Ask me anything you want! If you think its a stupid question or you think im gunna laugh at what your asking... dont worry about it im not that kinda person i take people very seriously and when people need help i love to be the person helping them!
I just want to make a couple things clear. This is an advice column not a bashing site. If you have problems with me or my advice im giving please keep it to yourself. I honestly dont care what other people think of me cause no matter what you have to say is going to change me. I am who i am. But, if you do decide to post your thoughts & feelings of me in a rude kinda way im going to put you in your place... whether you would like me to or not.
ASK. ME. QUESTIONS.
Website: MYSPACE
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: hollisterflirtxo
Member Since: June 6, 2005
Answers: 14
Last Update: June 24, 2005
Visitors: 1308
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f/13. school's pretty much over but i have a one hour day on friday june 24. i like this guy but i'm not sure if i should continue liking him over the summer. but i highly doubt that he would ever like me. last year whne i liked him i got over him during the summer, but then when school started i liked him again. do you think i should continue liking him this summer?
signed, summer lovin' doesn't happen so fast (link)
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sure why not?
you cant help it if you like someone.
thats just how it is.
and hey. you never know. you might get over him. cause after all it is summer! and theres guys all over the place. wherever you go. but keep in touch with him like emails, instant messanger, phone
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i kissed my boyfriend on the cheek for the very first time and im thinking now its his turn, should he kiss me? my friend told him "kiss her!!" but he never did. i was thinking he was suposed to be the one to kiss me first but i realized he was too shy so i kissed him, should i be looking for signs of kissing? haha i guess....alright help. (link)
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no you didnt do the wrong thing. it just shows how much you like him. but you shouldnt always be the one making the move. your boyfriend needs to do it too.
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ohkay, i have this huge problem.. last night i bought a bathing suit for the pool party im having tonight and i just realized there is some huge thing that says "WARNING tampering will break glass and cause ink to leak out" I paid for it nd everything but the lady didnt take it off! taking it back to the store cant be done so what do i do!!!!! (link)
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you could try the bus.
but i bought a pair of jeans once & the lady forgot to take it off. i wanted to wear them really bad so stupid me.. i decided to break if off. & yep! ink goes EVERYWHERE. so dont break it off. just use an old bathing suit of yours from like last year. [[if it still fits]] but if that doesnt work. im almost positive tbat one of your friends has an extra that you can use.
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My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do? (link)
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well no matter if its a big or little lie the point is your girlfriend should not lie to you.. and you need to tell her that. but it sounds to me that she likes you a lot cause she wants to get back with you so badly. if you feel the same then go for it! just let her know that there needs to be an end with all the lies.
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I'm going to the beach for the first time in years. What things should I make sure to bring? (like make-up, how many bathing suits, what bathing suits, and other stuff..) (link)
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bring a beach towel so you can lay on it and tan.. sun tan lotion you cant forget about that. make sure you bring a very cute bathing suit like a bikini if you have brown hair go for a brown or red bathing suit.. it looks really good.
blonde hair - the blue's, yellow's, green's, & pinks work best
black hair - a bathing suit with lots of bright colors or a bathing suit with lots of white looks cute too.
HAVE FUN!
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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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its difficult to tell if a boy likes you there so hard to figure out.. ask anyone. but it sounds to me that this boy obviously has feelings for you. & if his friend was staring then that means he obviously knows that his buddy likes you. so ask his friend what the deal is.. & if the vibes are true.
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I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
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im like that too sometimes im always afraid that someone is down there.. its not weird alot of people are like that. we think that because of all the horror movies and stuff, and besides its dark down there so you cant see anything.. i mean if you think about it anything could be down there.
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Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike (link)
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sorry mike... but im going to have to agree with your cousin & best friend :/ but there absolutly right a relationship with that kinda girl is really unhealthy for you... you need to move on. & of course suicide is NOT the answer.
- KAYLA
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sooooooooo----awkward mommentt---haha how do you make out..details..thanks bye! (link)
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haha well i used to ask the same question but to be honest there isnt an answer for it, it just comes naturally... you'll see what i mean after it happens
- KAYLA
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ok i have a bf thats my age. but i REALLY like this other guy who is 2 yrs older than me. i think he likes me too. he doesnt kno that i have a bf though so if he asked me out nd im still w/ my bf, wut do i do?
ps-i think the older guy would b a much better bf! (link)
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It doesnt matter what the age difference is... if you have feelings for someone then you have feelings for someone. Thats just how life works. But, If you have a bf and you have feelings for a different guy then you need to break up with your bf. then if this guy ends up asking you out you will be single & ready for a relationship.
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i play softball and slid into third base. i got this really bad scrape. i kept picking at it. so now it is a really big pink scar. i cant shave over it because it make cut the scar and icant use nair because its going to affect the scar. what should i dowith the hair that is on my scar? (link)
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OUCH
Well the only thing i would suggest is just trim it with scissors
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i have this friend,we'll call her sandy. Sandy always copys me..she likes my bf..she is wicked mean to me..she brags and brags..she says that shes ugly ONLY so me and my friends tell her that she is not ugly. Im slowly breaking away..i dont want to be her enimy i just dont want her to be my friend... (link)
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If Sandy was your BF she wouldnt brag to you & your friends, be mean to you, and certainly wouldnt copy off you. See true friends just arent like that... a good friend would never do that. :/ Its ok to be breaking away just do it in a slow process so she doensnt feel like your leaving her out in the dust. Just keep your distance & hopefully everything will work out
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so here it is...
I flirt alot ! but only with guys i know well... not with this guy i like.. i dont flirt with him... but i flirt with likes guys who flirt back so i think they think that i like them.. but i dont... how do i stop flirting with ther other guys and flirt with the guy i like ?
Ps when i try to even talk to the guy i get really red and cant think of anything to say...
thanks
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i have the same problems as you! its easier to flirt with guys you dont like because you really dont care what they think... but then when it comes to the one your truely head over heals for you just cant do it.
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I love making up my own songs and singing them..the problem is, when i write them down, they look so retarded and then I forget the tune and everything screws up..my question is, how do you write lyrics that match with the tunes? I would love to be a singer one day but that won't happen because I'm asian, but whatever..um what are some tips for writing song lyrics and thinking of tunes? Thanks..I rate (link)
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First off just because your asian doesnt mean you wont become a singer. As long as you put your heart to it & try really hard anything is possible!
I also want to be a singer/songwriter so i totally understand what you mean by "for getting the tune" to the song you just wrote. My advice for you is just find a tune that sounds really good for it and write it down on the music so you can remember it. like a D flat or whatever. & keep practicing!
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