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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
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Ok, first off, you need to stop being a wussy. I don't mean that in a bad way, but you need to get over your nervousness, thats only gonna get in the way of what you want to do. Don't send her the card, hand deliver it. Secondly, don't be afraid to call her. She's really upset right now but that means you should call even more. You need to call her and make sure she's ok. You need to show her that you love her and that you understand what a hard time she's going through. If you're going through a hard time yourself then it shows that you care even more. You'd drop your own problems to ask her about hers and just listen. I understand you yourself are going through some rough times, but now you need to pull through even more. She needs someone that help her through this. That you live 45 minutes away is bull. I'm sorry but I lived 2 hours away from my girlfriend (now ex) and we still made it work. Sorry for the length and I hope this helps.
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Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
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Ok, first you need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him. You need to explain how you feel how you two are going downhill and you two never talk anymore. Make sure he understands exactly what you think is wrong. THen put both your heads together and try think of a solution about whether or not you two still wanna be together. If you don't get that far, at least try and figure out why it is that you two don't talk anymore. Hope this helps.
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Hi..my boyfriend is coming back in town tonight..and i want to plan something fun for him..the thing is that there isnt much to do around here..we usually just go to parties and drink, and we wouldn't be able to do anything at my house b/c of my parents. Also going out to dinner wouldn't be that much fun. Does anybody have any good ideas? Anything fun & thrilling!! Or simply any ideas?? PLEASE RESPOND!! I would really appreciate the help. (link)
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He's your boyfriend, he shouldn't care where you two go, so long as he's with you. Still if you want some ideas here are some. Movie theatre, theres a ton of good movies out right now. Take him out to a movie with some popcorn and you two can cuddle to your hearts content. If you don't want to spend any money, go to the park or something. Take him for a bit of fresh air. bring a soccer ball or something. i suck at soccer but when me and my friends went to a park, we played and had fun anyways. Hope this helps.
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My friend is having a pool party in a couple of days and my crush is gonna be there! What are some tihngs i could do to make him like me more, question for the guys- whta would u want a girl to do for u too liek thme, anytihng i could wear or do?
THnaks!!
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Guys love it when girls wear bikinis. If you're not comfortable wearing a bikini, at least wear a two piece. Even if you're just an averagly busty girl, this should help a lot. If it's a pool party at a public pool, then if you go to the concesion stand just be like, "Hey, wanna come with me to the concesion stand?" Try not to make to big a deal about it. If it's a pool party at someone's house, if you go in to eat then sit next to him and stuff like that. Aside from that just be realy flirty and cute with him. Hope this helps.
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I'm not sure what category this goes under.. but heres my problem =D.. sorry for the length!
I'm 14 and I baby-sit for a 7 year old. My dad has known her dad since he was a kid, so I have a really good relationship with her parents, and they pay great! Their kid is kind of bratty and loves to share things.. I know "sharing is caring".. but she loves to share food and drinks! Shes always back-washing and I find it really nasty! I'm just so tired of having "fishies" in my drinks- and whenever we go out she is always grabbing food off my plate without asking! Tomorrow I am going to Vegas with her, and I really need a way to tell her that I dont want to share food/drinks without hurting her feelings.. otherwise she will go crying to her parents and they will not be too happy with me, which could dock my pay! (link)
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That really sucks. Anyways, here is my advice. Tell her that she is old enough (and say big enough, it helps feed kids ego) to eat her own food. Tell her she is big enough to finish her own plate of food and her own drink. Make it sound like a big deal. Hope this helps
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So i asked a question earlier about burning cds and stuff. Ok i found a BLANK cd rw but it says its full and it wont let me copy anything to it. But then i also found a BLANK cd r but i cant find it anywhere on the computer. Can anyone help me find a way to burn some songs?!?!? im so lost! PLEASE HELP!!!!!! * i give 5s to anything that helps (link)
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I'm not really a computer genius but heres my advice. Make sure that when you check to see if it is blank or not, see what it is you're checking for. It should be somewhere on there. Like if you're looking for music and there's none on there it would look blank. But maybe it's got a ton of typed files or something. Or pictures. You can also buy blank cds and those are blank for sure. Hope this helps.
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I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
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First off, don't worry about it so much. Other people are afraid of the dark too. I am sometimes. Most people probably just say "ignore it" or something, but that doesn't really help. Instead, try imagining that you are with one of your closest friends. Someone that you always feel safe and comfortable with. Imagine that you two are BOTH going downstairs laughing the whole way. Just imagine that they are there with you. Hope this helps.
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Okay, i've just decided to try tennis, but i have friken clue of how the hell to play it. lol I keep trying to find out things online, and it's telling me things about how u need 4 points to win a game, 6 games to win a set, and 2 sets to win a match, but i have no clue what they mean by "game" "set" or "match", I dont know what they are!!lol I also don't know how you get scored on this. If anyone would like to take the time and explain to me thoroughly and define these 'terms' to me i will love you!!!!
thank you so much
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Ok, I've never really played tennis before but I know how it works. Tennis is juat a huge version of ping-pong kind of. You score "points" by hitting the tennis ball onto the other players court (it has to hit their side of the court). If it bounces more than once (I think) or if it hits their side then goes out of bounds, then you get a point. The next part is easier. Once you score four points, you have one a "game". "Games" are just bigger points on a bigger scoreboard. You need to win six games (24 points) to win a single set. A "set" is made up of six games and each game is made up of four points. I hope you're still following this. Then, if you win two "sets" then you have won a "match" (48 points, 12 games, 2 sets). Hope this helps.
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i need a job for this summer but im only 15. i know that sonic and chick-fil-a hire at 15, but does anyone know of any other places that do? thanks. (link)
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Other fast-food resturants probably hire at 15, or maybe 16. Krogers hires at 14 so you can work there. So do places like Sports Plus. Don't know if any of these places are local for you, hope this helps.
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I just have a question...what happends when people kiss? People say that when the two like eachother, they just start making out or something. I've never been kissed, so I want to know how to so when the time comes, I'll know how. The guy I like will probably break up with his girlfriend when she moves in July, and from what he says, they kiss a lot. I'm nervous about what will happen when I ask him out after he breaks up with his girlfriend. please help!
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First off, it happens very quickly. Just one second your not kissing, the next you are. Nothing really "happens" when people kiss. Some people close their eyes, some people don't. If he starts to kiss you, and just as he kisses you, he licks your teeth (assuming that you won't immediately go for tongue) that means he wants to tongue you. That's about it, hope this helps.
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i feel like im the only person my age that doesnt have a boyfriend. im 14/f and it feels like everyone around me is together. because all year this year ive heard oh my gosh my boyfriend this and oh my gosh my boyfriend that and i was lookin' around and everyone was like holding hands and stuff. i have a few friends who dont have bf's and we feel like we are the only ones.... IT SUCKS! is there anyway i can get a guys attention or should i just wait. is this a thing that everyone is just trying out? ITS SO SCARY ITS ANNOYING! and any guy that likes me is a nerdy guy! its gross...
PLEASE HELP I RATE 5'S IF YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD!
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Having a boyfriend is completely up to you. If you want one that badly, try going out and meeting guys. If you have any guy friends, invite them places and ask them to bring any out of school guy friends or something like that. Hope I helped.
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance... (link)
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What you should do is call him, at least once everyday. Don't keep talking on and on for hours, cuz he has other stuff to do and parents get mad, but call up, even if it's just to say hi. Always tell him about your day and ask him about his. If he has a cell phone, tell him to turn it on vibe at night and leave him cute messages for when he wakes up in the morning. At the most leave him two, not like five or anything. Hope this helps.
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so im thinking of kissing a boy by the waterfalls we hang out at..any suggestions on what i can do to make the move..anything to say or anything to do?
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Before you actually get to the waterfall, take his hand and run to the waterfall. Then, once you get there, grab both his hands and look straight into his eyes. If he can't catch on, sorry but I don't know of anything else.
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I have a guy friend and I think we mutually like each other. The thing is, I won`t see him next year. What's an easy way to give him my # [don`t say email address/instant messanger] and what`s a way to do it without looking awkward. (link)
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Ok, this is probably going to sound weirder than any of the other answers, but here goes. NExt time you see him, invite him to go somewherew with you (mall, festival etc etc). Don't tell him really anything about it. MAke sure you tell him just before you two are about to leave. As you're telling him only a little bit about it, say ,"I gotta go, call me and we'll talk about it later ok?" Then give him your number. Hope this helps.
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Well 2 days ago i went over to my boyfriends house of 5 months for about 5 hours! and everything was great till yesterday. He blocked me onine, And i tryed calling his cell phone but he didn't answer but he called me back saying sorry, he was just miserable about a few things and didn't want to talk to anybody. I was okay with it cause i can understand. Well later that night he told me that he was thinking about us all day and i asked him what? and he said that he doesn't feel "sparks" between us anymore! It kinda hurts to hear that after the day before. What can i do to get the "sparks" back? he sent me a text this morning saying that he really loves me and that he is really in love with me and wants to spend his life with me. but theres soo many things going on around him that hes not sure of what to do. But my question is what can i do to get the "sparks" back, and make him feel better? and please don't say anything sexual cause were both not ready for that. ooo and if it helps im 14, and hes 16!! thanks bunches, i'll rate if you can really help me!!! (link)
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Ok, my advice is this. Tease and be cute alot. Whenever he talks to you, look into his eyes and smile. Go out to the mall or to eat or to like some festivals or something. There's a lot of festivals this time of year. While you're out with him, while you two are walking, just grab his hand and kind of lean on his shoulder (if you two aren't already holding hands). If he gives you a shocked look, don't let go just smile at him and keep walking (with him). Hope this helps.
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i have a problem.. and this is very embarassing to admit but here it goes-- i prefer to be intimate with animals over humans.. and i don't know why. i love the fact how animals don't talk, but yet you can feel/know what they want. i like having sexual relations with my animals. my advice that i am looking for is just.. am i the only one? is this healthy? what other objects could i use for intercourse?
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No, you are not the only one. I've heard of other people who are exactly like you. However, as far as I know, it isn't healthy. I heard you can get AIDS and other STD's even from animals. For the intercourse question, it depends on if you are a girl or a guy. If you are a girl, you have a lot more options. There are sex toys all over the place, I would suggest you find one of those instead. If you're a guy, it's a lot harder. You can't really have intercourse with anything other than the above except other people. Hope I helped.
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My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do? (link)
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Like everyone else has said, I would try getting back together with her. Make sure you make it clear to her that you don't want her to lie anymore. That's really important. Don't just go, "OK...but no more lies ok?". You need to straight with her and say, "I'll get back together with you, but I don't want you to lie to me, got it?" You don't need to yell or give her any angry looks, just be really confident in what you say and how you act while you're doing this. Hope this works out for you.
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