I wanted to start this because i have helped my friends with their problems so maybe i could help u out too. Here is a little bit about me. i like to play basketball and volleyball i also like anythang that has to do with theater i love to be around friends because they always make u feel so much better about yourself at least they should. I love to shop and most of all i love guys what girl wouldn't lol. So hit me up on aim or on my site.
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Ok im 15 f and i was going out with my b/f for 6 months and then we broke up,but like 2 weeks ago he asked me back out and i said yes.When i used to go out with him, i would go to his house and hang out,but since ive been going out with him again my dad and his g/f wont let me go over there. they dont trust me, but i have never given them a reason not to, its not like me and my b/f sit around and make out all day,ya know? They said if i want to see him he has to come over here.but i want to go to his house i miss it.lol and ive tried talking to my dad and his girlfriend but they dont understand and i just cant win. (link)
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i think maybe you could bring him ova and show your dad and his g/f that he is a really great guy and he respects you. Then mayb once he trusts him more your dad + g/f will let you go ova his house. If not tell that you really like him and talk one on one with them about da situation.
hope it helps!
xO.
Brittni
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I'v always kinda knew that i was a lil distured inside cuz im usually always sad and never happy. I juss try to put on a happy face when im not home juss when im out or around my friends cuz no1 wants 2 hang around sum1 who's depressed all the time. But im so tired of being sad and feeling this way. I finally knew that i had sum serious issues today. There was a football game at my school but me and my two friends left during it cuz it was boring so we went to the mall. My mom picked me up 20 minutes late so i was standing there by myself but we got the exits confused. But when i was standing there i had a breakdown i juss wanted to cry. So instead i started punching the granet pillars infront of the mall to hold in my tears. Kinda self mutilation i guess. I dont wanna go to a therapist cuz every1 will think im crazy and i wanna kill myslef. Im juss tired of being so sad all the time. It juss seems lyk god put me on this earth to be miserable and to see how much i could take. Im tired of it...what should i do? (link)
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I have felt like that a lot of people go through it. I think you should talk to your parents about it and see wat they have in mind for you. If you don't want to see a therapist mayb u should do a sport to get your anger out. You could even do something you love make a lil time for you. Also you could keep a journal to write down the things in your life bothing you and take it step by step everyday.
Hope it Helps!
xO.
Brittni
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I don't know what's wrong with me... Maybe it's low self-esteem or something but I never think i'm good enough for any guy. There haven't been many guys that I've known liked me. Most of them look right to my friend... So the guy i reaaaallly liked likes her now. But whenever guys flirt with me i never take them seriously because I always think "oh he would never like me" and then I turn kinda mean to the guy... can anyone help me out here? (link)
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If your confident with yourself guys will start noticing ya. Flirt back guys love a girl to do that lol. If your happy with who you are everyone else will except you for that..
hope it helps!
xO.
Brittni
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How do you take a pregnancy test like at home? No im not pregnant im just wondering. (link)
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You buy a pregnacy test at Cvs or some place like that and then you pee on the stick and if it is a minus sign it means your not pregnant and if it is a plus it means you are.
hope it helps
Brittni
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i need a good hair style for pictire day tomorrow, so i'll look good in the year book. please help.
Also whats the best way to conceal a zit? (link)
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For your hair you could scrunch leave it straight or curl it but leave it down. to conceal a zit i would go down the dermatoligst section in target or walmart or sum place like dat and get a a cover up that has medicine in it, so as your covering your zit the cover up is treatin it at da same time.
Hope it helps
Brittni x3
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What is the right way to tell someone that you dont like them? (link)
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I think u should tell them that u don't like them like they like u. Tell them why and say but tell them not to take it seriously its just that our personailties don't mix sorry. Thats all u have to say and listen to wat they have to say so it seems like u care and then thats that.
hope it helps
Brittni x3
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okay so i smoked pot once and then i did it again for the second time. I told my friend and my friend said i broke a promise saying that i wouldnt do it again but i never promised anything, now i think my friends mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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i think u should tell her u r sry for real n shouldn't smoke that again! Also make a promise this time to them and live up to it it mite be hard bein a friend of a person who did pot i was scared for them i felt like it was my fault. So don't make your friend feel dat way. Do it for u and do it for da ppl who care about u!
hope everythang turns out ok!
Brittni x3
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im having a party . . wat should i have to eat and to do...don't be all perverted and say those nasty things...besides spin the bottle wat good games r there to play...the party is for grls n boys the age of 13.....help (link)
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okay for your parrty u have to have chips, cheese curls, popcorn, candy, soda ect..
Games
Flash light tag- fun!
Murder- which is where someone tells u who u r and only one person is da murder and da murder goes around pinchin ppl until no ones left lol pointless i know me n my frineds made it up!
Manhunt- is a crowd pleaser!
Nite Volley ball- if u have a volleyball net get any ball n play its fun!
Karoke- Omg i love to sing and even if u don't its fun to immatate da pppl who sing da songs!
Movies- such as hot chick 50 first dates everyone loves a comedy!
Ghost in da grave yard- thats fun too!
if all else fails put on some music and dance..
hope your parrty is a time to remember!
Brittni x3
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I'm 13. I have 5 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and 2 sets of pJ's.
I keep asking and asking my mom to take me out shopping, but she always keeps saying no. I get in trouble at school a lot because my shorts are to short and my pants are too tight, but I can't help it if my mom never takes me shopping!
How do I get her to take me out shopping? (link)
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You deff need to go shopping! I have an idea u could ask a friends mom to take u that way u n your friend can find outfits together n to get money u could babysit u can make pretty good money that way! If your not up for that ask your grandma aunt anyone in your relation to take u shoppin n maybe they can talk your mom into takin u shoppin.
hope it helps
Brittni x3
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OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.
o yea and i rate. (link)
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Okay i think for this u should wear a shirt that is yellow or pink like they have some cute tops at American Eagel. Also i think u should wear a puka shell necklace cuz i wore sumthang like dat n it was super cute! Also get a pair of flip flops any will do get a yellow navy blue or pinkish ones. Trust me it will be total hottness! For some cute flip flops u can check out Aero if u can't find any cute flip flops check out Famous Footwear or Jouries if u have that in your mall. You could even get a pair of cute sk8er shoes like etnies d*cs or sumthang of dat effect. Hope it all works out!
Brittni x3
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okay, yesterday nyte i went skating with a hole gruop of friends , and this kidd adam started to talk to me abotu basketball and stuff.. .then i sat down and he asked if he could sit next to me so i said yes . . then i started sakting with my friends and he would foloew me . .then i would sit down and then my friend kerri would sit down next to me and he would tell her to get up and stuff. . so she got up . . then there were 5 cuople skates and i was like i will be sittin herr and stuff and adam said will u skate with me nicole and i was like umm why ? and he was like cuz and i said u have a gurlfriend and he was like cum on and i wa slike okay fine so we skated together holding hands. and while we were sitting he kept putting his arm around me and stuff and everyone tells me he really relaly likes me a lot and stuff then we went dancin and i was dancin and he kept cumin up behind me and dtrying to grind with me and stuff and he kept touching my ass and stuff. . . does he like me or is he jsut playing aroudn with me or just using me ?? help please dont dealte !!!!!!! (link)
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There is no doubt that he likes u lol. If u like him u should go out wit him but if he has a g/f u should deff talk to him about dat!!! U should prob even talk to her about goin out wit him if she is your friend if she is ok wit da whole thang i say go for it. But if she isn't think of it this way guys will come n go but a friend is forever! Also if he really likes u n your not totally sure just b friends for da time bein n tell him dat!
hope it helps!
Brittni x3
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ok im confused. this might be long, any response is greatly appreciated.
i go out with this boy, lets call him jon.
we've only gone out for like 5 days. his frind has alreay gotten us into like 10 fights. his friends really jealous and he wants jon like basically all to himself and he doesn't like me so everytime i want to come over, he'll start shit. just anything so me and jon cant see each other and argue. i talked to jon about breakin up today and he flipped out on his frind and then told me how much he loved me and didnt want to lose me..but then i was at a soccer game today. i ended up spending the whole day with my ex b/f. we went out last year for 2 months. we broke up because summer came and we lived too far away, other then that the relationship was perfect. well my ex. lets call him chris, told me today that he still has feelings for me and wants to be back with me. i still have feelings for him too, me and him went trhough alot together! but i mean i'd feel so bad for jon, i do like him alot too! idk..im confused..=/
theyre both great guys, who treat me good, and who i care for and dont want to hurt.
=( hmm.. what should i do? what would you do if you were in my place?
thanks so much in advance,so sorry it was long. (link)
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This must be really tought for u i think u should talk to Jon's friend and find jon's friend a girl frined so he doesn't interfer wit your relationship. I don't think chris will work out becuz it is long distance and u will barely see him so just stay good friends. I hope this helps!
Brittni
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okay i realli need help..
heres my story:
i had this boyfriend before and he treated me "okay" when we were going out..but then he also pressured me into doing stuff with him that i wasn't readi for! then one day he broke up with me..and i was crushed for about 3 months..and he would always fight with me after we broke up and everything..and i told myself that i would never go back out with him..but now after 3 months have gone by..we are realli good friends and he told me he changed..and and i hung out with him last night and i do kinda see a change..but i realli n truely love him..but i don't wanna get hurt if i say yes if he asks me back out! which he alreadi told me he was going to! but my real question is..can people realli change?
please help me! i rate realli high!
thanks!
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i think he is just actin different around u becuz he wants u to go bac out wit him because he likes they way u look. To hav feelings for him is completely natural but u don't want to take the chance on him making u do somethang u'll regret! If u want maybe hang out wit him wit your friends. Trust me guys say they changed when they really didn't to make u fall back in love wit wit a person who isn't really themselves. You want a guy who will treat u wit respect no "Okay." i hope this helps!
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well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?! (link)
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If he really likes u he won't care about taking advantage of u. u be da one in charge u take action! Tell him that your not ready for that in your relationship yet. Also say that u really care about him and the guys ova da summa u didn't care about as much as him. If he seems pissed off he neva really liked u for u he liked u for the way u look and thats not love.
Brittni
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