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Female Orgasms


Question Posted Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:00 pm

Okay.. I know this question has probably been asked before, but I have never found an answer that actually answers my question.

I've been having sex for almost a year now. I can never actually feel an orgasm. I don't get that "feeling" people talk about.

Why is this..


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EJ47 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 11:13 pm:
I would think that if a woman was having sex (intercourse I'm assuming) then, well, the clitoris simply isn't getting enough stimulation. Your pleasure nerves are mostly there, not in your vagina/cervix. That may be the reason.

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icey0990 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 10:40 pm:
im a virgin but i watch this talksex show on this channel called oxygen and on this show a similar question was asked..the response from sue johanson (the host) was that many females dont orgasm during sex and its perfectly normal..some do and some dont..she said females orgasm much easier when given oral sex or fingered

you should check out the show sometime..its called talk sex and its on the oxygen channel sometime like 11-1 around there..

www.talksexwithsue.com
www.talksexwithsuejohanson.com

go to the website...its one of those websites and if you want more info you can check that out

hope i helped you out!
-melis

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Xxprettyeyes187xX answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 10:34 pm:
a little while ago i was reading something..and this girl couldnt get her girlfriend to have an orgasm and it said that if she was raped when she was a little girl that could prevent her from having an orgasm...

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simplyblond3xo1 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 9:50 pm:
maybe cause your not horny enough or that your not into the guy enough?

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crazyoutyamind answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 9:23 pm:
if you dont feel an orgasm in reagalur sex then just get one through oral sex well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox
-kelly

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Scribble answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:51 pm:
Firstly you need to relax- the more you let this become an issure the less likely you are to have a good time. Secondly you need the realise that, unfortunately, most women don't orgasm through penetrative sex. Its gotta be oral, basically. Then you need to allow your partner to really get to know you because only you know whats right for you. Tell them what you like and concentrate on the things that make you feel good. Or take the time to do it yourself- if you're sure you've never had an orgasm before then you probably should explore your body a little bit- a lil' do-it-yourself can clarify what you like.

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passionate answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:38 pm:
It's either because you have too much experience and it doesn't feel "wowing" anymore. Or a more literal excuse, maybe if you are using a condom (like you should) then you just can't actually feel it.

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angeleyes9304 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:31 pm:
Well, that depends...if you have sex alot then thats the exact reason. You cant feel it anymore because its been the same penis this whole time, and your used to it. Or it could also be because your partner is smaller than what you are...get what Im saying?? Maybe, if you want the "feeling" you need to either slow it down if your doing it alot, or if he is small then your just going to have to go oral with this one. It's weird but thats how it has to be. If you have anymore questions about it...IM me at letmiix3u or ask me more about it.

Good luck!


Janay

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dearuncle answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:29 pm:
Hi
I would imagine your not that old so presumably neither is your partner.It takes a while to get the hang of what your body likes and finding someone to hit those spots .The most important thing is to let your partner know what you like and where you like to be touched .Be patient,be open , you will get there .

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