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jelous.....i guess?
i dont know whats wrong with me. my current b/f was my first kiss and ...other things. but hes told me about all the other times hes made out with girls and he suposidly liked me when he made out with one of them at his dads camp. i had liked him then too. but he doesnt go to the same school as me...and his best friend is always checking out girls so he always points them out to my b/f. i just dont know how to stop thinking about it so much. i know he loves me and he wants to marry me(we're 15 but still...)i dont know how to get it out of my head and when i think about it i cry...please help me.
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Hey, my first make out dude said he wanted to marry me, too. Sorry, hun, I've been in this situation before. Your probably not going to end up marrying him. And it doesn't mention anywhere that you still love him
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Talk to him about how he REALLY feels. Tell him that you should be the only one that he loves, and that he shouldn't be checking out other girls.
He needs to be more faithful. I know you probably worry that he's at another school, and he could be looking at girls behind your back, but you should trust him not to do that. After you talk to him, if this continues then it might be a sign that you two should break up.
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You need to stop thinking about it. Being jelouse sucks and it will rruin your life and any relationship you ever have. I'm in a relationship with a guy who is really jealouse and it is really hard. You need to trust him, the worst that will happen is he'll hurt you but you being jelouse is already hurting you right?
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If he truely loves you... You have nothing to worry about.. I am sure if he doesnt love you he would tell you.. Most guys are pretty honest when it comes to that... Well the guys I've been with anyway.. But dont get too jealous about it.. because then he will think you dont trust him.. and you dont want that..
I hope i helped..If ya need anything drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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ok, if he REELY luvs u u shudnt have to worry. ask him about it. ask him if he iz chekin out otha girls or anything. if he responds with a strait answer that he wud neva cheat on u and ur SURE u hez tellin the truth then dont think anymore about it. if he isnt exactly sure or u think hez lying then take action. tell him that if u find out that he is cheatin on u, u will immeadiatley break up with him. otha than that, all i can tell u iz that it sounds like this guy reely luvs ya and u probably dont have anything to worry about. but if u think somethin mite be up then break up with him and dont give him a chance to explain. GOOD LUCK :)
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well the majority of straight 15 year old guys today are going to be like that. just remember that if he really loves you like he says he does, he won't do anything more than look. its not bad to check out a girl as long as you don't actually do anything with her. i know it may be hard to understand from your point of view but it is absolutely normal.
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okay, heres the deal. Youre jealous because you think that he's cheating on you(or wants too). If he really loves you then he wont and never will. Just explain it to him and see what happens, if he says nothing is going on, then believe him and try thinking of other things. and tell his friend to stp pointing out girls to him and tell him that he is taken. OR get some one to watch your b/f for ya if you really ddont trust him hah. Welp g2g lemme kno what happens bye!
xo* Jessica
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