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making out.
k well i might hook up with this guy at the movies, and like wed make out. and i dont know how because i never have.
can anyone tell me like how to make out, like could i pratice on a pillow or something.
that sounds lame, but like if i cant he might not like me.
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don't worry about "practicing." kissing comes natrually. you don't have to stress about you thinking your terrible. just start off as a kiss, and then just lead your tonge into it. you might think it feels weird having a tonge in your mouth and all, but that's how it goes. just don't worry. you'll be fine. =D
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What each person likes in a make-out session is different so tips might not even help you in the way you would like. I think if he tries to kiss you (which he will) ask him to stop for a moment and explain that you haven't been kissed or made out with anyone before and that this is the first time.
He will be considerate of that and will if you ask him coach you through it all. Most guys actually like this as well, the practicisng is kind of fun. Just be honest with him about this and take it step by step and at a comfortable pace for both of you. There's no reason to be embarassed as everyone has to start and learn this kind of thing somewhere and with someone.
He's still going to like you silly. He'll especially like you for being honest so you both don't wind up in an awkward moment when he tries something on you and you don't know how to deal with it.
Tell him the truth and that you really like him and ask him to guide you through it. He'll love that and I'm sure it will be an enjoyable stress free time for both of you.
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Wow, that answer before me pretty much sums it up. I'd just have said, there isnt really an instruction manual on making out. You just launch yourself into it. I didnt have my first kiss till i was 15 and it wasnt as big a deal as i thought it was. He wont not like you if you aren't a great kisser. Just tell him he'l have to help you perfect your style, so lots and lots of kissing ahead for the two of you...
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First of all, don't worry if you are not an experienced kisser. Guys can't tell if you have kissed before. Since everyone kisses differently, you always "start from scratch" when you kiss a new person. Plus, in most cases a guy will be so thrilled that he's locking lips with you, he won't be judging the way you kiss! So never be embarrassed that you're not a kissing pro. Kissing is easy - and fun - when you know a few basic rules. Let's move onto them now...Let's start with your kissing equipment: your lips and mouth. Keep your lips soft and kissable by applying lip balm every day. It's especially important to keep your lips moisturized in the winter months, when drier air can make them feel scaly. Don't neglect your breath either. Good breath is one of the most important ingredients in a good kiss. Keep yours fresh by brushing and flossing twice a day. Keep sugarfree mints handy in your purse or pocket, for situations when you need to freshen up fast.When it comes to the actual kiss, keep your lips soft and gentle. Think of kissing something very tender. You can practice on the back of your hand! There are long kisses, and there are kisses made up of a whole bunch of short, gentle little kisses. Go with the flow, and let your partner take the lead if you are not sure which way the kiss is going. When you are in the middle of the kiss, concentrate on feeling the friction between your lips and his, the electricity when the surface of your lips and his match up, and how each of you are moving your lips in rhythm with each other. Getting out of your head and focusing totally on the physical sensation of the kiss can add some real power and sensuality to your kissing. As for your eyes, keep them closed once you are into the kiss. You might want to keep them open until you have actual lip contact, so you don't miss and end up with a mouthful of ear. But when the kiss has started, eyes closed is the way to go. It can really help you shut out the world and focus only on the kiss. Also, kissing with your eyes open can weird out a guy, if he happens to catch you doing it. A valuable Jellybean tip: guys who kiss with their eyes open are usually thinking of something else besides you. If you catch your partner kissing with eyes wide, be careful - he might not be good boyfriend material. That's all you really need to know about kissing... except for one more, very important reminder. ENJOY THE KISS. Staying in the moment and enjoying the experience has a lot to do with what makes a memorable kiss. The best way to kill a kiss is to dwell on how you're doing, concentrate too hard on getting the "right" kissing technique down, or let your mind wander to what your partner thinks about you. The single most important thing to remember about kissing is to BE IN THE MOMENT and enjoy the kiss for itself. This is what it's all about... the simplest and greatest of pleasures, the soft friction, the tender wetness, the heat of his face so close to yours... kissing is great. Possibly the greatest. So kiss with confidence... and have FUN!
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