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kissing
my boyfriend wont kiss me because he doesnt know how to kiss. im not a very good kisser either. im afraid to make the first move becuause i think he will pull away b4 i get to his lips and i will look like an idiot. how can i get him to kiss me? should i send him a site about how to kiss on email or what? i really wanna kiss him.
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DO NOT send anything about kissing to him. the last thing a nervous guy needs is a 'how to' guide to doing something that is supposed to come naturally. jsut make the first move either by trying to kiss him or talking to him about what you want to do with him. he will get the message in a much better way if you take the initiative
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all you have to do is start by kissing his neck then work up, begin by kissing his face and if he starts kissing you back start kissing him on the lips. that way he cant really pull away because hes been kissing you to, hold him and take it slow - you'll be fine
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Well, if you are young: don't push the kissing because it can be a lot of pressure. A couple of kisses on the cheek here and there and he will probablt feel a little more comfortable. And find out if he actually wants to kiss (try asking his friends, it always worked for me)
If you are old(not OLD old, like highschool): DOn't be afraid to go in and give him a kiss. Chances are he will realize that kissing isn't all that hard and be more comfortbale with kissing you.
Hope I could be of some help!
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Well tell him how you feel. And maybe show him, but if u dont know how, tell him that, so he wont feel as embarressed.
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Practice makes perfect! You and your boyfriend should start off slow, but just go with the flow and you'll both get the hang of it :)
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The only way to learn to kiss is through practice. Since you are both new at this you can learn from each other and not feel embarassed. Start with slow, gental kisses. Expirement and talk to each other about what you like and don't like. You'll get the hang of it!
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If both of you are new at it, let him know it may take a few thousand tries to get kissing just right. And that you intend to get cracking :)
Nobody comes into this world knowing how to kiss (and I think it may change depending on who you're kissing anyway), but being close enough that they are pleasantly out of focus and that your breathing and heart rates are playing a duet... well, that's more than OK even if the kiss is a little sloppy, or you bump noses, or just about anything short of someone getting their tongue or lip chomped.
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wait till he is ready he will as scared to kiss you are to kiss him just wait till he is ready that is the best way
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