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sparks
Well 2 days ago i went over to my boyfriends house of 5 months for about 5 hours! and everything was great till yesterday. He blocked me onine, And i tryed calling his cell phone but he didn't answer but he called me back saying sorry, he was just miserable about a few things and didn't want to talk to anybody. I was okay with it cause i can understand. Well later that night he told me that he was thinking about us all day and i asked him what? and he said that he doesn't feel "sparks" between us anymore! It kinda hurts to hear that after the day before. What can i do to get the "sparks" back? he sent me a text this morning saying that he really loves me and that he is really in love with me and wants to spend his life with me. but theres soo many things going on around him that hes not sure of what to do. But my question is what can i do to get the "sparks" back, and make him feel better? and please don't say anything sexual cause were both not ready for that. ooo and if it helps im 14, and hes 16!! thanks bunches, i'll rate if you can really help me!!!
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ok gurlie you need to try somthing new dinner and candles then when you get home try kissing his neck or lightly lick his ear while blowing in it that turs my boyfriend on a lot maby try that hope i can help ~*~Jerriann~*~
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Well pumkpin,i'm kinda going through the same thing in a way, im 16 and the guy is 16 also, me andhim been together for 9 months and hes really the same way..the whole bull going on in his life and never wanting to talk about it and stressed, and he loves me and wants to live with me and spend the rest of his life with me and loves me and yeh..well all i can tell you is i no how you feel and you might want to talk to him, support him, make him feel loved by you and give him attention, you know..but also keep in mind HE'S CONFUSED, a lot of guys at that age are confused about their feelings and don't know what to do. Although your 14 you are mature than him as most girls are mature than guys. Give him time, not really "space" but that to but be there for him all the time, talk, and have days like the one you two spent before and tell him how you feel about him and what you think you two should be doing and getting ready for the future, etc. Luv ya pumkpin! tell me how it goes!
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"sparks" are either there or they aren't. Not much can be done about that. My bet is that whatever is going on at home is the big problem here. Maybe you need to let him talk out whatever is bothering him and maybe just be there for him. Get to the bottom of what all this stuff "going on around him " is and I think your problem might be solved.
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Ok, my advice is this. Tease and be cute alot. Whenever he talks to you, look into his eyes and smile. Go out to the mall or to eat or to like some festivals or something. There's a lot of festivals this time of year. While you're out with him, while you two are walking, just grab his hand and kind of lean on his shoulder (if you two aren't already holding hands). If he gives you a shocked look, don't let go just smile at him and keep walking (with him). Hope this helps.
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Cmon young lady,You are 14 years old and him only 16.Any thoughts about your future together at this point are so unnessacary .Just have fun.Any pressure to find a solution will definatly have him running for the door .Boys will probably come and go throughout your life ,your time for education is now .Put down the tissues and pick up the books.
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I think you'd know a couple ways....
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Well you can always ask him to come to your house and you can cook him some lunch*if you know how 2 cook* and just tell him that he can talk to you About anything in the world. that you are going to be there to listen that will help get things off his mind.You can always do what I did for my boyfriend. It was our 3 month anv. and I took all the cute pictures that me and him have together and put it on a big poster board and put little notes on it. Like hold me tight. our first kiss, and sweet little notes like that .and it made him remember all the good times we had together and after all the bad things that happened in our relationship we have been doing better now.. Hope things work out..
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Hunn,
LISTEN CAREFULLY PWEEEEESZE!
If you have to do ANYTHING to get sparks in a relationship that would be forcing sparks to come back and sparks dont come by force or by actions its about how much u really love each other...and if you have to do anythng to get sparks in a relationship then its not real so just sit back, dont do anything,relax, and be you
I honestly think its his fault that there are no sparks because"so much is going on in his life" and its making him miserable.....So the best thing to do is to calm him down and make sure hes not miserable(but thats not forcing so it WILL be real)
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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