i have this friend,we'll call her sandy. Sandy always copys me..she likes my bf..she is wicked mean to me..she brags and brags..she says that shes ugly ONLY so me and my friends tell her that she is not ugly. Im slowly breaking away..i dont want to be her enimy i just dont want her to be my friend...
devil9221 answered Thursday June 9 2005, 9:24 pm: Tell her how you feel. If she really wants to be your friend she will stop annoying you. If not then stop talking to her. It is as easy as that.
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xoBrowneyes answered Thursday June 9 2005, 11:00 am: I would give her an unsigned note saying that she is always copping you and your friends. Tell her she should try and be herself more often. She just wants to her that she is not ugly from your friends tell them to ignore her when she says that. If she starts copping you then tell her to stop. [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
SUMMERLOViNXO answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 10:45 pm: If Sandy was your BF she wouldnt brag to you & your friends, be mean to you, and certainly wouldnt copy off you. See true friends just arent like that... a good friend would never do that. :/ Its ok to be breaking away just do it in a slow process so she doensnt feel like your leaving her out in the dust. Just keep your distance & hopefully everything will work out
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 9:26 pm: The next time she brags and says or does rude things to you, say, "Sandy, we are friends, you need to start treating me like a friend, not someone you're competing against with boys, and trying to act like you're so full of low self-esteem." I know that will seem hard to say, but you can't keep letting her put you down and take control. Actually, the next time she says shes ugly, just say, "whatever you say" and no that doesn't mean you really think she is, but let her just put herself down instead of you. And when she brags, just don't say anything and change the subject, but if she tries to brag again, just say, "ok, whatever, so what are you doing today?" Or something like that. But if it comes to a point where subject changing and ignore her fake self hating, then just tell her how you feel.
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