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boyfriend troublezz
See me and this guy have been dating for some time. And we see eachother like everyday! But last week I had to go home to my fathers because I hadn't seen him in a while and since then I have only seen him once. But for some reason i think I am chasing him away by being with him all the time. and I don't like calling his house anymore because his mother thinks I call to much which I think i really don't but some days I might! But I really think I love him and I don't know how he feels about me it's just so confusing. Like when he is with certain people he wont want to bother with me or even talk to me on the phone. I don't think some of his family and friends really aprove of me so much either. I just don't know what to do. Beacuse He seems to hind things from me. And I don't know if he is using me or not, but some people seem to think he is. what should I do?
signed Confused Person!
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I say drop this guy. He obviously doesnt trust you very much. You deserve better and there are plenty of people out there that will treat you right.
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i had the same promblem..But my boyfriend broke up with me..Maybe you should just not call him for awhile then maybe he'll call you..I think he might love you..But just give it some time..If you ever need to talk and u have aim im me on lilsweetie69213..Or can write to me at yellowcardfan122@hotmail.com . Im always here if you need me..
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Honesty...thats what you need. Tell this guy how you are feeling. And if he isnt intersted in making things better then you dont need him anyway. There are plent more fish in the sea and im sure you can find someone who can treat you the way you deserve to be treated. and NOBODY is worht getting so worked up over that you cut yourself.
Hope it helped!
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ok, it sounds 2 me like ur bf mite not be the rite guy 4 u. no offence, but he doesnt seem 2 trust u, and he should NOT get mad at u 4 things u did not do. he sounds like one of those guys who likes to be in control, always has to have things his way, and always has to be rite. i personally wud not put up with this kind of guy. it sounds like u cud do MUCH better. but if u think u reely luv this guy, then talk it out with him. see if anything is bothering him and tell him how u feel. tell him that sometimes it feelz like he doesnt trust u, and ask him if hes using u. if he gets mad wen u confront him, dump him rite there on the spot. stand up 4 urself. also, who kares if his friends and family dont approve of u. 4get about them. wen u r makin desisions about ur luv life, dont think about any1 else BUT URSELF!! U need 2 choose wether u like this guy or not. and he MITE be using u. i dunno. but it sounds o me that he takes adventage of u alot. he always expects u 2 still be there no matter wat he does. u shud not put up with this. if he doesnt reason with u RITE AWAY, then dump him on the spot. :) good luck!
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hey girl ur in a rough situation i just would blow him off a little, not to the point were ur not talking to him at all but go be with the girls and go out have some fun. wait until he calls u dont make him think your the chaser... chase him!!! i mean if hes using u, u dont need that u can do so much better... men are pigs and u need to remember that... they all are no matter who it is.
Nicole
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