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what should i do?
My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do?
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well if you want to get back together with her then do. but tell her the only way to have a good relashion ship is to not lie and never keep any secrets. but if she wont stop then break up with her she is not worth it
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only you can decide what to do but a relationship like that takes alot of effort and if she feels she has to lie to you even if it is about little things maybe she has an issue with trust. talk to her and ask why she feels that she has to lie to you and if she wants this relationship to last you have to be honest and be able to trust each other.
*jodyfresh*
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well no matter if its a big or little lie the point is your girlfriend should not lie to you.. and you need to tell her that. but it sounds to me that she likes you a lot cause she wants to get back with you so badly. if you feel the same then go for it! just let her know that there needs to be an end with all the lies.
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If u want to be with her then get back together with her. But you have to tell her that if you tow are in a relationship she should not lie to you just like there should be no secrets from the other one. if she lies to you again walk out of the relationship and don't try talkin to her. just forget her.
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omgsh dont get back with her. wait, that's bad. okay if you really like her make her promise to you that she'll always be open & honest so you'll do the same. your relationship won't last if there's lies in there. if she says that & lies, break up with her. hope i helped!
♥Nazy
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you cant have a relationship without trust and honesty
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I guess you might try it one more time. You need to tell her though that the slightest lie is going to get her a break up again. Unless you want to live with the lies you will have to stick to it. You have to consider that if she will lie to you about small things, well, whats going to happen when something really serious comes up. Doesn't make her real trustworthy. Have a LONG talk about it, then if you want to try again give it one more shot. :)
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You might want to tell her that the reason you broke up was b/c she was lying... and if she already knows that then you might want to give it some time so then your not as confused. And..if you really want to get together with her...whats stopping you?
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okay i think you should sit down with her(or call) and let her know that you do want to get bac together with her but tell her that u arent goign to be able to trust he as much untile she proves to u she can stop with the lies , and if she still lies when yall if yall get bac together then its ova
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Well like you said, she's lied to you about nothing REALLY serious, so give her some slack. If you really love this girl and she loves you, I think you should give it a try again. Of course she gets emotional when you mention a break up...it's probably because she loves you. Just explain to her you won't tolerate any lies from her because a relationship needs trust and no lies. If she lies again, just break up with her again. It's worth the risk. If you never take risks you'll never experience anything good. Dating is all about gaining new experiences, bonding with someone, and finding out what you need and want. If something doesn't work out you move on and live life.
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Like everyone else has said, I would try getting back together with her. Make sure you make it clear to her that you don't want her to lie anymore. That's really important. Don't just go, "OK...but no more lies ok?". You need to straight with her and say, "I'll get back together with you, but I don't want you to lie to me, got it?" You don't need to yell or give her any angry looks, just be really confident in what you say and how you act while you're doing this. Hope this works out for you.
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you told her what would happen if she lied and she did so now she must suffer. you don't need to be with someone that lies to you!!!
best of luck!!
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if i where i wouldnt go back to her. i wouldnt be apperciated lyed to by my partner. it just isnt right. she should be able to tell you the truth no matter how ad it is. trust is one of the big things in a realtionship.but if you really love her then go back to her and tell her how you feel about her lying to you. hope this helps you.
*~Stephanie~*
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If you really love her than you should go back out with her just tell her how you feel about her lieing all the time she mitee just change!!
Hope I helped x33
xOx Devin xOx
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Babe...Listen,
Life is too short to take the chance of not being with the one you love...or could possibly love in the future,so take her bak because she could die or dissappear tomorrow so follow your heart...I know that sounds cheesy but hunni its true believe me:)
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'
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i say dont get back with her !!!
it she keeps lying to you then you know that she is goung to do it agian i can honestly say that you deserve someone much better !!!!!
I know you might think that you want to be with her even though she keeps lying to you maybe you just want to be with someone....
well hope i helped
rat em
lisaleilani
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if you want to go back to her, go right ahead! but before you do, tell her about your feelings with her lying. my friend lies all the time...so i have the same problem. (but when i talk to her about it she gets mad at me bc shes a bitch) but talk to her about it, see how she takes it. Tell her you won't take any more crap from her and if she does, the relationship is over because it's the best thing to do...Hope I Helped
*!~Julie*!~
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