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14/f....Ok people this is like serious so dont be like rude about this...
Well my dad is very sick with an illness and like today is fathers day and everything and he was talking to me and was like "you know my medicine isnt working anymore...and like this is the last fathers day that i will be with yall and he was telling me how he wont be able to see us graduate or see his grandkids.and like i looove my dad so freakin much and like when me and my siblings were younger he wasnt really in our lives and then he came into our lives again about 2 years ago and liek when he wasnt in our lives i hated it i hated myself.....and i could never imagine being w/out him again..i dont know what to do i meen i cant talk to my family or anyone about it becasue im just not that kind of person it feels waaaaay to wierd to me...like he always tell me stuff liek "when he dies he wants ...blah blah blah" and like i cant freakin take it this is soo muc pressure of me and i think about it every single day and like earlier today i was balling my eyes out thinking that this was the last fathers day wioht him...i wish that this big nightmare would just go the freak away! i really dont know how to deal with this guys and i have no one to talk to it about..i love my daddy so much and i dont ever want him to leave.and liek i know its kinda stubborn but im like always kinda rude to him..you know how every teenager is..but like he is always liek do you hate me and i just wat to say "HATE YOU OF COURSE NOT DAD I LOOOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH" but i cant.and like does anyone know sumthing special i can do for him like not today cause its already late but like another day..for fathers day..and also can you help me with the whole not being able to see him again...
Thanks soo much guys !<33(he thinks i hate him...)
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well why dont you spend as much time as possible with him. also why dosnt he go to a doctor and try to find another kind of medicine for him. also as hard as this might be for you i promise "everything happens for a reason" but there is still no way to take away the pain of losing someone you love. i no how you feel.
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Don't worry. I can relate. My dad has leukimia and I just found out a year ago. Lucky for us, he's in remission. But I know about the whole crying-yourself-to-sleep-almost-every-night thing. I can't have a good fight with him because I'll feel guilty about it, but for some reason, I've been fighting more than lately with him. Lucky for you and me, Dads will love us no matter what we do.
Sorry for my pathetic life story. Is there anything your dad really enjoys doing? Like golf, or crosswords? Ask him to teach you, or to do said activity together. It'll let him know that you care, that you listen, and that you want to spend time with him. Or you could ask him for help with your homework. If nothing like this works, grab some photos of the two of you having a good time and put them together in a book. After spending a lot of time with him, your tounge might loosen up and you can tell him how you feel.
Still can't tell him how much you love him? Write him a note.
It's nice to know there are other's out there who have problems with sick family members. If you have any more guilt trips, I'll be here.
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ok its obvious you love your dad very much and it must be hard for you i know it would be very hard for me even thought i have not seen my dad for nearly a year because we moved out of the house.i love him so much and i was not allowed to see him because my mum said so.You will need 2 tell your dad you love him as soon as you can because you never know what happens in the future.I mean if you never told him you loved him and something happened you would feel terrible so TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM ALOT.The best thing you can do now is hug him and kiss him and most of all tell him you love him and tell him he is a great dad i am sure that is the best thing you can give him!!!!You could try buying him something he likes i am not sure what he likes but what is better than a present to him is you!! so tell him how you feel.hope i helped and sorry 2 hear about your dad being not well.If you need anymore advice inbox me lv sweetcorn xxx
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You really do need to talk about it with your family. You need to pull together and make dads time the best it can be. You honestly won't get another shot at it later. He is being so honest with you and you need to spend as much time with him as you can. I think just being there for him and letting him talk to you about things he may want for you in the future is the best gift you can give him.
Ask him things you think you might want to know later. It will make him feel good. Ask what should you look for in a husband someday. Ask him who he thinks should walk you down the aisle when you get married (in his place). Ask him things you might need to know in the FUTURE. If you get my meaning. Things he won't be there to tell you later. Maybe he can make you a video tape of all these things for future reference. Sounds morbid but maybe that's what hes trying to do now. Sorry that he is sick. That's rough and will only get rougher. Just let him help prepare you for it. Don't turn away when he wants to talk about it, okay? I know it is so much pressure and so much to deal with, but its something he has to do for his peace of mind.
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im new at this this is my 3rd anser but man thats really sad and i think you should just enjoy the time you guys have left and spend as much time with him as posible and man this question is kinda tough because its really getin me right there but im really sorry but i hope i helped and good luck. >Robert<
oh yeah and you said you have no one to talk to so here's my aol im name (robertwatson14) so if you need to talk to some one im me if you want
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Don't be rude to him. NOT every teen is, and he needs to know that you love him so much. YOU also need to know that. Make happy memories with him. Play games. Learn about him. Share hugs and laughter.
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Gawsh! That made me cry. :( It's always sad to hear about someone losing a loved one. I have had a lot of people in my family that I have lost, my father included. I would say that there isn't really much that you can do. I would say just be there for him. Just tell him that you love him. After losing so many loved ones, I can't even leave a room without saying "I love you" to whoever was in that room with me.
Just tell him you love him, and pray for him. Prayer is a very powerful thing. God will answer your prayers in different ways then you think. Even if your father dies (which is a very strong possibility since he, himself, said he would) just think of him in Heaven, pain-free.
I really hope that everything works out for you sweetie!! If you ever need to talk, feel free to email me or something.
Love always,
Kerry
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i dont want to say i no how u feel but my dad passed away last summer and like while you still have the chance do something super nice for him and even if thats just to tell him youlove him and will miss him every day non stop or something sweat you think he will like
and pray everynite to god
<33 im sry! i hope i helped!
*lizzi*
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Sweetie,
If his medicine stopped working and he said hell never get to see you for another father's day hes possibly going to die.so show him how much you love him.Pray to god everynight and morning that hell make it through(even if you dont believe n god) god is real god will answer all of your prayers in some kind of way.I'm so sorry about your dad..I hope he gets better soon.
-Bless your heart:)
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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