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hey, my name is nicole...i really need advice and i didnt want to ask the whole advicenators because i wasnt completely comfortable with what the answers would be
you seem like you know a lot and you give good, real answers which is what i need...sorry in advance for the length...
okay, first off...im 15 and my boyfriend is 16
im not sure if hes done or anyhting or what hes done with other girls...he probly has but idk ...iev been dating him for about 5 months now and i love him to death! (ive never done anything but make out)
im most definatly ready to start doing sexual things with him and so is he...i know this because he's tried to do things when we were making out but i stopped him adn changed the subject like three times because i get nervous, anxious, and i feel like im not gonna be good enough...i get concious about the way i look "down there" and just EVERYTHING but im definatly ready for it...
i have some questions though...
well a couple months ago i was talking to one of my guy friends and he was telling me how he gave oral to a girl and she didnt cum and we were talking about masterbation and he asked me if i did and i said yeah and hes like did you ever get an orgasm before? and i was sort of confused becuase every time i masterbate, i orgasm...ever since i started...
is it not normal for girls to orgasm??
and when i watch movies like sometiems the girls have sex for the first time and itll be there first orgasm...im just a little confused about that...
when guys give oral do girls normally cum? what normally happens?
and like does the guy keep going <i>until</i> she orgasms normally?
what do guys normally like thebest...completely shaved or some shaved?
when giving a guy oral, do girls normally swallow it or just finish him off with their hand and not swallow?
and if they dotn swallow...then like what do you do with it when youre finished...what normally happens??
when a girl gives a guy oral...what does the guy like and what does the girl normally do??
...like how does she start it then what does a girl do that guys really like...just a little bit of some of the things to do...
thank you so much in advance...i just need answers about how everything really is and normally happens
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Hey. Sorry it's taken me so long to answer your question, I got banned, so I apologize for that. Anyways...
[1] Yeah. Some girls just don't orgasm sometimes. And it's totally cool. You're not abnormal, so don't go off think you are, cause you're not.
[2] Some girls can't get off when masturbating, so sometimes during sex the guy can make it happen, I suppose.
[3] Honestly, I've never given or received oral, and I don't plan to, but I guess the girl cums, or she orgasms. Whichever. Usually both.
[4] I think the guy keeps going until she cums.
[5] It honestly depends on the guy. Some guys like a certain type of wax, some guys like it completely shaved off. I suggest you shave it completely because sometimes the guy won't want a girl with hair and it might be a turn off for him. So until a guy tells you otherwise, shave it.
[6] It depends on the girl. Some girls spit it out, some girls swallow it. It's all up to you.
[7] You spit it out, haha. When you're finished, then the foreplay or whatever keeps going unless you decide to stop.
[8] I've never given oral before, so I honestly don't know what guy would like. Maybe ask some of your guy friends?
[9] I think a girl would start it by just kissing him & leading down there, but I don't know.
Sorry if that didn't answer it, but I hope I helped anyways.
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Okay, first off, I am so flattered that you chose me to answer your question, Thank You :D
Don't worry & relax when doing this, okay?!
It is definately normal for a girl to orgasm, but I don't think girls usually orgasm giving guys oral. I've never heard that. The man only gets an orgasm from this ;D
It depends what the guy likes shaved or un-shaved. Some guys like a landing strip or a little patch and some guys like shaved completely.
Some girls like swallowing and some girls just spit it out after. I personally thinks it's gross to swallow. The guy sometimes finishes off and squirts it in your mouth or you can just finish it with your hand and wash it off after ;D
Make sure to get the head of the penis the most! While sucking on the head, rub down the shaft. You can even stop and rub it for awhile. Guys love deep throat, but you can choke if he's big ;D
I have never given a guy oral, but I know this stuff from my resources (Men, internet, TV)
I am so glad you picked me out of everyone on here. I'm so flattered. Thanks so much & hope I helped. If there's any advice you need...send me an e-mail. Tell other people about me too :D
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I can't really answer everything you wrote, because I'm really not as experienced as you may think. I don't think it's a smart idea to go any farther than you have with a guy if you don't even know how far he's gone with other girls. I had an issue like this with a guy and we kept going further, but I didn't know how far he had really gone, when I finally found out I realized that I didn't want to go near as far as he had with other girls. Ok, now i'm going to try and answer your questions as best that i know how.
It IS normal for girls to masturbate, and orgasm. I don't think most people get their first orgasm from sex, but usually masturbation.
I don't know anything about oral sex, because i haven't had it and don't think you should until you're older, but most people don't swallow.
It just depends if a guy likes shaved or not, but I just shave for me, because it's easier and I don't have to worry about bathing suits and stuff.
Sorry I don't know all the answers to this...<3
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Wow, lots of questions. lol.
Well, I know you say you feel like you're ready to be sexual with your boyfriend, but if you're that insecure, you probably aren't. And if you're not sure, or either way, communication is key. You have to talk to him about it and be honest with each other. It can clear a lot of things up.
Now, for your questions:
All girls are different. For some girls it's difficult to have an orgasm. And most girls don't orgasm EVERY time they have sex with a guy. Usually you have to stimulate yourself to get over that cliff. As for oral sex, the girl SHOULD orgasm unless it's just unusually difficult for her to get there or if she just isn't into the guy.
If oral sex is the only thing planned, the guy would probably do it until the girl orgasms...and even if intercourse is going to occur. Girls can have multiple orgasms so guys usually try to give them as many as possible.
All guys are different and have different preferences. All like it neat down there...some like shaved and some like trimmed. But to be honest, a guy will take what he can get. Most are just happy to be down there in the first place. Whatever you like best should be fine.
Again, all girls are different. You can swallow if you want, or you can just use your hand to finish him off and let him cum in your hand or on his stomach. In that case, you can just wipe it up afterwards. If you keep your mouth on it the whole time but don't want to swallow it, you'd spit it out...but the taste isn't that wonderful, just as a warning.
As for your other two questions, you need to talk to you boyfriend about what he likes. He'll tell you, trust me. And while you're down there take cues from him on what it seems like feels the best. Here are a few guidelines though:
-COVER YOUR TEETH! No guy should feel teeth on his penis, ever! Ouch!
-Don't just suck...use your tongue to massage it and pay special attention to the head of the penis.
-Use your hands as well as your mouth. Like guide yourself with your hand at the base of his penis.
Those are just some cardinal rules. The rest is up to you and your guy.
Good luck! And thank you for the question!
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