Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom
Occupation: Student
Age: 21
Member Since: February 22, 2004
Answers: 152
Last Update: November 20, 2004
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Hey, I have a scenario for you all. female responses would help the best, I have this friend at church, that I hardly talk to, and in the last 3 day,s we have gotten closer, she gave me her cell number and we talk all the time. So I told her 3 day's ago that we should hang out, and she said yeah, we should. So today, saturday, Im gonna call her and find out what time to pick her up, and find out where she lives. Since it's just me and her, and we have gotten closer, what do u think this means? She just wants to be closer friends, or is this a date and we're not just hangin out? what do u think, anyone help me? (link)
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I think it just means you're friends hanging out for now. But perhaps you could ask her out on a date once you get to know each other some more :)
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Are any of you vegetarians? If you are, what are your reasons for becoming one? (link)
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I'm a vegetarian and have been for 5 years (I'm 18 now). My best friend is also a vegetarian. There are 2 reasons why I became a vegetarian: 1. I'm a strong believer in Animal Rights and 2. I just hate the taste and smell of meat. Makes me feel very sick.. before I became a veggie I only really ate processed meat like burgers and chicken.
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I'm one of the very few people that are blessed with a hard to buy for boyfriend. I'm sure you've already guessed what my question is. What the heck do I buy for him for Christmas? I've spent countless hours pondering over the subject. This past week we went shopping. We were at Sam Goody when he found these extremely rare Linkin Park cd's. He and I are both very big fans of Linkin Park. Anyway, he didn't have quite enough money to buy them. So, I offered to buy them for Christmas. He refused. He has Linkin Park shirts, Linkin Park hoodies, shoes, almost every Linkin Park cd imaginable. He likes NCSU (Y'all from North Carolina know who) and the Carolina Hurricanes. He's an outdoorsy type person (he canoes, hikes, plays sports) as am I. Everything I've asked him about he either already has or refuses to let me buy it. So, what the heck am I supposed to do? Any ideas/suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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I'm sure whatever you buy him he'll love it :) I think you should get the Linkin Park CDs for him if you are able to afford them... he's not gonna get mad cos you bought him a gift that he obviously wanted is he? I'm not sure what your guy is into... but most of my friends are guys. I've bought clothes, CDs, DVDs, posters, concert tickets, computer games, etc etc for them before. Anything he needs or wants in his sports interests? I know its so hard to buy for guys.. me and my friends are super open and just tell each other what we want. Here's an idea- maybe if he won't let you buy the CD's you can buy him a voucher so he can do it himself? Hm.. that's a little impersonal for a boyfriend though isn't it? Wow... this is tough! Maybe take him somewhere, do something nice for him, surprise him with a night in. Or ask him! Sorry I can't be of more help... Good luck!
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does n e one know good ways to relive stress...i've been through a lot latley and i would like to know if there was n e thing i could do to help myself get over it!
MUCH THXZ (link)
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Write about it - keeping a journal always helps me work through problems and relieve stress.
Listen to music.. have some you time and just relax with your favourite CD, chocolate, candles and no distractions.
Hang out with your friends - go see a movie and get some pizza. It always cheers me up when I'm feeling stressed :)
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ok im confused. this might be long, any response is greatly appreciated.
i go out with this boy, lets call him jon.
we've only gone out for like 5 days. his frind has alreay gotten us into like 10 fights. his friends really jealous and he wants jon like basically all to himself and he doesn't like me so everytime i want to come over, he'll start shit. just anything so me and jon cant see each other and argue. i talked to jon about breakin up today and he flipped out on his frind and then told me how much he loved me and didnt want to lose me..but then i was at a soccer game today. i ended up spending the whole day with my ex b/f. we went out last year for 2 months. we broke up because summer came and we lived too far away, other then that the relationship was perfect. well my ex. lets call him chris, told me today that he still has feelings for me and wants to be back with me. i still have feelings for him too, me and him went trhough alot together! but i mean i'd feel so bad for jon, i do like him alot too! idk..im confused..=/
theyre both great guys, who treat me good, and who i care for and dont want to hurt.
=( hmm.. what should i do? what would you do if you were in my place?
thanks so much in advance,so sorry it was long. (link)
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I think you need to talk to Jon about this and tell him if his friend doesn't stop making things difficult then you should think about just being friends. If you loved him 100% my advice would be different - but you have feelings for this other guy and you're obviously torn between the two. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
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Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend? (link)
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This girl isn't your friend, honey. Friends don't start rumours about each other. Find some new friends.
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Yes. It's another one of those Dating complaints. Although I know there are way too many of these, I'm afraid I'm going to have to contribute.
I'm currently dating a young man who is five years older than I am. (I am fourteen and he is nineteen, if that helps any.)
No one really knows that I am with him. I haven't told my friends nor have I told my family, of course. I don't want to be forced to break up with him just because my family believes the age difference is too much. *shrug*
Anyways...One of the problems in our relationship is...we have never met. We're dating over the internet. And, although this may seem silly and (that I know personally and who knows him personally and has met him) and ever since the first time I talked to him, I found myself attracted to him. He asked me out and we've been together ever since.
Of course...It all seems rather...odd. I've never had an internet relationship, before, and I've never had a relationship this serious. I've actually thought about my future with this guy. Marriage, kids, etc.
I really don't know that much about him, though. And he's hesitant to tell me very much.
Should I get out of this relationship? Should I ask him to tell me more about himself? Is there something that I need to do? I'm confused...And I know I don't really have any specific questions. I just need advice.
Thank you. :) (link)
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Hey,
I've been almost in your shoes before - there was a guy I knew over the 'net and I felt terribly attracted to him. However, once I found out more about him, I realised that he wasn't what I first believed him to be. We still chat from time-to-time, but I'm not attracted to him anymore.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, get some perspective. Try and get him to open up a bit more and tell you a bit more about himself. But be very, very careful - I know you're not a stupid person from the mature way in which you posed your question, but please remember it is VERY easy to pose as someone you're not on the internet. I don't mean to scare you or anything like that, just.. be safe. He SAYS he's 19. He could be 45.
The fact that he's hesitant to tell you much worries me. If he has nothing to hide, why is he hesitant?
You sound like a very mature fourteen year old, and I applaud you for asking for advice on this. I know you've probably heard it a million times, but you ARE very young- getting a boyfriend is something you have SO much time for. Have fun with this guy if he makes you happy, by all means. Just be careful, and don't get into something that you won't be able to get out of.
Good luck! :)
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ok ive been getting all these achs in my neck and legs all the time, and i dont know how, i do play sports but they arent from that. can anyone tell me whats wrong? thanks
*marielle* (link)
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Sounds like growing pains to me. Take some painkillers if it gets too sore.
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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16) (link)
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I'm 18, feel free to ask me :)
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ok . heres my deal , im going into high school on aug. 23 , and i really want to get a boyfriend for the first time cuz ive never dated b4 . im getting braces to which might turn a guy off . how can i get a boyfriend evn tho braces r a total turn off (link)
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Just be yourself :) Any boy who is worth dating will like you for you, and not give a hoot about the braces.
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I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways? (link)
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Walking! Walking is so underrated, but it tones and firms both your stomach and your bum. Do 30 mins a day and you'll see the difference in no time. :)
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I have a very busy schedule...and i dont have time to go to a gym...so does anyone have advice on what I can do to help me lose weight? or at least to get in great shape and to have a nice firm body? (link)
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Walking works wonders. Just 30 mins a day can make a big difference, even if its just a stroll. I lost about 30lbs just from walking.
Also, watch what you eat. Drink lots of water, steer clear of tea, coffee and soda, and eat lots of fresh fruit and veggies. Good Luck :)
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Can you get prenaunt from fingering? (link)
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Nope!
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what is the right age to have sex and what are some good things to do? (link)
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Everyone is different. There isn't a standard of "right age" (although the law is there for a reason..), you should have sex when you meet someone you love and want to be intimate with, and feel that you are ready. Too many people give into peer pressure or pressure from their partner and have sex early, and then regret it.
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i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know. (link)
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Incubus. Particularly "Drive" and "Pardon Me".
If you wanted something a little more in the rock genre try Aerosmith.
Alanis Morissette has some very powerful music - "Baba", "Can't Not", "Fear of Bliss" and "Would Not Come" are particularly good.
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I don't really do that well on tests and I try an study an hour the night before tests. What are some things to help me score higher on tests? (link)
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Try studying for an hour each night about a week before the test. Make some revision cards with key points on them, and read them each night. The information will go in better as you won't be so tired, and the repitition will help you remember it more. Good luck.
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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?! (link)
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You never have to do anything you don't want to do. Throughout my entire school life I never had to shower in front of anyone. Don't worry about it - they can't MAKE you do it!
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last year in school, i got good grades but i always felt like i was scraping by. How do i stay organized and calm and still have time for other things in my life? (link)
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The key is good organisation.
I coped at school by doing homework the night that I got it. It may sound dorky, or that it'll leave you with no social life, but that's not true. If you get home from school, relax for a half hour or so, do all your homework for a couple of hours that night, and then see your friends after. This always leaves your weekends free for other stuff too - I very rarely had to do any homework on the weekends (which was helpful as I worked on weekends)
Staying calm will come with organisation. Just try and stay on top of it all, and your grades will reflect your hard work. Good Luck!
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hey i havent had my period in may,june,and july. i THINK i had it in april im actually not sure.. im 14 years old and got my period in february of 2002. i know im not pregnant im not sexually active.. (link)
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Hey!
Your body is still settling down, and getting used to regular periods. I missed two or three months worth of periods when I first started, and then I started getting them every fortnight, and then they settled down into a regular pattern. Try not to worry about it, but if you'd like some medical advice I suggest going to see your doctor.
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Hi. I wanted to know. If my boobs are too small and I wanted to get boob pills! How could I get them if im not 18 and I dont have a credit card?
Sigened.
Flat Chested! (link)
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First off, how old are you? Obviously younger than 18, as you said you're not 18. You shouldn't mess with your body with pills while you're still young, because you're still growing. Some girls don't fully develop until they're 18, and then some still are growing beyond that age. Just let nature run it's course, and when you're old enough, maybe you could think about getting pills or whatever then.
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