Hi. My name is Alissa-marie, by friends call me Alissa or lis. I'm really open to comments and questions, because i get them alot. OK, Im supposed to give some sob story of why im here. But thats not gonna happen. Because im here because i feel the need to help some one, and i like to do it. You dont like what i say, oh well. I am an up front person. I know how to beat around the bush and i know how to jump into it.(perferably, jumpin, lol)So, now u know a little bit about me. But this is all you need to know. Why? Because this column isnt about me and my woes-you can go to my live journal for that. This is about you. Ask intelligible questions, and you get one back. If you ask a dumb question -and i dont always have a sence of humor- dont expect an answer.**There is a wonderfull button called 'reject'...**
Ok, have at it!!
Website: my live journal!!
E-mail: mizsweetheart101@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: I live in fl but born in NYC
Occupation: Misc. at Surveying Company
AIM: mizsweetheart101
Yahoo: alichan2010
MSN: mizsweethear101
Member Since: August 17, 2004
Answers: 132
Last Update: September 26, 2004
Visitors: 7804
Main Categories:
Work/School Relationships
Friendship
Random Weirdos
View All
Favorite Columnists
LilMia811
|
| |
|
Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex? (link)
|
teenage guys havent fully managed their hormones yet, so they react on first impulse. if u wait a few years, they are supposedly more mature... i havent seen that yet..
XoxO AM
|
|
if there are me and my friend babysitting for 3 1/2 hours is $30 enough to split for both of us (link)
|
yea. i got 50 for 5 hours with my friend.
XoxO Alissa-marie
|
|
ok well im really unhappy with my life and ive thought about sucicide but never really wanted to do it because i know that that is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but i was wondering if anyone can help me be...happier, or give me some tips (link)
|
fing god. he helps everyone through troubles amd promises us a life free from pain in the future (the earth as a paradise)
XoxO Alissa-Marie
alissag4@excite.com is my email if u wanna talk.
|
|
Okay, well, there's a guy I know from MSN who I've been talking to for about a year now, friend of a friend, never met him in person. Last year we mentioned that it might be interesting to actually meet, though he did think that it might be a little awkward, but twice our plans got screwed up one way or another so we just dropped the subject. I didn't speak to him all summer because his computer broke down, and when he came back on I thought maybe I'd mention our idea again. He said he thought it might still be weird, but I said we should give it a try anyway because there was nothing to lose. He agreed and even suggested a place we could meet. A few weeks later, on a Friday, I said how about Sunday and he said yes, but we didn't decide on a time or anything, and come Sunday I didn't see him online until the late afternoon and he didn't even bring up our half-made plans. Anyway, the point of all this is that I really don't know what to do, whether I should keep trying or not. I really want to meet him because I like his personality but for all I know he finds me annoying. I don't know whether to let it go for another while so as not to seem desperate, or if I should just confront him and ask him to just tell me whether he wants to meet me or not so I can go from there. I really don't want to sound pushy. Sorry this was so long, but any advice would help. Thanks. (link)
|
aswk him if he really wants to meet u or if he id=s kinda umcon=mfortable about it. And its a friends friend- they've met/. b/c if they have, whenever they go hang out maybe u can show up too...
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|
I have no lessons at all with my boyfriend and only one lesson with my two best friends. The only times I can see them all is at breaktime (20 minutes) and lunch (1 hour) My boyfriend and his friends (who are my friends too) don't hang out with my best friends, how can I divide up my time during school so that I can spend time with all of them? (link)
|
spend the break time with ur friends for a week and luch with ur bf, and then switch around. That way u can hang out with then all even though ur bf migh not want to hang out with ur bff's
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|
I've got an EX who I went out with for about 2 years and we got together broke up got together so many times. We broke up over in the summer and got back together and he broke up wiht me that day. We've been dating around. I am like obcessed with the kid and I don't care how many times he breaks my heart I can't get over him and so he has been asking out like all my best friends and he is going out with a girl right now and he is sorta cheating on her with me and he likes me a little and ofcourse I like him..He doesn't want to get back together with me yett..I don't kno what to do because I kno he will soon but should I just forgot about him I mean he is a great guy and a great boyfriend and I can't see myself with anyone else. I don't know what to do. Please Help! (link)
|
sorry huny, but i think that u should try some2 knew. what is the point of having a lust for someone who is using u to cheat on his g/f? sorry if it hurts ur feelings, nut thats what it sounds like. And, just how do u know thatt he hasnt been cheaing on u, and he broke up cos of that? u dont, and u cant jus say that he didnt bcos u trust him. the way this world works, u cant trust a man to lick a stamo if ur watching him. To many ppl try to cut corners.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
Okay well my boyfriend lives in England now, we r still together and everything but he said to not let any other boys in my house or not to flirt , I love him to DEATH !!! well This nw boy kinda took his spot, he's nice and everything but he hugs me to much and says he loves me, I kinda feel the same way but , I told my boyfriend about this and he fliped and is now on his way down here, Im scared! what do I do , I dont want to break up with him or anything but were just teens, I mean my boyfriend is really rich and has a band and everything , he even buys me dimond braclets and everything, but I told the other guy to leave me alone and that I had a boyfriend coming to visit, what do I do?
And he said that he didn't care and wanted to met my boyfriend...
~Hurry I will rate all 5's i just need help!~ (link)
|
Who do u love more? Honey, I cant give you that answer. But if you love one more, then go with that one. You hsve to decide who u like more. And if u end up breaking up with ur oyfriend, tell hm that ur were his girlfriend and he was treating u like his wife!!
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|
Hey sorry to ask this question, I know other ppl alwayz do but i need a good website for backrounds and pictures for my profile. Jw if anyone knows any. Thx. (link)
|
in here? um, they nators give u a site from google with a whole bunch. Actually, theres more than one...
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
okay well, since the last 2 weeks school has started i've gotten alot of compliments, and i've been in this school for about 3 years now and well i've gotten compliments but the last 2 weeks i've gotten compliments more than i've gotten in the last 3 years!! is it because over the summer i changed alot?? and it seems like the boys are the ones noticing me, yeah i got a little bit taller and i look a lot better but is it me or them?? or is it because my breat grew alot more...
((i rate high))
tnxs (link)
|
its prob both. You prob look a hole lot different. But dont go out wit all these guys jus cause they finally notice u... u never want to be used an abused.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|
Alright...So, I've always been the rebel type. Stayed out late...never did what I was told. I couldnt WAIT til I was 18 and could do whatever I wanted. You know the type. As my 18th birthday is coming up...i've felt completely different. It's like I dont want to grow up. Its not that I dont want to deal with the "real world"...its just that I dont want to be grown up? lol Anyone else going thru this?? (link)
|
Its called MATURING. Most ppl get it. Embrace it, because even though youre afraid, thats what life is. Like your first job- you may be nervous, but you need confidence to enroll for it. So, think of that. Even though its scary, what doesnt kill u makes u stronger- honestly. And parying to god never, ever hurts!
XoxO Alissa_marie
|
okay i've liked this guy lets call him "david" for about 2 years now well DAVID and I met in 6th grade cuz i had just moved here and the first time i saw him i knew i would like him but the thing is i hate liking guys because im only 13 and i want to get to live life anyways all through 6th grade DAVID hated me, yes hated is a pretty meaningful word but he meant it 100% he despised me,hated me,disliked me very much however you want to put it, and in the summer i told everyone i had stopped because i could not live my life knowing someone hated me and no one believed me but they didn't make it a big deal well the summer of 6th grade DAVID and i became real good friend and we had lunch and math together in 7th grade so we were really good friends and in 7th grade we always talked and he would help me with my problems and I would help him with his and a lot of people still think i liked him then 7th grade was over and we kept our friendship tight and then 8th grade started and he is in my studyhall and lunch so this would be the 3rd year we have known eachother and every year he has been in my lunch. Everyone thinks he is mean but no one knows him like me he's a real sweet guy and is very caring about his friends and family and will stick up for anyone. Well see i never actually stopped liking him because he always gets me with his smile, but I no what ur going to say ur going to say, tell him you like him he might like you... but I know him too well he'll hate me,despise me,dislike me very much again and if I really do stop liking him which is my goal for this year he won't believe me. So plz help me and here is what he does...when he hooks me up with someone that person never breaks up with me now when i hook him up with someone i tell her she dare now break his heart and she usually doesn't and he just says like I think we should be friends, i don't know but he might be doing that to the guys and sometimes at my locker guys will come and put there arms around me and DAVID will walk by and look at the guys around me in the eyes and the guys will like walk away... is he trying to tell me something?? does he know something?? or does he just want to protect me??
((i rate high))
thank u sooooo much (link)
|
I agree with the Jesus Freak. I mean, even my freind Jamie was like, he likes you, he like you, when she was reading it- being nosy. If u know him better than everyone else, then what they say shouldnt ge to you. Focus on furthering your relationship him.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|
OK i like this guy.. we r rly good friends we talk every single day..im afraid if i tell him we wont be so close..and i want us to stay close..i think he might like me a lil too.. because he asked me who i liked and i told him that it doesnt matter because they dont like me anyways ..and he said r u sure about that..so im rly confused because i want to tell him but i dunno..help plz (link)
|
ask him, do u have feelings for me?
that pretty much will start thigs off...
XoxO Alissa- Marie
|
ok me and my friend like the same guy and he is hotttt i mean burning hott and im afraid to tell him because i think he might over react and i really want to tell him because i think he might like me and if he doesnt i think he might like freak out or something and im like freaking out and scared to see how he will take it and when we go sit on the floor he trys to sit between me and my friend so im starting to think he likes both of us sorry its so long so please help me
.:*CoNfUsEd*:. (link)
|
ask him if he likes her. if he like YESSS then backoff. if the subject is toucchy, then he might like u and u want to be careful bringing him up around friends.
Xoxo Alissa-marie
|
Hi i have liked this kid james and i went out with him 3 other times, but i am still in love with him.
he wants to hook up but i wanna be a couple do u think he likes me or just using me for hookin up. thing is he is one of my best friends so..yeah!
HELP
how can i tell if he likes me
and
is he using me or not?
female (link)
|
be straight up and ask him 'do u want to be friends with benifits or do u want an actual relationship" be up front and all ur ?s will be answered.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|
my mom just recently said she thinks its time for me to see a gyno. so she made me an appointement. she tells me yesterday that she had a dream i was pregenant. do u think she is making me go to the gyno and had that dream b/c she thinks i have sex? (link)
|
yes. shes making up excuses. she is still thinking of u as her little girl, and shes not ready yet, as u'd expect. Tag along, do wut she asks, but dont answer her indirect ?s, wait untill she asks staight up.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
(link)
|
forget her! she has made itr up in her mind that she doesntlike u. and thats that. so u should just make plans to go other places and have her come over to ur house. just totally avoid her mom and hope for the best!!
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
okay i realli need help..
heres my story:
i had this boyfriend before and he treated me "okay" when we were going out..but then he also pressured me into doing stuff with him that i wasn't readi for! then one day he broke up with me..and i was crushed for about 3 months..and he would always fight with me after we broke up and everything..and i told myself that i would never go back out with him..but now after 3 months have gone by..we are realli good friends and he told me he changed..and and i hung out with him last night and i do kinda see a change..but i realli n truely love him..but i don't wanna get hurt if i say yes if he asks me back out! which he alreadi told me he was going to! but my real question is..can people realli change?
please help me! i rate realli high!
thanks!
(link)
|
of course, ppl can change, but the thing is, u cant trust him all that much after 3 months. Give it a little bit more time and really feel him out. In the kind of world that we live in today, it is better to measure 10 times and cut once rather than cut 10 times and measure once.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
Sorry this is long, but to me it's IMPORTANT
okay, I want to get a cell phone, and I have the money to buy one, but my mom said that she won't pay for the bill, so I was thinking of getting the minute cards, because I babysit a lot, just I don't babysit regularly, and I don't have a job, so pretty much I was wondering where I could get minute cards and maybe how much they are
I don't know if this is the type of question that gets deleted, so please answer!! Oh and just to let you know, I hate it when people ask to be rated, so if you do I either won't rate, or will give you a one (link)
| |
hey- never give a one!! newayz, u can to any dtore! if u go to a 7-11, then they should have thenm. they actually cell phons their now- wild, huh?
|
|
When I logged on it said I had 1 thing in my Inbox so I clicked then when it loaded it said that I didn't have any unanswered questions. So does that mean I don't have any questions or it is a mistake with the site? (link)
|
it must be a glich in the site. loout and themn come back in to see what happens
XoxO alissa-marie
|
This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out (link)
|
make the first move girl! se, my friend wanted to go out with a guy like that, we called him chipmunk, and when he asked the his ex y they never kissed or nething they said he was too straight- meaning that he was kind of shy. To get him out of it, make the first move. Go for it!!
XoxO Alissa-Marie
|
|