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Confusing


Question Posted Thursday July 7 2005, 3:06 pm

Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!!

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moliciousxo answered Saturday July 9 2005, 2:21 pm:
Well if your boyfriend cheated on you i don't think you would want to stay around and get hurt even more. I think you should go out with his frirend.I hope I helped.
claire

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soINlove21 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:43 pm:
If your boyfriend cheated on you and acts like he doesnt rele care about you i think you should break up with him.. but if he still cares about you and shows you he is sorry and that it was a HUGE mistake and that he would never do it again i think you should give him another chance but if he rele doesnt care i think it should end b4 anyone else gets hurt ..

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xdinGyxbaBex answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:46 am:
Well you should stay with your boyfriend to make sure if he really did cheat on you was tru and if he really did then i would defentally break up with him .. i dont kn oif you should really go out with his best friend becoz then that could coz them to not be friends .. i dont reallly kno what else to tell you but you can i.m me and can talk about it


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xbrunettex answered Friday July 8 2005, 10:04 am:
first off ; break up with him right away hes a cheater girl, and you definantly dont need him..and he doesnt deserve you..

second ; talk to his friend, tell him how much your ex hurt you by cheating on you and see what he says, if you really like him and think that he wont cheat, then go for it! you might get a really wonderful boyfriend and a little revenge on your ex ;]

thirdd of all ; what if your boyfriend and his friend have a pact or something that constricts them from going out with eachothers ex's .. make sure that your ex isnt really close with this friend or you might ruin their friendship..

hope i've helped =)


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<center> samantha

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*ashlee* answered Friday July 8 2005, 3:04 am:
you dont need someone who doesnt want you.

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BuffaloGirl answered Friday July 8 2005, 3:03 am:
well i personally think you should go out with his friend because a gurl alwayz needs a guy who cares !!!

hope i help ya out

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LoLo2454 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:02 pm:
Definitely break up with your current boyfriend. No girl deserves to be treated that way, and if there is someone who cares for you, and will treat you perfectly, then that's what you need. Not someone who will go off with other girls randomly.

~*~*~Lauren~*~*~

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dearuncle answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:52 pm:
I must have heard and seen this scenario a million times ."His friend is so nice and understanding" The friend is not even a good mate to the other guy .Hes making a play for you while your still with his friend.There are so few girls around he cant find one of his own without pinching one off his mate.If your not happy with the one you got ,get rid of him but dont go wasting your time on "Mr nice guy" the bottom feeder.

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karenR answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:53 pm:
If he has cheated and doesn't seem to care get rid of him and go for the other guy. Great kissing is well and good but, hey...there are more important things to worry about. You can find great kissers everywhere. If he acts like it was no big deal and he doesn't care, find someone who does. :)

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SidneyK answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:48 pm:
The exact same thing happened to me. My boyfriend cheated on me and acted like it wasn't a big deal. And one of his friends acted like he cared so much and said he would never treat me like that. Dont' let that blind you though. I was truly hurt, and if you are too then you might go out with his friend on the rebound. Don't make that mistake. What I did was broke up with my boyfriend and for a week we stayed seperated. And of course his friend made moves to me, but then I talked to my ex and we decided that we'd try it again. It worked out perfect. Now you're gunna have to make the decision if u think he'll do it again or not. And if you really love him to give him another chance. But keep in consideration his friend on the other side. Hope i helped a lil. Good luck

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LiLAnGeLDeViL4659 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:45 pm:
Personally, I'd go with the boyfriends friend.. He seems a lot better in my books. I mean come on all girls like the attention and that special someone caring.. And besides how can you trust your boyfriend now? He cheated on you what a sack of shit! But yeah Hopefully you'll take my advice or just do something about it. Good luck!

Cyaz,
Shann:)

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ronda answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:45 pm:
You should break up with him.What if he dose it agin?If he is the type that dosnt care then you shouldnt be with him.About the other guy don't just go for him after you break up with your boy friend(if you do)give it some time.Since your boyfriend is the type that dosent care then it seems like if you and his friend went out he wouldnt care.You should br carefull for those type of guys who dont care.And for the kissing part it really dosent matter how they kiss it matters what you feel about them.

*Good luck*:)

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Mackenzie answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:38 pm:
ScRew youR 'boyfRiend'; he Ruined that when he cheated. What the HELL kind of 'boyfRiend' is that anyways!?!? A boyfRiend who loves you sooooooo much you could so easily be Replaced??? You don't need that kind of infantile shit going on in youR life. WhetheR you date his fRiend oR not.. DEFINITELY ditch his ass!! And I don't see a pRoblem with dating his fRiend AT ALL! If you feel you could have a nice futuRe with this boy, then you go Right on ahead. And don't even begin to woRRie what youR cuRRent [lateR ex] boyfRiend will think - he is in NOOOOO position to staRt lectuRe oR passing judgements!

Best wishes to you!!
Hopefully this helps some!! :D

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Solemnstar answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:36 pm:
is his name shawn hunter?

all moronicness aside
yes dump him... regaardless of wheather hes good or not he should be loyal to you

Solemnstar

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soccerplayer5674 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:33 pm:
DEFINATELY break up with your boyfriend! I mean who wants a boyfriend that doesnt care about them AND cheated on them. Who cares how he kisses? Its whats inside that really matters and this other guy sounds great but heres a tip for you dont go out with him right away after u break up with ur bf (and do you know if her likes you or not?) bc even if that guy was a jerk no one likes to see that Hope I helped!

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Michele answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:31 pm:
You should go out with the boy who ACTS like he cares about you and is not afraid to show you how he feels, and would never, never do anything to hurt you, like cheat on you. Always choose the King of Hearts.

Michele

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twistedsister17 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:26 pm:
I think you should break up with your boyfriend. Try to ask out his friend but keep in mind: it might make your ex really mad (even though he desserves it) The thing I'm worried about though is that by going out with your boyfriends friend, you will ruin their friendship. Maybe you should break up with your boyfriend and then wait to see what happens. Good Luck! <3

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Sammerz619 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:23 pm:
Well if he cheated on you then WHY r you still with him. Thats your que to say *later jerk!* Now this friend guy sounds really romantic and like he cares about you so i say hang with him for a while to see if feelings get any deeper. Gvie him a chance. Okay well i hope i helped! Let me know how things go. Sammerz

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