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I just have a question...what happends when people kiss? People say that when the two like eachother, they just start making out or something. I've never been kissed, so I want to know how to so when the time comes, I'll know how. The guy I like will probably break up with his girlfriend when she moves in July, and from what he says, they kiss a lot. I'm nervous about what will happen when I ask him out after he breaks up with his girlfriend. please help!

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the first time kissing anyone is always scary no matter how many people you have kissed but it comes natural dont worrie it will be fine after the first time.
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I spend about 3 hours in the sun every day, and I want my skin to appear tanner, but it doesn't get that much darker each day. It's barely noticeable! How can I get my skin to tan faster? (link)
after you have been in the sun jump in a nice hot bath and then put after sun on it brings out the tan more.


okay me and this guy have been together for a while but i found out that he was still talking with his ex g/f of 10 months bc we go to diff. schools and they hang out and messed around and stuff so i got really mad and stopped talking to him then a week later he called me and was like i miss you im stupid i shouldnt of done that me and her are over i like you alot blah blah blah so i took him back then it happened again and i still like him bc its hard to just stop bc i love being with him and around him so should i give him another chance? or enough is enough? but i really wanna be with him.. (link)
i think you should let him go i know you dont want to but this is the second time he has do it and you took him back but if you take him back he will keep doing it coz he knows you will take him back every time if he likes you as much as he says then he will leave his ex alone let him prove how much he likes you he is just taking you for a ride.


My friend is really annoying. She's always complaining about everything. Her grandma spoils her rotten, so I know her life is not that bad. I want to tell her o shut up, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. What should I do? (link)
i think you should sit down and talk to her about it


i need more friends. it sux. i have friends online and all but i need more. and more in real life. if u wanna chat email me at gods_gal_90@yahoo.com ok well im gonna submit this so u guys can see it and email me or respond or whatever (link)
why are you so egar to get friends on line go and visit new places an meet people there. you do not need too many friends because you can not see them all at the same time


i have friends but the second i turn my back they talk about me make fun of me and they are so two faced and a backstabber because they always go crawling back to my arch arrival enemy antonia what should i do? (link)
i think that you should ditch your friends because if you do not ditch them they will ditch you soon enoghth and you will be the one who is hurt once again there are better people out there go and meet them


my boyfriend wont kiss me because he doesnt know how to kiss. im not a very good kisser either. im afraid to make the first move becuause i think he will pull away b4 i get to his lips and i will look like an idiot. how can i get him to kiss me? should i send him a site about how to kiss on email or what? i really wanna kiss him. (link)
wait till he is ready he will as scared to kiss you are to kiss him just wait till he is ready that is the best way


Theres this kid in my school I got to know him and I really like him alot... I mean ALOT, and he talks to me, but we are usually in a group, or he looks at me.. and I like him so much AHHH!
Or he has other people talk to me.. I dont know maybe hes shy? But I reeeally like him, he asked where I got my bracelets lol.. And he said thats where he got his too... Well I duno why doesnt he talk to me face to face.. I think he likes me, but I like him alot too.. and I duno...
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he might like you but he is too shy to say anything why don't you ask him or ask one of his friends and find out.


Ever since I was little I couldn't talk to people I didn't know. When I became older, I started having the same problem with girls. I had a few girlfriends early in high school, but they asked me. They weren't really my type either. They always wanted to party and do drugs. I didn't. I guess that I am the last of a dying breed. My freshman dance was 2 years ago and I didn't even think about going because I was to shy to ask anyone. I always use the excuse that I have a rejection phobia. I am the person that you see at a party that is hanging out with with his friends because no one likes talks either. I can't just go up to a girl and say, hey do you want to go and see a movie this weekend or something. I used to be fat through elementary school and 7 and 8 grade. Then I went to the gym and I went from 250lbs to 180lbs. I am 6'1 so this weight is better. Even though I look better I still don't have the courage to talk to girls. I always think that if I ask them, after they turn me down that they will go off and blab to their friends and make fun of me. I have asked a couple of girls out and they say that they like me as a friend or that they don't have time for a boyfriend and then a couple days later someone else asks them out and they say yes. This year the prom is fast approaching and I didn't ask anyone. Someone tell me how to get over this. I am 17. I don't play sports, maybe thats why. Girls want sports guys. And I don't hang out with the popular crowd because they are too fake. Help.
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when you leave school you will find that you will have more confidance


how many fingers do i use to finger my self? because i want it to feel good but i dont want it to hert? how many??? (link)
why don't you get a vibrater instead of you fingers


long story: i was 16 when i got pregnant i couldnt tell parents cos they were very strict so i hid it for 7 months i was thinking about adopting him but when he was born i couldnt do it he was so lovely and my parents loved him too, when they asked me about the fether i said i didnt want him to know as he wasnt `the father figure`so i brought him up on my own for 6 years then i met someone else who i had 2 more children with he loves my son they get on well, but my son is 10 now and started asking questions like` whos my real father` ive said john but he looks baffled as if hes put 2 and 2 together cos he hasnt been with us 4 10 years, i just dont know what to say for the best, does he deserve the truth but i dont want him to have any relationship with his real father after all this time, help (link)
i think you should tell your son the truth after all it is his choice if he wants to see his father i grew up with out my father, my mum thought the same but now i know him and his is great so tell your son the truth let him meet him and see what he wants to do.


I'm really confused at the moment. I have this friend. We have been friends for about 8 months. But since January me and him have become really close. I have had loads of friends that are guys but I am his first friend whose a girl. We are always hanging round in college together. People seem to be getting the wrong idea. Anyway a few days ago we were in some real quiet place and he said he was confused to whether he liked me in that way or not. So he tried to kiss me. I didn’t want to because I thought it might change our friendship. I thought it might ruin it. In the end we kissed. It didn’t change anything. I still don't feel for him in that way and he doesn’t feel for me in that way. But then yesterday we kinda kissed again. I don't know what to do. We don’t like eachother in that way so why do we keep doing this. I feel bad afterwards but we aren't hurting anyone. He hasn’t got a girlfriend and I haven’t got a boyfriend. Is this wrong? (link)
no it is not wrong you have mixed emotions and trying to find out how you feel about each other


Most my friends have seemed to not care about me anymore. They all just care about other friends now, and never have time to even just say "hello" to me, but they have time to spend time with other people for hours on end. I feel so betrayed, these people that i called friends just don't seem to care anymore, I hardly ever talk to them anymore, when when i attempt to, i get responses of "uhuh" or any other word related. What can i do to get them to actually notice me? =( please help! (link)
i know how you fell my mates done that to me the best thing to do is leave them to move on and get better friends do not worry about soon they will come and see you and it will be like the old times having a laugh it will be better if you do not see them all the time give them some time to think about it i did and i like it better now we have more fun together aand you get more friends.




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