i basicly have three friends. all of them run in different circles and they all have very different personalities. up until now i have been able to divide my time between them equally, but latly its getting harder and harder. because they're so different i never get to be with all of them at the same time and theres only so much time i can spend with my friends. i just have no idea how i can be with them all without making one of them feel ignored. what are some ways that i can divide my time with all of them without playing favorites?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 9:59 am: well you shouild try to get all of the friends to tyr to hang out eith each other...i no they might hate each other..but explain to them thats its really hard to have good friends like them and barely spen anytime with them...and tell them that you like them all equally and they shouild atleast to try to get along..and you shouild try to have a day with just you girls like go on a shopping spree....and maybe they will actually like each other..but i under stand how hard it is for you to have friends and hey all have diffrent personalites..but yo no you gotta pull it along and try your hardest!!ok..
wish you good luck!!!
hope i helped,
cbdrumsmel answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 10:24 pm: you can ask them if they mind hanging out with eachother... and if they dont mind then you can all go somewhere. but if they do mind then you can explain to them that you might not be able to spend as much time with them any more. and you can tell them that your not playing favorites and explain the whole thing to them. also you decide that you will hang out with the person that asked you first. and then go in order. like one week you can hang out with one person... the next your hang out with the other.. and the third you can hang out with the other. there are many possibilitys for this. [ cbdrumsmel's advice column | Ask cbdrumsmel A Question ]
dearuncle answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 9:01 pm: First of all ,you have to be where you want to be .If the three circles are all equal then you just have to try and be where you can ,when you can .Remember if they are good friends ,they will understand .Thats what friends are . [ dearuncle's advice column | Ask dearuncle A Question ]
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