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what should i do ok well i am 15 years old on wensday july 20 2005 and well i have 4 older brothers and 1 older sister and my brother dylon who is 21 he missed 7 of my b days in a row he keeps on going back to jail ha got out june 20 and went back in july 15 he missed it again me and him get along soooo good and he got my back he treats me like a little sister my other brothers treat me like i am just there buddy .me and my dad dont get along at all and since summer started so much shit has happend i have been sltitting my wrist an my other brother west just went to jail who is 25. well i am alresdy sick of life and if it gets any worse i dunno i just wont to give up. like sooo much has been haping i aint gunna say it all because i could go on for a while. i gotin to the point where i dont no what to do anymore and i treid using the kids help line on line but they never replied. i have a boy friend who treats me good he drinks alot thuogh but it doesent bother me... i use to be into drugs but i quit most of them.my sister and i use to get along realy good she was my best friend intell she met this guy since then we dont talk she is pregnet after them being together for 15 months.like i just dont no what to do about anything i am still in school going into grade 10. i am sorry this is getting long but i need help realy bad .in the paper the other day there were 27 quistions and if you were 7 of them you needed counslind i was 21 of them. i cry almost everynight. i cant do it no more what should i do plaese help me....please
katy
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Katy, sounds like you do need some counselling. Could your mom get you some help? I don't mind long ones if you'd like to write more please feel free to send one to my inbox and we'll try to figure something out. ]
you really need someone to talk to and possibly some anti depressants. talk to your school guidance counselor if you have one, or look for a pastor or someone at church. Ask your doctor if anti-depressants would work for you. I really hope everything works out. ]
1st thing you need to know is that you don't need a counselor. You need something in your life that is stable and never changing. You need love. I want you to know that Jesus Loves you so much. So much that words can't even begin to explain how much he loves you. No matter what you've done, or how bad you have sinned he still loves you. Jesus can bring you stability that you have never felt b4. The ONLY way to TRULY have peace in your life is by accepting Jesus into your life. See TRUE CHRISTIANITY isn't a religion it's a relationship between you and Jesus Christ and a lifestyle that you live. So, start your relationship with Jesus Christ today. Trust me you will begin to see things change in your life. If you wanna know how or anything else just holla at me. I'll be here.
-God Bless
P.S. Jesus Christ Changes Things. ]
Katy you are a wonderful person for still making it through all of that. Times get hard and I can even say myself that I personally have been through your problems...I shouldnt say "problems" because when I went through them they felt like so much more. I cant just give you advice on here..because if I tried to sum everything up on this little website you wouldnt get better. You need a friend, a great one. To take things step by step with you because thats the only way I made it out of what I was going through. I know exactly how you feel and if you would like me to be there for you I can..Im a little older than you and Im also a girl. I think some one to talk to..to get everything out, to learn how to deal with each issue is what you need. It doesnt seem to me that you have anyone close to talk to. I would love to be there for you, my email is angel_eyes9304@yahoo.com and my screen name is letmiix3u. Please let be help you through this difficult time. And if you decide in no reply then I hope everything becomes better for you, because you probably hit bottom right now...and the only way from rock bottom is up. I promise.
Janay ]
You should go to councling and talk to you parents about it try to get out of the house more and hang with your friends try not to think about it and write you your brother dylon! I hope this helps you you should really stop slittling your wrist! Everything will work out in the end it all just takes time! ]
Well it seems you need alot and you really need some one there to support you. I have some free time at night from like 5-11 and i'd be glad to sit here and talk with you and hear your problems and try to sort them out for you. Its going to take time and wont be easy. Nothing is easy in life. But I had a friend like you and I changed her around got her out of drugs,drinking,torturing herself. Well if you want my help just send me an email at dinohunter4L@yahoo.com with your Screen Name and stuff and I will be sure to get back to you. If I dont hear from you then good luck and hope everything works out. ]
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