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Dose he like me?


Question Posted Sunday June 19 2005, 12:42 am

I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.



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Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 12:51 pm:
Hi!
Well, from what you have written, he seems likes he may like you. Boys at that age usually aren't mature enough to express their feelings in a more direct way, which is why you probably won't get him to come right out and say he likes you, but you'll catch him staring at you, or just paying more attention to you than normal. But, I don't think you're going to be able to figure this out without talking to him. You're going to have to eventually, so just start with a 'hi' whenever you see him, or ask him how his weekend was. Hopefully those little conversations will get you to be a little more comfortable around each other, and you will be better able to tell if he likes you or not. He is also more likely to drop more hints that he likes you if he thinks there is a chance that you might like him back. So, drop some hints of your own. Next time you catch him staring at you, smile at him before he has a chance to turn away. Another way to try to tell if he likes you is to compare how he acts towards you compared to other girls. Does he pay more attention to you than the other girls? But most importantly, just start talking to him, and see where it goes from there. Good luck!

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vchicka15 answered Monday June 27 2005, 12:07 am:
boys like you if they become shy, or if they try to impress you alot. ask one of your friends to ask him if he likes you. to me it sounds like he does like you, and i think you should go for it if you like him. but remember dont like him just because you think he likes you. good luck!

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JLyNn answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 5:24 pm:
i think that this boy might like you, and he just doesnt want to tell you, or doesnt know how. if he stares and looks that much, chances are yeah he likes what he sees. he obviously cares enough to not let you run into a wall, if he said something about it before you ended up doing it. Do you know his friends?..if you do, you could talk to them and be like "hey, do you know if he likes me?" Maybe your friends could talk to him about it if they would. Or you could also write him a note, just saying that you see him looking at youll the time and you think what he did about not lettin you run into the wall was really nice of him, and you were wondering if he likes you. if you like him yourself you could always add that in, im a sure he'd like that if you put it in.

There are soo many ways to tell if guys like you, like staring, teasing, helping you(like ur situation) their friends might tell you, he might get shy around you, or if your in groups or something for school he might want to be with you alot...theres so many ways just naming some tho.


drop me another in my inbox if you ever need anything, im always here!<33 and if you like my advice tell your friends about me(:..thankss bunches, hope i helped!<33

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CoKeIzZle answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:44 pm:
Hey Hun, hmm well if I were you I would ask him out! You have nothing to lose because I think he likes you. Some ways you can tell a guy likes you is your friends asking him or his friends. Have one of your good friends go up to him and say "do you like **your name**?" and if he says no your friend will say oh just wondering--if he says maybe your friend will say oh because i think she might like you but i'm not sure--and if he says yes your friend will say oh she likes you too!. Or you can have another friend OR YOU go up to one of his friends and ask them. I don't really think you need information because I think you've got this guy babe! My advice to you is: Ask him out! You have nothing to lose and the worst he can say is no! You can still be friends. Hope I helped! x0x Nicole Taylor x0x

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:34 pm:
well a guy always staring at you doenst always mean he likes you that kind of way. what you should do is become really close friends. if you get close to him then you can get to know him better and flirt with him more and see if he askes you out. he doesnt then get one of your friends to talk to him and see what he tells them. i mean you dont want to jump into concluions and in the end it wasnt what you expected it to be. dont get your hopes up so high that if he doesnt like you you get hurt worse. just take things slow and get to knwo him better and become good friends. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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xOxGlamerous4 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:07 pm:
you should talk to him cause guys they like when girls are outspoken and then you guys well get to know one another and u know if he likes you when he looks at you and stares at you

trust me the hole staring and looking at you (( thats like the same thing but o well)) because this kid i like i know he likes me from these reason cause no guy will waste his time looking at you if he doesnt like you

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SUMMERLOViNXO answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 3:57 pm:
its difficult to tell if a boy likes you there so hard to figure out.. ask anyone. but it sounds to me that this boy obviously has feelings for you. & if his friend was staring then that means he obviously knows that his buddy likes you. so ask his friend what the deal is.. & if the vibes are true.
<33 KAYLA

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FrEe2bMe answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 3:06 pm:
Okay before I get to my advice for you, I just want to make it cleasr that it's TOTALLY okay to be 13 and never have a boyfriend. You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Some people don't date until like college so don't feel like you're a late bloomer or anything. But, I also think it's great that you may have found someone that likes you. But first, with that said, don't just like him back because you may think or he does like you. Girls often do that and it's not fair to either of you. As for this case, I think the guy might like you, or at least be interested in getting to know you a little better. That was really nice of him to have "saved" you. Some guy would have totally just let you rammed yourself into the wall and laugh afterward.I also think that the fact that you catch him or his friend looking at you sometimes is a good indication that he may like you. To figure out if someone likes you without directly talking to him, is kind of tough. You just have to really pay close attentions to their actions when it comes to you or when you are around. Nice things, smiles, starring,etc are all good signs. But you really should try talking to him! Or, you could write him a lil' note to show him you know what's going on. But you should just try talking to him, you have othing to lose. But in short, he does like you I think or at least wants to get to know you better to like you more. :)

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Shortie8959 answered Monday June 20 2005, 9:09 pm:
I think it sounds like he likes you, but I'm not sure. Just try flirting with him, and see if he flirts back. If he does, he likes you. You could also ask one of your friends to ask one of his friends if he likes you. If a guy likes you, he'll try to be with you as much as possible, maybe directing his conversation to just you and not the rest of of the group, and some guys try to put their arm around your shoulder. I think you should invite him to go to the movies with you. Ask him to bring a friend, and bring one of your friends. And just flirt and see what happens! Good luck! &hearts; Erin

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DonutHolez567 answered Sunday June 19 2005, 12:54 am:
Just 1 ? yed you choose me. Anyways try wearing the sexiest thing you can get away with.ask him 2 sit with you at lunch if you can...but if you are shy like me try getting one of your friends ( like bestest friend) to say this * (your name) dared me 2 ask u if you would ever go out with her...AND C WHAT HE SAYS. Um... dress real cute tho that always helps and ask 2 barrow a pencil from him when you see him next just to see how enthusiastic he is about talking to u. Okay well tell me how it goes> Luvs T

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poa answered Sunday June 19 2005, 12:44 am:
You can't. Just talk to him if you are thinking that. Generally if a man likes you he will flirt and try to show you a good time - or he will be direct and just ask you out.

The only way I can think of without being direct and just asking - is to start flirting with him a bit to get the point across that you have mutual feelings.

In that case he will probably come out with what he thinks.

Or just send me a question in a few days saying "Oh... Theres this girl......."

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