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hey! i reely wanna help so plz feel free to ask any questions, no matter how random they mite be! ill try some pretty good advice. thanx 4 visiting! GOD BLESS~!~!~!
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im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica
EAT!!!!!!!! that is supper bad for your body to starve yourself never do that. It can lead to bad things, and make you way to skinny
im 15 and a sophomore in highschool and i'm over weight. Im not gunna say how much cuz i don't feel confortable saying it but it's quite a bit. I'v lost 30 pounds beofre but most ofit came back and its really hard. The strange thing is im pretty athletic and im even faster then some of the small girls n my school. I'm tired of being fat and of people making fun of me sumtimes. It makes me hate myself and sometimes i juss wanna die. I dont remember a time in my life when i was really actually happy. I know that if i lose alotta weight. I try but i never get to far. I'm eating better then u use to but now i just stay the same weight gaining or loseing 2 or 3 pounds. I never throw up so doing bulimia is outta the question. I dunno what else to do.
Hey, It dosent matter how much you weigh! It matters what you act like. It seems like you have a great heart and thats all that matters. Dont let what anyone says affect the way you think about yourself, because you are great person!!!!!!!!
I'm 20 years old. Female. I've been with my man for about 4 months and I definately feel that I'm head over heels in love with him when it's just the two of us but when I'm around other guys I start thinking about dating other people. How come one minuet I feel like I could marry my love but then another minuet I think about wandering to other guys?
if u have any doubts on luv, then hold off on any marrige or engadgement or anything. luv iz something that is unmistakeable. ul no 4 sure wen ur in luv! :)
~!LuCy!~
My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her?
im not telling u that u have 2 listen 2 me or ur friend, but it sounds to me that she might be rite. i am also very strong in my faith with god, and i am also trying, without much success 2 get people 2 believe like i do. now, i realize that sometimes i mite push 2 hard, but itz just so agrivating wen some1 u luv so0o much just wont listen 2 u about the most important thing in the universe. im not telling u how 2 live ur life or anything, but GOD is THE ONLY WAY!!! shes probably just terribly worried about u and just doesnt no how 2 get thro 2 u so she getz agrivated. ive been in that situation be4. just try 2 listen 2 her. wen u truly find jesus and accept him into ur heart, ul be very thankful.
~!LuCy!~
i'm going into highschool as a freshman and for a couple of years now i haven't been doing that good in school. i used to be an honor student and then i got hit with depression really bad and my grades fell to C's D's and F's and i always had A's and B's. I've been struggling since last year to get my grades up because i want so badly to become a doctor and i can't get my grades up. my delema is that if i keep struggling i want to hire a tutor for myself. normally i don't care what people think about me but i'm not sure what people would say if they found out that i had a tutor. i don't want to feel stupid. what should i do to make myself feel better about this?
well, first ov all i wanna make sure that ur ova depression. i went thro depression and it waz awful! no1 shud have 2 go thro that, so if ur not completely ova it plz consider therapy. it helps a ton!!!! but about the grades, DO NOT FEEL STUPID ABOUT GETTIN A TUTOR! im a pretty good student but i have 2 have my teachers tutor me a whole lot. it helps me a ton!! if it makes u feel betta tho, get a tutor that u dont no or thatz not from ur skool. that way, no1 wud eva no! itz ok to have trouble in skool! HOPE I HELPED!! :)
my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice
ok, ive had the same problem. i thot i waz fatter than every1 else! it sounds to me like u dont need to loose a pound. (ur weight is about average 4 ur height!) do u think u or ur friensz look healthier?? chanses r U do! i found out i waz perfectly healthy the hard way! i actually developed a mild eating diorder. i am over it now but it waz awful. i waz always comparing my body to otha people and stuff. it sucked! so dont compare ur body 2 ur friends or people in magazines or amy1 else. god made u r 4 a reason! every1 iz so caught up in there weight riter now. i truly believe ur not fat even tho i dont no u! a lot ov my friends think they need 2 lose weight and r always talkin about it! me and my otha frineds hate wen they do that! it gets so annoying!! but if u dont believe me, next time ur at the doctor ask him 2 show u the chart where it says ur healthy weight range 4 ur height. some solid fact that ur normal cud be just the thing! :) THANX HOPE I HELPED!
Hello! I was wondering if any of you know any good home remedies to get rid of pimples, besides toothpaste. Thanks!
if i were u, i wud go 2 a dermatologist. they r reely smart and no reely good ways to clear up ur face. some of my friends go 2 a dermatologist and have seen such an improvment! HOPE I HELPED!
:)
LuCy~!~
well.. see my ;ofe isnt really perfect or not near it my parents fite n yell at me ALL the time
and one of my best friends loves this other girl doesnt even talk to me ne more and the only good thing is my othher bbff! but ive liked this guy for 8 months! and he was single bout to ask me out wen he asked out some1 else hoo said she hated him, shes a really good friend but like ya..also on my bus r all the popular guys and u see them whisperin u kno its about u it usually is! so i hate myself i got new make up n got hiarcut and highlights n everythin just how do i get my old friends back n make my life better?! sry if its so long.. ill ratE REALLy good!
im sry but im kinda confused about that whole thing. it sounds 2 me like ur worryin 2 much about wat otha people think. all that matters iz that u like hoo u r. but im not sayin that u shud live without friends either. go sit by them at lunch or talk 2 them after skool or somethin. YOU have 2 make the effort. caz believe me: THEY WONT!!! and about ur parents not likeing ur louv becauz hes not perfect well no offence but itz none of there business. i mean if hez in drugs or somethin i wudnt get involved, but if itz just becaz he makes bad grades or wears strange things then FORGET ABOUT WAT UR PARENTS SAY! that kinda stuff iz none of their business unless they r tryin 2 protect u 4 ur own good! itz gonna be hard but u can do it! GOOD LUCK!! :)
i need to know how to tone up my body, manly just the tops of my legs and my stomache, but the thing is i only have 2.5 weeks! please help me and tell me wht i can do, with only that amount of time! ill rate high!! thnx! let me know ASAP!!
push-ups! those things do miracles. do about 2 sets of 20 a day and ull have amazing abs in NO TIME! also, for ur legs bike-riding is the trick! 4 like 30 minutes day do cycling and that will be great to. make sure to get plenty of protein and calcium! GOOD LUCK! :)
i dont know whats wrong with me. my current b/f was my first kiss and ...other things. but hes told me about all the other times hes made out with girls and he suposidly liked me when he made out with one of them at his dads camp. i had liked him then too. but he doesnt go to the same school as me...and his best friend is always checking out girls so he always points them out to my b/f. i just dont know how to stop thinking about it so much. i know he loves me and he wants to marry me(we're 15 but still...)i dont know how to get it out of my head and when i think about it i cry...please help me.
ok, if he REELY luvs u u shudnt have to worry. ask him about it. ask him if he iz chekin out otha girls or anything. if he responds with a strait answer that he wud neva cheat on u and ur SURE u hez tellin the truth then dont think anymore about it. if he isnt exactly sure or u think hez lying then take action. tell him that if u find out that he is cheatin on u, u will immeadiatley break up with him. otha than that, all i can tell u iz that it sounds like this guy reely luvs ya and u probably dont have anything to worry about. but if u think somethin mite be up then break up with him and dont give him a chance to explain. GOOD LUCK :)
i am a girl who has a lover it happens that the is in university why i have just finished my secondary sch level.he came home one day and told me he really luv and care well i was very happy and to his honesty, he told me he had a girl friend and not a lover in school and asked if i also have one but to be candid i have no one and he told me i should pls not have one and also he said the girl in her school wish to meet me but i told him i dont want to meet her.so pls should i meet her,and also should i go for a boyfriend too and to that kind of thing is the guy honest?.
i cant believer ur sittin there lettin him cheat on u like that! ur r way 2 good 2 be treated like that!!! dont take it any longer! stand up 4 urself and tell him that if he doesnt dump his otha girlfriend rite now then u will break up with him. if yall do break up, go 4 anotha guy. theres plenty of otha cookies in the jar. im sure that u can find anotha guy that treats u WAAAAAY better!! dont take this crud any longer! i no it will be hard... GOOD LUCK!
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im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down...
ok, do ur parents no about this problem? if not u shud tell them immeadiatley! this cud cause serious problems. u need 2 get help be4 itz 2 late. if i were u i wud try 2 avoid telling ur bf. i mean im sure u hate lying but u no who news like that spreads and u sure wudnt want it all over the skool. but plz, TELL UR PARENTS! thanx and try 2 stop that habbit. instead when u feel stressed, jam ur music or excersise or somethin! u cud also get therapy 2 help u with stress. i go 2 a councelor once a week and it helps me so0o0o much! THANX! :)
~~LuCy~~
ok everywhere i go i meet a guy and i always ahve a nice convo and jsut like them bu tthen thats all i see of them cuz its lnot like they live near me im tlakin the movies the mall the beach any where im not some kinda whore or stuck up rich prep i am jsut always having fun and always meet someone but i can never find a guy to stay with cuz theres noone in my skool i like cuz i go to "a stuck up rich prep skool" so everywhere i go i meet someone bu ti cant be with them so its ony like a one nite thing what can i do
well, if u reely like a guy then yall shud stay in tuch with e-mail, fone, and letters. u cud probably work it out so that yall cud meet again and maybe cud become reely good friends (or more than that!). i dunno. if he lives 2 far a way then u mite just anna 4get about him becauz thinkin about him mite just make u sad and miss him more. if i were u, id check out the guys at ur skool. i mean who nos, theres probably some reely cute guys u neva reely met. im sure not ALL of them r stuck up! just give it a try and c wat happens. :) GOOD LUCK
my bestfriend has a crush on this guy thats one year older then us and i think i like him too...b/c like every time im with him he turns me on somehow..i don't want to let my friend down but i don't think that boy even like my bff and i dun think he likes me ethier...wat do i do?
just see wat happens. if he doesnt like either of u then notin will happen. unless he asks one of yall out notin will happen. i fhtat happens, then talk 2 ur friend about how u feel and stuff. no offence, but it sounds to me like he wont be askin either of u out. if u want, u mite wanna tell, her that u like him 2. who nos, she mite not care at all and take it litely.
~according2lucy~
I don't wanna sound cocky by this, but I wanna make the big time. And I know I have the voice for it too. My friends, family, everyone tells me that I have a fabulous voice and need to be revealed to the public. I've been doing everything musical for my school, community, and town. For example, talent shows, school plays/musicals, taking vocal lessons, in region chorus. But my question is, how can I, a fourteen-year-old from NJ, make it in the music bizz? please help me... i'll rate fast..thanks
-Laur-
well, therez plenty of things u can do 2 help to get ur name in lights. any auditions that u see, whether it be 4 a skool play or a brosdway show, try out. if some1 sees u singing they cud reely luv u and ask u to make a record deal or somethin. im sure therez lots of things to try out 4 in NYC (if u live close enough). never give up and keep tryin. wether u make it to the big time or not, dont stop the thing u luv 2 do! :) GOOD LUCK!
i`m completely into music [i play violin] and i love it s0o0o0o much! i`ve been playing classical and fiddle/improv for almost 7 years. my mom and classical teacher want me to continue with classical and do that as mmy career and take it more seriously. my improv and fiddle teachers want me to take classical until college but then go into fiddle and improvisation. i`m not sure how to handle all this cause i really am starting to dislike a lot of classical music that my teacher wants for me. but she is a great person and player [carnegie hall and debut at age 10!!!!!!] i think maybe i should try some new classical crap but i`m not sure if this will fix my problem..
thankssss i rate*-- xoxox
do wat U want!!! im not sure about all that musical stuff that u were talkin about but u reely should follow UR heart. if u dont like wat ur playin then CHANGE IT! play wat u wanna play. dont listen 2 ur teachers or ur mom. when it comes to wat kind of things ur gonna play, U make the desision. wen ur playin wat u wanna play, no matter wat any1 else wants, u feel the best. :) GOOD LUCK!
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I wrote in here on the 23rd... About my friend that hasnt tlked to me in a while and it seemed lyk she was just using me fro a guy I have be with! Her and her boyfriend broke up so there is no pressure there. I called her and asked her what was going on and she said she was jsut grounded and I didnt believe her but her mom told me she really was. Well, she says we are still friends and now she is ungrounded and we are hangin out. Thanks everybody fro ur help!!!
.:* Erika *:.
thatz great! it sounds like verythings goin great. if u think she mite be lyin to u about some things u mite wanna talk to her about that. it sounds like everything worked out great. maybe ur friend waz just goin thro a weird faze. COOOL! :)
~~according2lucy~~
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ok i dont think i am a picky person when i go out with soembody cuz before i go out i wanna be friends with them for a while so i noe how there like and i noe there personality and who they are all around but i wanna make sure he will treat me rite adn hes funny and sweet adn i want him to have space from em as i want space to him and i dotn want us to be alone all the tiem u noe cuz hanging out with ur bf and freidsn is cool to becoem comftorable then i will work my way up but i dotn go to fast and i will go pretty far if i like the guy but am i jsut waiting for a perfect guy thats not gonna cvome or shood i go for otehr guys even if there not all that i want? (i am 13)
i think that ur expectations mite be a LITTLE to high. i maen, sure, u deserve a reely great guy. but who nos, the guy who ur supposed 2 be with cud not have all of those traits. wen a guy asks u out, and u kinda like him, just go out and c how it goes. if there isnt a connection, then tell him u just dont think yall r ment 4 eachother. but if it goes okay, try and hang with him and some friends. get 2 no eachotha, take it slow. my advice 2 u is, lower ur expectations a little, but still dont just date any guy. :) good luck!
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Okay so i've liked this guy for 2 yrs. now, and i'm going to be a freshman, and he's a senior. Now, my mom went out with his dad, and they were in love, but i guess things didn't work out in the end. So no we both live in the same town, and i met him playin basketball. We started to talk online, but in person, things didn't go well. He would look at me nod and smile, but things never got farther then that. But online, he would tell me how he thought i was hott, and how we should go out when i got to HS. Then towards the middle of this year things went downhill. We started fighting like crazy, and now he like completly hates me. IDK what to do, he would get jealous over other guys and shit, but it wasn't even like i was doing stuff with anyone else. I've never hooked up with a guy, and he knows that. He used to think that it was fine, but now it's some big deal, so i just told him that i did hook up with a guy. He wants me to give him head, and i'm not sure about it. But i realllly like him. I just want to know what i can do, to make him want me back? because i really want things to work, before school starts. So that leaves me a month ... PLEASE HELP !
tell him that u didnt hook up with a guy and maybe that will make him feel better. im sure hez just jealous and wants u all 4 himself! if u feel like he doesnt appreciate u i wouldnt sweat over it. if he doesnt like u 4 who u r, then hez just not the guy 4 u. try to talk things out with him, tell him ur true feelings and everything. if he nos how u feel about him maybe he will start to want u back. if not, i wud move on. u need a guy who reely likes u and treats u like a princess. :)lol. if he completely hates u (as u said) then move on. dont get stuck on him just becaus hez there. THERES PLENTY OF PIGS IN THE BARN! (get it!) PLZ RATE!
See me and this guy have been dating for some time. And we see eachother like everyday! But last week I had to go home to my fathers because I hadn't seen him in a while and since then I have only seen him once. But for some reason i think I am chasing him away by being with him all the time. and I don't like calling his house anymore because his mother thinks I call to much which I think i really don't but some days I might! But I really think I love him and I don't know how he feels about me it's just so confusing. Like when he is with certain people he wont want to bother with me or even talk to me on the phone. I don't think some of his family and friends really aprove of me so much either. I just don't know what to do. Beacuse He seems to hind things from me. And I don't know if he is using me or not, but some people seem to think he is. what should I do?
signed Confused Person!
ok, it sounds 2 me like ur bf mite not be the rite guy 4 u. no offence, but he doesnt seem 2 trust u, and he should NOT get mad at u 4 things u did not do. he sounds like one of those guys who likes to be in control, always has to have things his way, and always has to be rite. i personally wud not put up with this kind of guy. it sounds like u cud do MUCH better. but if u think u reely luv this guy, then talk it out with him. see if anything is bothering him and tell him how u feel. tell him that sometimes it feelz like he doesnt trust u, and ask him if hes using u. if he gets mad wen u confront him, dump him rite there on the spot. stand up 4 urself. also, who kares if his friends and family dont approve of u. 4get about them. wen u r makin desisions about ur luv life, dont think about any1 else BUT URSELF!! U need 2 choose wether u like this guy or not. and he MITE be using u. i dunno. but it sounds o me that he takes adventage of u alot. he always expects u 2 still be there no matter wat he does. u shud not put up with this. if he doesnt reason with u RITE AWAY, then dump him on the spot. :) good luck!