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how do you kiss with braces. if both of you have them, or if only the girl has them? also, I'm always confused on how to start off, I never know exactly where or how to put my lips on theirs without hurting them there. any tips would be great! (link)
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It really wasn't that hard to kiss when I had my braces on. It usually won't matter unless you're kissing really roughly, just go gentle. (CH)
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I am 14 and a girl. I just shaved off all my pubes for the first time. Its all itchy. Thats probably because I didnt get the hairs close to the actual vagina. How do i get those without hurting myself? (link)
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It was itchy for me the first time I did it too, but it wasn't after I did it a few times. Your skin usually just has to get used to it. (CH)
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hey, my name is nicole...i really need advice and i didnt want to ask the whole advicenators because i wasnt completely comfortable with what the answers would be
you seem like you know a lot and you give good, real answers which is what i need...sorry in advance for the length...
okay, first off...im 15 and my boyfriend is 16
im not sure if hes done or anyhting or what hes done with other girls...he probly has but idk ...iev been dating him for about 5 months now and i love him to death! (ive never done anything but make out)
im most definatly ready to start doing sexual things with him and so is he...i know this because he's tried to do things when we were making out but i stopped him adn changed the subject like three times because i get nervous, anxious, and i feel like im not gonna be good enough...i get concious about the way i look "down there" and just EVERYTHING but im definatly ready for it...
i have some questions though...
well a couple months ago i was talking to one of my guy friends and he was telling me how he gave oral to a girl and she didnt cum and we were talking about masterbation and he asked me if i did and i said yeah and hes like did you ever get an orgasm before? and i was sort of confused becuase every time i masterbate, i orgasm...ever since i started...
is it not normal for girls to orgasm??
and when i watch movies like sometiems the girls have sex for the first time and itll be there first orgasm...im just a little confused about that...
when guys give oral do girls normally cum? what normally happens?
and like does the guy keep going until she orgasms normally?
what do guys normally like thebest...completely shaved or some shaved?
when giving a guy oral, do girls normally swallow it or just finish him off with their hand and not swallow?
and if they dotn swallow...then like what do you do with it when youre finished...what normally happens??
when a girl gives a guy oral...what does the guy like and what does the girl normally do??
...like how does she start it then what does a girl do that guys really like...just a little bit of some of the things to do...
thank you so much in advance...i just need answers about how everything really is and normally happens
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I can't really answer everything you wrote, because I'm really not as experienced as you may think. I don't think it's a smart idea to go any farther than you have with a guy if you don't even know how far he's gone with other girls. I had an issue like this with a guy and we kept going further, but I didn't know how far he had really gone, when I finally found out I realized that I didn't want to go near as far as he had with other girls. Ok, now i'm going to try and answer your questions as best that i know how.
It IS normal for girls to masturbate, and orgasm. I don't think most people get their first orgasm from sex, but usually masturbation.
I don't know anything about oral sex, because i haven't had it and don't think you should until you're older, but most people don't swallow.
It just depends if a guy likes shaved or not, but I just shave for me, because it's easier and I don't have to worry about bathing suits and stuff.
Sorry I don't know all the answers to this...
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Me and myboyfriend were making out.. getting into it, whatever.. and you know he was kinna out of breath and everything and i felt like... almost a pulsing in his "region". is that normal? what does it mean?
thank you!
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Were you rubbing against each other? Because if so he may of had an orgasm.
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how do i ask a girl to hook up with me? like what is a smooth i guess pick up line? example scenario would be at a party, and i have been talking to and flirting with a girl the whole night. (link)
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Ok, most girls don't like being ASKED to hook-up, the best thing to do is to get closer and see how she reacts...
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Should I kiss on the first date? (link)
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If you're into him...there's nothing wrong with just a kiss, but if you're not, don't ever feel pressured to kiss him.
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Not sure if this is in the right category, sorry if its not!
So I'm 13/f, and I've been wanting a lip ring for about a year and a half. All my friends that are my age hate lip rings (except one) and my grandma (whom I live with) said I can't get one until I'm 18. Well I've been researching about it, like the risks, and side effects and stuff. I've absolutely decided I will NOT do it unless the materials are sterilized (my OLDER friends got their friends to do it with safety pins) But I was researching, like the different types, because I haven't decided on that either. I currently wear a fake one (lame, I know) just to get used to it and such. (Its the hoop that goes around your lip) Anyway though I was wondering if anyone knows a site that has details on different types of lip rings? I searched google, but all I got was mostly stores. I'm trying to get as much research and side effects and such done so I can make a convincing argument. My birthday's the 23rd, and I was hoping to try and talk my grandma into letting me get a lip ring for then.
I'm wondering about a lip ring segment, lip hugger, and a few more.
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Lip rings are dangerous no matter if everything's sterile, they can get stuck on things and can get irritated easily. And your grandma's sort of right...
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I really need a better room cleaning strategey. Does anybody have anytips on better ways to clean my room and keep it clean. everything just seems so overwhelming when it gets messy and then I just dont know where to start.
Anything would be helpful. (link)
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The best thing to do is to give your room about 5 minutes a day, and so cleaning won't be so stressful. This way the mess is never too huge.
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alright, so, we all make mistakes, just, some worse then others
well, yesterday I went to go trim my hair, the lady ended up taking an inch & 1/2 off
so, it didn't look good & I wasn't too happy
so, I went to go get it dyed to maybe make it look better, I tried to dye it dark brown, but it came out black (I'm naturally a blonde, so, imagine how that looks with my skin)
so, what I'm asking is, how do I grow my hair out faster?
& how do I fade the color A TON?
thanks! (link)
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I recently had a bad haircut too, and I read that the best thing to do was to take prenatl vitamins. Those are vitamins that pregnant people take, and they make your hair and nails grow a lot faster. A way to make your hair looks longer is also to straighten it. I'm not sure how to fade hair fast, but just get it cut shorter and it will be gone sooner! Heh. Hope I helped a little bit. ~Mackie
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What colors of eyeshadow would look really really good for green eyes? I tried one of those almay ones that say they are really good for green eyes, with the purple on the lid, then dark green then light green, but it makes my eye look bruised. I use these colors already- pink,silver and green sometimes a skintone/goldish color. Any advice? i rate (link)
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I have green eyes too and earth tones usually look good, like brown, green, gold, etc. Pretty much any color will look ok, since green is light, but some may dilute the color of your eyes and make them look different. Not always a bad thing.
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WHY is it ok for black guys to date caucasian chicks but it's not ok for black ladies to date caucasian guys. (link)
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Ugh, freaking stereotypes. If more people don't give in to them, maybe over time people will become more accepting. I hope so.
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Ok, I got Sims 2 from a friend, and I have been playing it. I know that two siblings can't woohoo as the game puts it, but my question is this. Can 2 cousins? What about 2 half siblings? I have a family of six living in my house curently, and I plan on bringing in two people from an outside house for the next generation. I have a family tree planned out for the next three generations, that ends with two people, but its all predicated on the ability of two half siblings and two cousins to produce a child. If they cannot, how far does the restrcition go? Can two people whos grandparents were related produce a child? (link)
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Ok, well I'm a big Sims2 player too. It is hard to keep track of every family relation, so the easiest way to tell is to look under a sim's relationships and there is a blue family symbol under a sims name that is considered related to them. Any sim without the blue symbol, is free for woohoo. ~Mackie
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Hi. I am 14/f, going into 10th grade.
I'm 5'7 or so, and 113lbs, so I'm pretty skinny and tall.
Because I'm so tall, and alot of my friends and other people are shorter, I don't want to wear any shoes that make me even taller.
Can you give me some ideas on cute shoes that are flat or have a shorter heel? Also, I don't have that much money so the max. is $20/shoe...which makes it a lot more difficult for me to find shoes.
Also, do you think that if I wear shoes that are taller, people will notice or make comments?
Thanks. (link)
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That's crazy! I'm 5 foot 7 too and I also weigh 113! Wow! Anyway, I wear cute flip flops and flat sandals in the summer, and in the winter, ballet-looking flats are good. ~Hope I've Helped, Mackie
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How do i make my cat stop pooping so much? (link)
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That is ridiculous. If you pooped a lot, how would you get yourself to stop? You couldn't. They poop when they poop.
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my dads mom dies today, and the sad thing is i didnt cry. noone in my family has ever died while i was living. im ot sure if it didnt hit me yet, or i just wasnt close to her. to be honest she annoyed me alot, always asking questions, being nosy. she was an alchoholic too. i just felt bad for my dad and thats what made me saddest. i feel guilty because i cant remember times where i liked to be with her. what am i supposed to do? is it bad to feel that way? should i talk to my friends about it? (link)
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People deal with grief in lots of different ways. It is normal that if you were not close to this person that you don't feel sad. It is completely normal.
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Anyone know where I can find some really good quotes? (link)
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If you go to your nearest bookstore,there are amazing things called "quote dictionaries" and they have all sorts of quotes on different topics.
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so my sister just got a mini doxen and my aunt is a groomer, is it true when it's fully grown, it will become a mean dog? are they good dogs? (link)
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Dachsaunds are not mean, but very energetic and occasionally snappy. You will need to train it to be kind as a puppy, and give it plenty of exercise.
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Ok, I really like Maroon 5 so I picked out a Maroon 5 buddy icon on AIM. Then a kid named Grant started saying to me that the only reason I liked them was because my crush likes them, and its not true, and I kept telling him that, and he kept calling me a liar. And I put in my profile that Maroon 5 rocks, and he said I put that in just because Matt, the guy I like, has it in his profile, but that isn't true since I didn't know that Matt had done that. What should I do to convince Grant that I'm not lying and to get him off my back? (link)
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What on earth makes you care what this guy thinks?
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i really dont like meat..i mean just the taste of it..does anybody know a list of foods that i could eat that have protein in them! thanks a bunch! i rate!! (link)
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Some great non-meat foods with protein are peanut butter, nuts, cottage cheese, yogurt, milk, and eggs. All are healthy, tasty (in my opinion), and a great source of protein.
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I want to do this pageant, but I don't Know how to ask my mother and father. I've never really been into pageants, I've always been more into acting and singing. I think it would give me more self confidence. But now that I'm turning 15 I started to like all that pageant modeling stuff. I just dont know how to ask them and to let me go. Also what are some tips that I should know. I've never done this before. They also want to do an interview, so does anybody know what type of questions they ask? It said no past experience is necessary, but I would appreciate some tips and things to remember because I don't want to mess up. Also, Im a little self concience (sorry about the spelling!) I have bad eczema ( pronounced eggsema ) and It's always been an issue for me. Do you think that doing this pageant will give me more self confidence or make my self concienciousness ( again sorry about the spelling ) worse? Thank you!
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Though a pageant may help you gain confidence, it will only be superficial and on the outside. You really need to feel comfortable on the inside, too, or it will lead to trouble later in life.
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