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ok im confused. this might be long, any response is greatly appreciated.
i go out with this boy, lets call him jon.
we've only gone out for like 5 days. his frind has alreay gotten us into like 10 fights. his friends really jealous and he wants jon like basically all to himself and he doesn't like me so everytime i want to come over, he'll start shit. just anything so me and jon cant see each other and argue. i talked to jon about breakin up today and he flipped out on his frind and then told me how much he loved me and didnt want to lose me..but then i was at a soccer game today. i ended up spending the whole day with my ex b/f. we went out last year for 2 months. we broke up because summer came and we lived too far away, other then that the relationship was perfect. well my ex. lets call him chris, told me today that he still has feelings for me and wants to be back with me. i still have feelings for him too, me and him went trhough alot together! but i mean i'd feel so bad for jon, i do like him alot too! idk..im confused..=/
theyre both great guys, who treat me good, and who i care for and dont want to hurt.
=( hmm.. what should i do? what would you do if you were in my place?
thanks so much in advance,so sorry it was long.<3
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OH MY GOSH! My boyfriend is called Jon, after we'd been going out for 5 days, we'd had lots of fights too, creepy......
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If you cant decide now dont... have sum time to urself... & the one u miss the most & care about the most... thats the one u should choose
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This must be really tought for u i think u should talk to Jon's friend and find jon's friend a girl frined so he doesn't interfer wit your relationship. I don't think chris will work out becuz it is long distance and u will barely see him so just stay good friends. I hope this helps!
Brittni <3
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I think you need to talk to Jon about this and tell him if his friend doesn't stop making things difficult then you should think about just being friends. If you loved him 100% my advice would be different - but you have feelings for this other guy and you're obviously torn between the two. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
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well it depends who you can see more...if your never going to see chris then its basically like a long distance relationship and wont work out...but if youll see him a lot he might be better cuz he doesnt have an annoying bestfriend...so say you wont be able to see chris so you would need to tell jon that if he doesnt loose his friend or make him stop being such a freak **the friend** then you wont go out with him...but if he does then you should go out with jon...i hope that made sense if it didnt just put it in my inbox!
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Okay, well if you and your ex get back together, what will happen when school ends for summer again? you willl break up? let me remind you also, that 2 months isn't very long of a relationship, and after a whole summer, there could be things about him that have changed. if I were you i would stay with Jon, he seems to really care about you. Who cares if his friend doesn't like you? Jon obviously places you in a higher place than his friend.
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