i had this boyfriend before and he treated me "okay" when we were going out..but then he also pressured me into doing stuff with him that i wasn't readi for! then one day he broke up with me..and i was crushed for about 3 months..and he would always fight with me after we broke up and everything..and i told myself that i would never go back out with him..but now after 3 months have gone by..we are realli good friends and he told me he changed..and and i hung out with him last night and i do kinda see a change..but i realli n truely love him..but i don't wanna get hurt if i say yes if he asks me back out! which he alreadi told me he was going to! but my real question is..can people realli change?
please help me! i rate realli high!
thanks!
russianspy1234 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 3:12 pm: getting back with your ex is a bad idea in most cases. you remember all the good stuff then when you get abck together it becomes obvious why you broke up in the first place [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
TrueLife answered Sunday September 19 2004, 11:20 am: i think he is just actin different around u becuz he wants u to go bac out wit him because he likes they way u look. To hav feelings for him is completely natural but u don't want to take the chance on him making u do somethang u'll regret! If u want maybe hang out wit him wit your friends. Trust me guys say they changed when they really didn't to make u fall back in love wit wit a person who isn't really themselves. You want a guy who will treat u wit respect no "Okay." i hope this helps! [ TrueLife's advice column | Ask TrueLife A Question ]
mshonest4eva answered Sunday September 19 2004, 11:16 am: of course, ppl can change, but the thing is, u cant trust him all that much after 3 months. Give it a little bit more time and really feel him out. In the kind of world that we live in today, it is better to measure 10 times and cut once rather than cut 10 times and measure once.
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