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FLirt/ Tease


Question Posted Monday June 6 2005, 8:34 pm

so here it is...
I flirt alot ! but only with guys i know well... not with this guy i like.. i dont flirt with him... but i flirt with likes guys who flirt back so i think they think that i like them.. but i dont... how do i stop flirting with ther other guys and flirt with the guy i like ?

Ps when i try to even talk to the guy i get really red and cant think of anything to say...
thanks


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mackiemore answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 10:47 pm:
It sounds like you need to mellow out. Learn some self control. For the love of god...

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SUMMERLOViNXO answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 10:43 pm:
i have the same problems as you! its easier to flirt with guys you dont like because you really dont care what they think... but then when it comes to the one your truely head over heals for you just cant do it. <-- thats how it is for me anyways. The only thing i can say is just start off by talking to the boy that you like & then once he gets to know you better & your more comfortable with him then you can start the whole FLIRTING process. Hope i could help

<3 Kayla

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Morganqb6 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 11:55 am:
Flirting is definatly a hard thing. It's hard to help who you flirt with and who you don't. I mean you can control it, don't get me wrong but still. So I think that you should first worry about how to flirt with the guy that you like instead of how not to flirt. So, when you're talking to the guy you like, let's call him "Jim", just come up with common conversation. I mean you could call Jim and ask him if he wanted to go the the movies with you sometime, that way he'll know that you're thinking about him. There you could talk about, school, anything you have planned in the near future (trips), talk about what he likes to do, if it's a sport ask him some questions about htat. Don't focus the whole conversation on you because you're going to come off as conseaded. And if you do end up going to the movies...there's less talking to do, as if you went bowling or something.....Well I hope that I helped a little bit and if you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask...good luck
~Morgan

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kooka-burra answered Monday June 6 2005, 9:35 pm:
if any guy comes up and asks you if you like them. Just let em down nicely and tell them your just playing.

Don't try to flurt with the guy you like. Try to talk to the guy you like. Think of what your going say before you aproch them. think of things to talk about.

With the guys u flirt with.... If you can stop flirting with them then while you try to stop let them know your just fooling around. It's on thing to flirt, it's another to lead on a guy and then break them.

good luck
~kooka

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Monday June 6 2005, 9:18 pm:
Hey Sweetie,

Truth is your just a Flirt. You cant do anything about it, your kinda like me sometimes when you dont have that special somebody you tend to go to guys for comfort. I used to have lil moments when me and my bf would break up and like try to get eachother jelous and I would always run to the same boy for comfort. Its a natural instinct. But bout you gettin red when talkin to a guy, Just think of them like any other person like your best friend just like a best friend you never really met b4 that you have to get to know!! Hope I helped!!

-StephAnie-

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