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Gender: Female
Location: SC
AIM: SCpinkprep
Member Since: June 19, 2005
Answers: 19
Last Update: June 26, 2005
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Ok so here is my problem i have a really low self eestem i sould nt cause i hear that i am pretty alought and tons of people like me [cheak our my advice column to see pic] but my self- eestem is still really low i hate the way i look and i am never happy i feel like i can't so anyhting right and everything i do i screw up. please help me.
Reality. (link)
i think that oyu should just tryt ohave more confedence and be proud to be who you are


Ok, so Im sopussed to go on this vacation to this rented house on a beach with my moms side of the family and Im not really close to them like yeah I never talk to anyone of them but no matter how much I begged not to go my mom still said I had to; but then when my brother asked not to go she didnt care. So Im kinda already mad at my mom for that. Then my friend could go to help me not be so miserable but my mom wont help pay for her with the money that she was gonna use for my brother. Im inbetween going and not going because #1 there is a SLIGHT chance it could be fun, but #2 it could be really boring, #3 my mom would be miserable without one of us kids around with her, and #4 Id get a grand tan. So if you were me would you go? (link)
go and take a friend , just emagen the great tans yall will get!! and yall cna make it fun and keep your mom companie so she doesnt have to go alone ! it really could turn out fun ! so go you have nothing to loose !

**hope i helped***rate**lizzi**


okay, ive been going out with my bf for a little over a week and i really like him and stuff. The problem is, i still am in love with my ex. But the thing is, my ex is beginning his first year of high school in the fall and i will be beginning 8th grade. He also lives really far away and his high school is pretty far away too. My current bf is really nice and everything but i still am in love with my ex. When my ex found out about the bf i have now, he got really jealous. I would dump my bf for him in a second, but i dont know if that would be the smart thing to do. What should i do? Please help me! (link)
okay , apperntly the last answer didnt help oyu any ! so here i go ........why dont you go out with your ex because it seems you like him a WHOLE lot more then your bf now , and it seems like oyur ex likes oyu alot too ! so i think oyu should ask your ex out ! if oyu both love each other as much as it seems you can make the long distance thing work!

hope this helps**rate**lizzi**
ps: if you have anymore qestions drop one in my inbox xoxoyoulovemexox


I need a really good straightener, ive got crazy hair. I have this mini handheld one but it works really bad..i seen this "jade" green one that looked cool hahah, does it work good? it interested me alot. Also i need one thats 20 dollars or under, and that i can get at a walgreens or something. Thanks! (link)
the wet to stright ones work super good but there bout 30$ i have one and i have super curly hair and it is frizzy and that hair straightener controlls the frizz nd you dont have to blow dry your hair first!

*hope i helped**please rate**lizzi*


I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me (link)
i think that you should talk to him about this and maybe you can take like a little bit away from each other , because when your around someone for a long time even if it is your bf or best friend then they can seem aike for anoying so tell him you dont want to break up but need some time alone for like a day or 2 adn not talk or anything

please rate!
**lizzi**


okay i want a new screename but i dont know what i should get. oh no! but i like smurfs, and ska music, like my old screen names were like stalkingroxyxx
eyeLOVEtheUSEDx
and stuff kinda like that you could say im emo i guess so i need like an awesome sn.

please help!
ill give 5's!

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x0smurfsx0

hope you like that
please rate!
**lizzi**


I'm babysitting 2 kids every Tuesday. One of them is 7 (Girl), and the other is 4(boy). Do you have any ideas on what we could do? Or any ideas on how to make dinnertime more fun? Like, what could I make?
THANKS (link)
yea!!
i babysitt kids aroundthose ages all the time , maybe if they like arts & crafts then you guys can color , but i sugest not playing beads or anything because there still kind of little well not the girl but the boy you dont want to have to take anyone to the hospitl because a bead went up his nose ! well you and the little girl (and boy) could play barbies or dolls or you guys could paint ! or watch a movie likeshark tail or something little kids like .

*hope i helped**lizzi*


Does anyone have any tips about make up for the summer? (link)
okay ,
if you want ot wear make up out to eat then a would try a lit powder or bronzer from clinque / some eyeliner (just bottom) but not tons or it wont turn out right / eye shadow (color depends on the color of your hair and eyes and the color your wearing!)/mascara clear or black / get a lip stick and put that on and then put that over it (the color choice is up to u)....if you are going to wear light colors i noyur outfitt go with light colors on oyur face but if oyur going to wear dark to medium colors in oyur outttlefitt then wear a little bit darker lipgloss and lip stick and eye shadow (but not too dark)
But if your going to the pool or to the beach wear light colors and no fondation or powder becuz it will prevent a tan! so just go with water proof mascara / a little bit of eye liner(only a little , oyu dont want to look like a racoon!) / & pinky lip gloss !

*clinque has really good prodouducts , they hve a stand in dillards
*or you can go to target i have seen most the stuff there too


*lizzi**hope i helped*


I've been searching everywhere to find the bathing suit that I want. I cannot find it anywhere. I'm looking for a plain black string bikini and absolutely no stores have it! If you guys know of any stores where I could find one I'd appreciate it. I rate 5's! Thanks so much in advance. (link)
if you cant find it at any stores then try and look it up on google or askjeeves and order it offline

XOX**lizzi**XOX


Ok so this summer I'm taking Tennis camp with some friends from our school and some other kids who dont go to our school. I met this guy named Grant. I mean we met in the most freaky way. We met when he accidentally hit me on the head with his racket while doing a serve. I never really noticed him till then, but when he hit me and looked back at me and smiled, i believe that it was love at first sight -- for me, at least. During practice, we'll tease eachother in a friendly way, racing eachother, and trying to hit eachother with tennis balls. Only two of my friends know about me liking him. So here are my questions...

1) Do you think he likes me?
2) Should I ask him out or ask him if he likes me?
3) when should i ask him?
4) should I ask him face 2 face or have my friends ask him?

I appreciate all the people who took the time to read this...i rate 5's for any answers that help me a little. =]

--crushed. (link)
yea it sounds like he likes you......... did he like mean to hitt you on the head ..czu if he did then like yea he likes you and i think you should get his # from some of his friends or get one of your friends to get his # or sn and chatt on the internt and talk to him on the phone
i would get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you so u no if ur flirting with him for no reasson but if hes flirting bac ...sounds like it was love at first site for him too

*hope this helped*
(dont forget to rate please)


Do guys give advice on here? Just randomly wondering! (link)
YEP!! and they ask qestions


can you swim when you are on your period? (link)
yea of course ..try a tampon!

*lizzi*


14/f....Ok people this is like serious so dont be like rude about this...
Well my dad is very sick with an illness and like today is fathers day and everything and he was talking to me and was like "you know my medicine isnt working anymore...and like this is the last fathers day that i will be with yall and he was telling me how he wont be able to see us graduate or see his grandkids.and like i looove my dad so freakin much and like when me and my siblings were younger he wasnt really in our lives and then he came into our lives again about 2 years ago and liek when he wasnt in our lives i hated it i hated myself.....and i could never imagine being w/out him again..i dont know what to do i meen i cant talk to my family or anyone about it becasue im just not that kind of person it feels waaaaay to wierd to me...like he always tell me stuff liek "when he dies he wants ...blah blah blah" and like i cant freakin take it this is soo muc pressure of me and i think about it every single day and like earlier today i was balling my eyes out thinking that this was the last fathers day wioht him...i wish that this big nightmare would just go the freak away! i really dont know how to deal with this guys and i have no one to talk to it about..i love my daddy so much and i dont ever want him to leave.and liek i know its kinda stubborn but im like always kinda rude to him..you know how every teenager is..but like he is always liek do you hate me and i just wat to say "HATE YOU OF COURSE NOT DAD I LOOOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH" but i cant.and like does anyone know sumthing special i can do for him like not today cause its already late but like another day..for fathers day..and also can you help me with the whole not being able to see him again...
Thanks soo much guys ! (link)
i dont want to say i no how u feel but my dad passed away last summer and like while you still have the chance do something super nice for him and even if thats just to tell him youlove him and will miss him every day non stop or something sweat you think he will like
and pray everynite to god


ok.. this is really weird but i have started my peeriod and stuff but this is not about that it is about the discharge! i get like a cup of it a day and its soo gross! and i dont know what to do about it! it producess a nasty smell even if im closes to it!

what should i do?? (link)
try changing ur pad/tampon more often and spray air freashtener and perfum and stuff


Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. Well I've stayed at he's house for the past 2 weeks straight, only been home 2x. My boyfriend loves that I stay there. He feels closer to me and he loves that feelings of having me around to make him happy and when he wakes up he LOVES to see my face sleeping next to hes..but ya whatever I have a problem though. He's little brother is really mean to me (only when he's friends are around) and he says I look like shit and I need to go home this isnt my house and im lazy and just bullshit. Plus he has a friend named trevor which is ALWAYS ALWAYS around him and he never leaves. he acts like its hes house and he tries to tell me to leave but i've been around way longer than him and I hate it soooo much, but im not going to go home because my boyfriend don't want me to..so what should I do about the other 2 guys and don't say "try to ignore them" cause trust me i have already tried that many of times. (link)
okay try tellign your boyfriend bout this and see if he will do something about it and if not then im not sure wut to tell u except ignoring doesnt help and that shouldnt go home because them because they will think they won (aka get revenge!)
*lizzi*(hope i helped)


okay so i really want paris hiltons long blonde hair should i think about getting extensions or should i just grow out my hair the problem with growing my hair out is i have blonde hair so my roots would constantly show. let me know and i will rate good thanks (link)
okay heres the thing if you want paris hilton hair then i think that you should get extewntions becuz if you let it grow out it will take along time but i mean if you grow it out then it will look more real and you cn get root highlights its like stuff you buy and you just tuch up ur roots to make them blonde or wutever color
hope i helped!
*lizzi*


My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do? (link)
okay i think you should sit down with her(or call) and let her know that you do want to get bac together with her but tell her that u arent goign to be able to trust he as much untile she proves to u she can stop with the lies , and if she still lies when yall if yall get bac together then its ova

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what if you are in the orchestra and can't get fake nails cuz it will mess up your playing..but i REALLY want some for school..so what should i do?!!?! (link)
i have the same problem ! keep playing tho just get fake nails for the summer !


ok, at night, i have trouble sleeping. I think about what will happen the next day, what happend that day, what happend last week..ect. how could i fall asleep easily? I'm always tired in the morning...I don't want to be tired though!! please help. i rate 5's for good answers. (link)
okay i think that if you got into bed at a little ealier time like only 30 minutes ealier you will still have time to think for 30 minutes and then will fall asleep ....give it a few nites tho becuz it will take alitte ajusting and gettign used to!(hope this helps)

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