I just have a question...what happends when people kiss? People say that when the two like eachother, they just start making out or something. I've never been kissed, so I want to know how to so when the time comes, I'll know how. The guy I like will probably break up with his girlfriend when she moves in July, and from what he says, they kiss a lot. I'm nervous about what will happen when I ask him out after he breaks up with his girlfriend. please help!
jewishgurli89 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 11:49 pm: well if he doens't want to he'll say no no worries tho its not a bd if you ask him ot and he says no on the kissing thing it is true that kissing just happens and its not a planned thing but its different for everyone so i don't really know what to telll you other than be confident
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aetherionknight answered Monday June 20 2005, 5:31 pm: First off, it happens very quickly. Just one second your not kissing, the next you are. Nothing really "happens" when people kiss. Some people close their eyes, some people don't. If he starts to kiss you, and just as he kisses you, he licks your teeth (assuming that you won't immediately go for tongue) that means he wants to tongue you. That's about it, hope this helps. [ aetherionknight's advice column | Ask aetherionknight A Question ]
l3fty14 answered Monday June 20 2005, 3:49 pm: just go with it..if you guys end up going out then he'll know what to do obviously, so you probably wont be the one making any moves. After the first time you wont be stressing..dont worry about it.. ITS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN!! lol [ l3fty14's advice column | Ask l3fty14 A Question ]
oalittleironicx answered Monday June 20 2005, 3:10 pm: I don't exactly understand your question either - but from what I can tell, your just nervous about having your first kiss. Trust me, it's normal. I was scared as well. It's just something that kind of happens. You should never feel rushed at all. My first kiss just kind of happened. It wasn't a sloppy tounge kiss either - those are not the only kinds of kisses their are. It was just a soft kiss on the lips. There isn't a specific way to kiss at all. Just go with what feels right. You really have nothing to worry about. I was worried sick over having my first kiss when I had my first girlfriend. You'll see - kissing can be a very pleasing thing. My first girlfriend had many gf's before me (sorry if that sounds confusing - my gf is a lesbian, and I'm bi) that she kissed a lot. But she took her time with me and didn't rush me. Let's just hope the kid your talking about does the same. Don't worry about french kissing or any of that. The time will come. Just keep it as simple as a soft kiss on the lips with a closed mouth. I know I was scared about an open mouth kiss, and I still kind of am nervous when the time comes. But you'll be okay. First kisses are always nerve wrecking and sometimes get you a little shaky. But in the end, their worth it. Don't worry to much about it. It should come natural. If I didn't answer your question, just leave me a message and I'll do the best I can. x0 [ oalittleironicx's advice column | Ask oalittleironicx A Question ]
xOxHOLLiSTERxOx answered Monday June 20 2005, 3:05 pm: Y0U REALLY D0N'T HAVE ANYTHiNG T0 BE NERV0US AB0UT. Y0U CAN'T MESS UP A KiSS. WHEN S0ME PE0PLE KiSS, THEY MAKE 0UT BUT S0ME PE0PLE D0N'T. THEY USUALLY D0 A PECK iF iT'S THEiR FiRST TiME KiSSiNG S0ME0NE NEW BUT WH0 KN0WS. iT DEPENDS 0N WHAT KiND 0F PE0PLE THEY ARE. G00D LUCK //♥ [ xOxHOLLiSTERxOx's advice column | Ask xOxHOLLiSTERxOx A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Monday June 20 2005, 3:04 pm: I'm not sure if I totally get your question. Of course people kiss when they like each other lol. It's a way of showing affection. Making out and kissing are pretty different and they're both totally optional.
I've already written some previous answers to questions about kissing. So if you wanna read up on them, check out these links:
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