its hard to find someone that you will love and care for and stuff but I really do! It all started in the 6th grade I had alot of fun and stuff and I met Josh I didn't really liked him and stuff but we were always best freind's and I told him everything and we would always mess around with each other and stuff. But we went out for like a day but I told him he was too much of a friend to me. So then like we were bet friends alll 6th grade, Then round the corner 7th grade came, And I still kept in touch all summer and we got together and I swear he was my first kiss, first serious bf everything (and yes im still a virgin). But yeah we gott into 8th grade and went on with out realtionship so we were like best friends at the same time but like middle school sweethearts if that makes since. We kinda grew up with eachother and changed like with each other and like see the thing is he moved last summer, And I talk to him like occcasionally on the computer and he talks to me and like I called him like few monthes ago to check up on him and we called each other today. And I kno he is coming in 10days to Jacksonville to visit. Thing is its hard to say but I love him alot and like ive only been in like what 2 relationships since me n josh split cause he had to move. And like I dont kno something tells me he wont be stayin here cause he told me he doesnt know if he is gonna move down here yet cause like his mom is poor and stuff and his sis is in college and he doesnt wanna b like in her way cause she is busy and stuff. So like I dont kno what to do honestly im freakin out and I know if he comes back likehe is to visit im gonna get even more attached to him then I already am! But he said he will try n talk to his sis bout it, But I dont kno her so I really cant judge her actions if he wanted to move back! I really wish there was something I could say that is really sweet and will make him come back!! PLEASE ANYONE I LOVE THIS BOY TO DEATH JUST ANSWER ME!!! I have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO so please answer me! I appreciate it all and Ill rate you all a 5!
-stephanie-
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Wow, that is so sad that you guys had to split. I think that you should tell him what you told all of advicenators. You love him and he is your everything, first kiss, first bf, and *first and only love*. If you love him this much then I think that he should know about it all. You never know, maybe he loves you back and doesnt wanna move back because then if he gets attached to you he wont be able to move back. I wish you the best of luck!♥
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wow!!! you must REALLY love him!i think that's awesome how you two were just friends then became best friends then became a couple on and off and then became best friends again! you must really love him if you've still been staying in touch with him even AFTER he moved! that's really hard to do! what you need to do when he comes and visits is spend every moment you have with him! tell him everything that you just told me! tell him that you love him so much and that you really really don't want him to leave, because that would just break your heart to see him leave. tell him on the first day though, so he'll have the other 9 days to think about what you said, and so he can decide if he can move back or not.
you can IM me anytime you want if you need any more advice. Good luck!!!!! *~*sakura*~*
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Wow.... I'm speechless! You must really be in love. And it definently has it's down sides. But it is so amazing that you love him that much that you and him stayed in touch after he moved. Most realtionships are not like that, especially you and him going from friends, to best friends, to on-and-off couple, to best friends again. Him coming back is awesome for you. You have 10 days with him for sure so spend every second you have with him. And if he already doesn't know how you feel then tell him you love him and you hope he can stay. Just try not to get your hopes up to much, because if he can't stay it will be even harder for you to say goodbye and watch him leave you again. Just remember that everything in life happens for a reason. You love this guy, no doubt about it, and if he doesn't know, then let him. I'm sure he feels the same way. And I hope that he gets to stay, because for you only being 15 and finding a love that lasts, its only fair that you and him get to be together. Just hope and pray for the best and Carpe Diem (Seize the moment). Good luck! ~Sherah
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Oh my God. This is pRobably one of the most touching things I have eveR been exposed to. Let me fiRst staRt off by saying how impRessed I am with youR matuRity, honestly. It's obvious that this guy means *moRe than* the woRld to you, and I can ALREADY tell that he is one *extRemely* lucky fella to have you in his life.
Honestly, this *IS* a tough situation. On MOST cases [NOT all, but MOST] I stRongly *discouRage long distance Relationships. HOWEVER, judging fRom youR context, I know foR a FACT you would neveR eveR intentionally do this man wRong. It's quite appaRent you have quite a stRong love foR him and hold him veRy deaR to youR heaRt, and my guess is that if he's willing to move all the way back home just to *BE WITH YOU*.. the feelings aRe mutual.
On that note... do you know exactly how he feels about you??? If not, you NEED to find out; and the best way would to do that is to simply flat out ASK HIM. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE EXACTLY what he's feeling foR you. ShoRe it may seem completely obvious and *peRhaps it is, but you'll neveR know *exactly* how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely lips.
Like I said, I don't usually pRomote long distance Relationships; but it seems to me like you and he could quite possibly keep one up. HOWEVER ask youRself.. would it be faiR??? Honestly.. exactly HOW OFTEN would you be able to commuinicate with him??? And HOW?? And HOW OFTEN would you be able to actually VISIT WITH HIM??? I know you love him, I Really do... and since he means so much to you, I *KNOW* you want only the best foR him; so if you feel you will haRdly get to talk with him [in whateveR foRm] then it would simply be UNFAIR.. to HIM.. AND YOURSELF.. to staRt a Relationship.
But REMEMBER... just because you can't be togetheR RIGHT NOW... doesn't mean it won't end up that way!! If it's MEANT TO BE.. it WILL BE!!! ..In due time; at the appRopRiate time....
I hope eveRything woRks out!! I Really *DO* wish you all the best of luck!! Hopefully I've have been even the SLIGHTEST bit of help heRe.
Know that I am *always, *always, *always heRe if you'Re eveR in need of a second opinion. I'd be wayyyy moRe than honoRed to at least TRY to help you out. Feel fRee to leave me anotheR "question" in my Inbox... and Stephanie.. don't eveR be afRaid to contact me on- *AIM*: SiMPLYxGiRL
Goodluck!!
And Chin up!! :)
Take caRe!! =D
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Alright, love is complicated..but you probably can understand that. But if you really want to hear the truth. When you fall in love, like really fall in love you, you have to understand that you have to take risks. Now I dont mean great risks all the time, but they can be small ones too. I think that you should wait for him, your 15...which means only 3 more years until you can be together. If its meant to be then its meant to be. I wish I could tell you that tomorrow is going to be great, and I wish that I could tell he would be coming back tomorrow. But what I CAN tell you is this:
Everything is going to be okay in the end, and if its not okay..then its not the end.
tell me how it goes sweetie, good luck with everything
Janay<3
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If he comes for a visit then enjoy your time with him. Be friends. The rest can come later on if you feel the same in a few years. Don't stop being friends though because nothing is impossible and things could change in the future. :)
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ok..when you said your afraid of getting too attached...dont be! i think it will be hard to see him go anyway..so why not live life to the fullest, without regrets..and spend a lot of time with him..build beautiful romantic memories you will always be able to look bak on..becaussee if you dont hang out or hook up with him, you'll hate yourself for not living the moment and you dont want to have regrets right?
You can say all the sweetest things, and im sure he knows how much you care for him...but the fact is his mom is still tight with money and he might not be able to stay because of that...
even if you say how much you love him..how you look at the moon at night , knowing hes looking at the same moon and somehow you feel connected (they use that line in the love movies a lot lol)...it will show your love for him...but it wont help his moms financial situation which is whats holding him back from staying. promise to visit once every 6 months maybe..maybe you can visit next time....or meet someone in the middle of where you guys live.
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Dear Stephanie,
I know what you mean. My best friend since i was little moved and I only got to see him every 3 years. I would just tell him that you miss him a lot and would do anything to get him back! Tell him that you really like him. If you don't want to say that you like him like that. Then say it as a friend. If you really want him to stay so bad you'd do anything, I'd talk to his mom about them moving back. Tell him how much their family means to you. I hope this helped.
xoSamox
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