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I'm a very experienced actor. I've been acting since I was 7 and I've been in two proffesional shows, "Les Miserables" and "The Phantom" (a 70's musical version of the phantom of the opera, the andrew lloyd webber show was based off this). Now I'm about to be in the Wizard of Oz. Ok, so we had our auditions. I wanted to be the West Witch/Almira Gultch REALLY badly, so I practiced and studied the show and the movie and the witch like hell. Soon the auditions came and I gave it all out. By all the other girls, I was the very best, everyone thought I was going to get the part. Then the cast list came out. And well what do you know! I didn't get it. a BOY who auditioned for the scarecrow got it! I'm just a human set piece (to be specific, a tree, a flower, and a tornado dancer) and the Lion's haircutter. I'm really sad and upset. And the boy didn't even WANT to be the Witch! I've never been good at auditions, and this was my first perfect audition and I got the smallest part I've ever had in my life! How can I deal with this?! What can I do?! Can someone help me? and please don't say "every role is important" I've been told that a million times by our director. sorry this was long but I'm really sad (link)
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You need to get the hell out the business if your going to react like this .Rejection and your business go hand in hand ."Pick yourself up ,wash yourself down and start all over again" .
In answer to your reply .
You obviously wernt the right man for the job,no more no less .Get over it ,other wise you will never survive in the business or in life .
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hey im going to start modleing im 13 and well my mom and i want to know everyting to know bout it
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make sure you get a professional agent .If you cant secure one ,then its probably not for you.You can find a list online of all the top agents .Make sure you keep your mom around untill you get sorted with the right connections .It is a very dubious business at the lower level.
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this is hard for me to ask this
but i have already fingered my g/f and we both want more
we are WAY TO young for sex about 5 years from it, what can we do thats not sex d00d please help (link)
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scrabble Lols
Seriously ,you have started something which your probably going to finish, sooner than you think .Just be resposible but no need to rush ,the exploration is the fun part .
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
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Enough already ,your making me feel ill .Take her out for a drink ,have some fun ,stop thinking so far ahead of yourself .If your the guy and you relax a bit ,you will get your shot .Just make sure its what you want though .She sounds like the sort of girl that is drawn to grief.She might just might be ready to take revenge on the not so fairer sex and you look a prime target to take one for the team .
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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.
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It was the right thing to do,the fact that they have ditched you, means they wernt friends anyway.
Get out there and embrace who you are,this is the first day of a whole new life .You will soon find that rather than being an outcast,more and more girls are choosing to live this way .If you dont know where to start ,try online ,there are many chat sites and dating sites to get you going .
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This is the thing. my friend recently had a cold sore. I've heard that the only way you can have a cold sore (even once) is if you have herpes. Does this mean that she has herpes? Answers would be greatly apreciated. Thanks. Will rate high. (link)
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So why do they call it a cold sore
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Okay.. I know this question has probably been asked before, but I have never found an answer that actually answers my question.
I've been having sex for almost a year now. I can never actually feel an orgasm. I don't get that "feeling" people talk about.
Why is this..
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I would imagine your not that old so presumably neither is your partner.It takes a while to get the hang of what your body likes and finding someone to hit those spots .The most important thing is to let your partner know what you like and where you like to be touched .Be patient,be open , you will get there .
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Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!! (link)
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I must have heard and seen this scenario a million times ."His friend is so nice and understanding" The friend is not even a good mate to the other guy .Hes making a play for you while your still with his friend.There are so few girls around he cant find one of his own without pinching one off his mate.If your not happy with the one you got ,get rid of him but dont go wasting your time on "Mr nice guy" the bottom feeder.
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My mom and dad are making me get a 93 peice of crap ford explorer for my first car, any idea's on how to increase its sexyness, help would be much aprechiated (link)
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Shame on your parents .How thoughtless of them .You would have thought they could have at least sexed it up for you . Why wouldnt dad have done that .Could it be that you are very young and obviously very immature so any thought of giving you a new car when you are so ungreatfull ,would be totally out of the question .Good luck with the sexing up ,whatever that means .
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months. What are some really romatic or creative things i can do for him? (link)
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Boys dont really get off on romantic but being creative ,That will keep things going strong .
Sexual experimentation is a very good way to kepp things fresh .If you need more advice on particular things drop me a line .
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I want to get this girls attention, but i dont want it to seem like i am really trying to flirt, whats the best way for her to notice me and see me for a good thing, i really like this girl and i want to know how i should get her attention. So how do i get her attention in a good way?
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Your gonna have to get a bit braver young man .Just get up there and ask her out .If you dont, someone else will.Whats the worse that can happen ,she says no .
You will certainly have got her attention though .
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ok. what is the weight when you are fat.ik my brother always makes fun of me but is he just doing that to be mean or am i? what is the weight that is considerred fat?!PLEASE TELL ME
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yes your fat ,why else would you be asking
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what does lax mean? i think it might be lacrosse or relax but im not sure (link)
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Lax means relaxed or loose.It does not mean Lacrosse although Americans often use the same word for two different things as they continue to bastardize the english language .
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I will be frank. I usually find myself with psychos or jerks. So I have a hard time not being skeptical about a guy who approaches me or when I have allowed my friends to hook me up. I haven't been in a relationship for about three years and have only casually dated if at all since then. I find though, I have ended up dating guys who are at least 30 and I am 22. I like the fact that the maturity level is above that of a 5 year old. I don't care about the money or anything like that but I become more relaxed around guys who are older and they often share my interests more then with guys my age. I have a good relationship with my father, he even approves and my friends think that I am crazy. Is it normal for me to find a relationship with an older man easier or am I just crazy? What are somethings that I need to watch for when I am dating an older man? (link)
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If you have to watch out for things ,then you shouldnt be dating an older guy .
Is it normal .Whats normal ? girls will always mature faster than boys so the age diference is not really that much of a factor .This is probably why you are finding it more comfortable to be with older guys .
.Every relationship has things going on that makes it different from others ,this is just another thing .
If it feels right do it.
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i basicly have three friends. all of them run in different circles and they all have very different personalities. up until now i have been able to divide my time between them equally, but latly its getting harder and harder. because they're so different i never get to be with all of them at the same time and theres only so much time i can spend with my friends. i just have no idea how i can be with them all without making one of them feel ignored. what are some ways that i can divide my time with all of them without playing favorites? (link)
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First of all ,you have to be where you want to be .If the three circles are all equal then you just have to try and be where you can ,when you can .Remember if they are good friends ,they will understand .Thats what friends are .
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Well 2 days ago i went over to my boyfriends house of 5 months for about 5 hours! and everything was great till yesterday. He blocked me onine, And i tryed calling his cell phone but he didn't answer but he called me back saying sorry, he was just miserable about a few things and didn't want to talk to anybody. I was okay with it cause i can understand. Well later that night he told me that he was thinking about us all day and i asked him what? and he said that he doesn't feel "sparks" between us anymore! It kinda hurts to hear that after the day before. What can i do to get the "sparks" back? he sent me a text this morning saying that he really loves me and that he is really in love with me and wants to spend his life with me. but theres soo many things going on around him that hes not sure of what to do. But my question is what can i do to get the "sparks" back, and make him feel better? and please don't say anything sexual cause were both not ready for that. ooo and if it helps im 14, and hes 16!! thanks bunches, i'll rate if you can really help me!!! (link)
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Cmon young lady,You are 14 years old and him only 16.Any thoughts about your future together at this point are so unnessacary .Just have fun.Any pressure to find a solution will definatly have him running for the door .Boys will probably come and go throughout your life ,your time for education is now .Put down the tissues and pick up the books.
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I know it's a little early to be asking about fall clothing, but I always have the trouble every school year of getting a ton of shirts and pants that just don't go together and therefore never having anything to wear! I'd like some outfit ideas...like ideas for whole outfits with accessories and everything..i like lots of styles (urban, punkish, preppyish) try to give as many as u can cuz i rate well
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Oh to be a slave to fashion lols
Its really not that hard .Magazines are a great way to get ideas and then you put your own personal stamp with some interesting accessories that dont have to be expensive .The most important thing is to feel comfortable in what you wear ,that is the only way that people will get to see the real you.Its not what you wear ,its how you wear it .
Good luck
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It seems you have a really honest way of giving advice, and I think I need that, so Here it goes.
I'd been with a boy, on-and-off, for about two years - but saw that while we'd finally settled our issues (which was that he kept being indecisive about if he wanted to really be with me), I still saw that we had a negative effect on eachother. I really felt tha I loved him, as a friend, as a lover, and as a person - but I didn't think our relationship was letting us love ourselves enough, and all that. I didn't think we'd have a great relationship. We'd stayed together for so long with only me putting my emotions into it, and when he started investing his emotions, I started to see how maybe I should have just let him go after all.
Rewind a little bit - he broke up with me for the 'last' time this past new year's eve. After a few weeks alone, I started to get to know a boy, let's call him 'Joel'. I really liked talking to joel. It was apparent that Joel liked me. Problem? This was a friend of my Ex's, and I knew it'd hurt him to hang out with Joel.
Fast forward again. Me and the boy start talking again, really getting to know eachother this time around - and settling out so many problems that could have been worked through before if we'd only talked about it. I drop ties with Joel, out of respect for the ex's feelings, because he'd found out that Joel put his arm around me.
(forgive me for the length of this, but I felt I needed a background explanation.)
Anyway, me and the boy get back together, and begin having a great time. We're really enjoying ourselves this time around. It helped that we were disregarding the disaproval a mutual friend of ours, who basically had been against us being together - he honestly though it was a bad thing for us to be together. We stayed together for months, up until the end of this past may.
During that time we were together, we both got into a horrible car accident, I had the worst of the injuries, and although we'd talked about taking a 'break' and things from being together, or at least talking things over, it was put on hold by the accident and forgotten.
At first, I had only wanted to clear my head. The reason was, and I was honest with my boyfriend about this, that I had been hanging out with Joel again in a group - just talking. I loved spending time with Joel. We'd naturally talk about things and laugh - and this confused me. I didn't want to feel like I was being disloyal to my boyfriend by hanging out with and being interested in Joel- so I said I wanted to clear my head. he interpreted this as having a 'break', which we'd talked about before. He wasn't happy. Time I tried to spend apart from him only made him want to see me more. It was hard trying not to see him. I also wanted to be able to hang out with Joel- talk to him, get to know him, since I felt I couldn't do that If I were with the boyfriend. I felt I was being honest - and I had to explore this, or I'd regret it as I'd been regretting it since I broke ties with Joel for my boyfriend's sake before.
I started seeing Joel more often, and the ex started calling more often. My ex would call just as me and Joel were getting close - a strange thing. It was crazy, really. As time went on and Joel actually kissed me - my ex woke up (this was in the middle of the night) and called me right away. He'd have no way of knowing that - it was just a really creepy occurance.
Well, now I still see Joel, and over one day the ex decided he would not look at me,, or talk to me , even if we were in a group of friends. (We share almost all the same friends.) He's told more than one of them the situation, and I feel like he shouldn't tell everyone out busines. Also, he'll leave the rooms and cause a mini-scene when we're in a group of friends, which I don't really see as completely fair to everyone else. I already really hurt. I already feel bad - and I realize he's hurting too - but putting our friends in the middle is something I don't like to do.
Well, as I said, I still see Joel, but I can't anymore. All I think about is the ex. I'm not sure if it's just that I'm attached to him or what - but I think about him every miserable day. I cry a lot, pathetically. I'm not sure what to do with myself. I've talked to Joel about that, and Joel has serious feelings for me but at least seems to understand - but still wants to be intimate with me. I can't kiss Joel, I think of my ex. I can't play a record, or listen to this song, or think about such-and such, I only start blubbering about my ex. I feel as if HE broke up with ME again, rather than me doing it to him. I'm not sure what to do. I had to return things of the ex's, I tried to see him, or talk to him, but didn't say what I'd wanted to - and he was cold and unmoved the whole time, just leaving me more upset. He feels that I've treated him really badly - but that was what I was trying not to do - I had been trying to spare his feelings, - rather than going by what I wanted to do first, always thinking of _him_. I'm not even sure that he'd really believe that, but it doesn't change how I'd felt. I feel like an idiot that threw her heart away - but I know I needed the time alone, and he might even be better off without me.
Anyway. This is completely long enough. I'm not even sure if you can/will give me advice for this. Well, thanks if you do. Maybe any input would help - I don't have many people to talk to. At least typing this out helped a little. Thanks.
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Wow ! That was an epic lols .
Where to start?
Firstly Joel was not really your guys friend .Friends dont do that ,at least not untill the dust as settled and things are finally over .You I feel, have to take a fair bit of the blame too for encouraging him .
As for the relationship .I feel its gone,too many on and offs .
What you are missing is something that had become a habit and habits are very hard to break .
I would suggest you listen to all those songs that make you said .Cry as much as you want .Dont run away from the way you feel but keep yourself to yourself for a while and avoid any contact with your ex .Today is the worst you are going to feel and as long as you dont let stuff like drink and drugs prolong your depression ,you will be on the mend soon .
Its only heartache not a heart attack lols
Chin up.
Write me in a few weeks and let me know how things are.
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Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me? (link)
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You Run !Unless you have the wrong number you are not his girlfriend .Move on ,dont waste any more time .Explanations are not needed as his actions have spoken much louder.
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alright my prob is that since i'm not a jock and not a skater or anything like that girls at my school hate me wat should i do
and how can i get them to like me w/o changing my image (link)
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You dont have to change your image ,unless of course your a slob.That dosent go down well with anyone .Create your own style and you will find someone that is similar in mind .Dont give up ,just be yourself.
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