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I HATE BROTHERS!!
Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. Well I've stayed at he's house for the past 2 weeks straight, only been home 2x. My boyfriend loves that I stay there. He feels closer to me and he loves that feelings of having me around to make him happy and when he wakes up he LOVES to see my face sleeping next to hes..but ya whatever I have a problem though. He's little brother is really mean to me (only when he's friends are around) and he says I look like shit and I need to go home this isnt my house and im lazy and just bullshit. Plus he has a friend named trevor which is ALWAYS ALWAYS around him and he never leaves. he acts like its hes house and he tries to tell me to leave but i've been around way longer than him and I hate it soooo much, but im not going to go home because my boyfriend don't want me to..so what should I do about the other 2 guys and don't say "try to ignore them" cause trust me i have already tried that many of times.
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Ever think that maybe your boyfriend's brother is jealous? He could think that his older brother is spending too much time with you and ignoring him. Try including him in some activities. Have the three of you see a movie together, your treat. As for Trevor, next time he tells you to leave, tell him that you're quite comfortable where you are, thank you very much, and leaving is not an option at the moment. Throwing in some large vocab words never hurts either. If your boyfriend's brother does warm to you, he could help too.
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have you tried talking to your boyfriend about it? maybe he has a suggestion for ya ..
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okay try tellign your boyfriend bout this and see if he will do something about it and if not then im not sure wut to tell u except ignoring doesnt help and that shouldnt go home because them because they will think they won (aka get revenge!)
*lizzi*(hope i helped)
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REVENGE!! I'm constantly in the same situation with my bf, not exact same but his friends choose to hate me 'cuz they don't get their way with my bf. Ignoring doesn't work 'cuz they probly gripe behind your back as well, and boyfriends rarely put their foot down to friends and family (unless you're dating mr. perfect) I just give their evil dose back in pairs and they've backed off to only talking behind my back. I'm not proud but nothing else worked and well they fear me now. Pretty cool power if you ask me!
Do keep this as a last resort tho, there are consequences if your revenge actions aren't effective. And if your worried about your what your bf will think, mine didn't care at all he knew his friends had it coming and what straight guy would rather hang with his friends than a hott woman like us?!
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wow, that does totally suck. well, what i would do is talk to you boyfriend about it. tell him that you know its silly to ask him to have his little brother leave you alone, but it buqs you. dont let him qet to you thouqh. i mean hes a little brother, their all annoyinq. i mean, maybe you could qet them back.. when you two are there alone, lock them out of the house & tell them to qo to trevors house for once or somethinq. or you could tell off trevor & tell him that he has no room to talk when hes there alot more than you are. just make up excuses. hopefully they will both qet the hint & fuck off. if not, im sorry.. this wasnt the qreatest advice or anythinq. hope i helped = ) qood luck with that one & qet me back because im curious on what happens. ♥
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have you tryed telling your boyfriend about them? you should maybe then they can leave you alone. maybe his brother misses being only arond his brother without you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Talk to your boyfriend..If he wants you there maybe he can shut them up and have them leave you alone!!!!!
*jEn
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