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Member Since: August 17, 2004
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Last Update: August 17, 2004
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i dont know what to do. i have dis boyfriend but we NEVA hang out! like NEVA! and i cant call him cuz i dun got long distance (he lives like 20 minutes away but in the same state) so he only calls me once a day, which sucks. i miss being single, but if i tell him hell think ima hoe! i wanna go back ta school and not have ta deal wit a boyfriend in the beginning, i juz wanna have fun wit all mah guy friends and girl friends! and ima flirt.. i admit it, but i cant help it, im not a hoe, i only flirt... i really need help. shud i dump him? and if i shud how shud i say it? i really need help ova here...

italian_diamond (link)
Well, you should tell him, that it's not fair to either of you that you never see each other, and your kinda doing a favor 4 both of you


i dont know whats wrong with me. my current b/f was my first kiss and ...other things. but hes told me about all the other times hes made out with girls and he suposidly liked me when he made out with one of them at his dads camp. i had liked him then too. but he doesnt go to the same school as me...and his best friend is always checking out girls so he always points them out to my b/f. i just dont know how to stop thinking about it so much. i know he loves me and he wants to marry me(we're 15 but still...)i dont know how to get it out of my head and when i think about it i cry...please help me. (link)
Hey, my first make out dude said he wanted to marry me, too. Sorry, hun, I've been in this situation before. Your probably not going to end up marrying him. And it doesn't mention anywhere that you still love him


Hey me and m boyfriend were best friends b4 we went out so we were alredy really really close and we got even closer since we r going out...and we could talk 4 5 or 6 hours ont ha fone and never have a silent moment or a dull moment and talk 24.7 but latly we hardy cant even talk like we talk 5 30 mintues on tha fone and prolly get 20 mintues of talkin dun...and i think now thats skools startin were gunna grow further apart than we alredy r ...and i really luv him and he really luvs me 2 but we r just growin apart and not doing as much 2gether wut do i do?! pls help me thx so much (link)
Well, I'm assuming he isn't in your school. It's not your faultyou have to go to school!!! Try to hang out with him on Friday nights, and set up a time every day that you can talk with him.


I have been with my current boyfriend for quite a while, and I love him greatly, but I have begun to realize that I still have feelings for an ex that I had a while back. He was probably the first person I truly cared about, but then he ended it. I don't understand why after all of this time I am realising that I'm not really over him, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. I feel guilty having these feelings and at the same time they hurt. Anyone know what I can do? (link)
Well, I was kind of in that situation before. I would try to focus more on your new boyfriend. If you can't, you might want to take a break. Do you still talk to your ex? If he is shunning you, there probably isn't a chance of you 2 getting back together.


i used 2 live in north carolina nd i had a great boi friend. then i moved nd we broke up because he was cheating on me.. well now i'm moving bac nd i still love him nd he loves me nd he said he never cheated on me, but wen we 1st went out he was cheating on dis otha girl w/ me. sp should i go bac out w/ him or not? plz help me
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I think you should just try to be his friend first, and then see what happens!!!!!!


ok...here was my question before and thanks to all that answered it. "i was talking to this guy i like (he likes me too)about personal stuff, and he said that he was more submissive. and it was really random...do you think he was trying to tell me something, like getting me to make the first move? or was he just saying that."

well i asked him about hanging out and we've been trying to get together...but we cant find a time. and i dont know what to say anymore. i want to be able to say something like "hey since you like me and i like you lets seriously find sometime to hang out." but im the shyest person ever and dont know if i can bring myself to say that...if you have any suggestions that would be awesome! thanks (link)
Hey, I'm shy too! But, as you can tell, I am open online. Try asking him online, and see if that helps!


i play soccer and want to try for extreme legue but like i dont know If I am Goood enough for It or not Plz help aBBz (link)
Well, I'm pretty sure your not horrible! I say go ahead and try it!




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