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how far is to far?
there is this guy i like n i think he likes me we flirt all the time i just came back from a church choir trip w/ him we held hands alot n he always makes me laigh he ha even gevin me n my friends free tickets to go to the wtrprk bc he wrks there he is soo cool n i really like him but there r 2 problems:
1)he is a jr.(11th grade) n i am in 8th grade
2)alot of people keep telling me that i shoulnt hang ut with the older guys b/c it makes me look slutty but most the older guys r my friends
we r 3 1/2 years apart but 2 diffrent schools n the only time i get to see him is at church or when he takes me on a ride in his car i dont knoe what to do some of my friends say we look happy together n all but is that anough? i dont knoe please help me decide what to do
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Ok I have two different oppinions on this. Me and my boyfriend are 2 years apart, he'll me 18 in march and i'll be 16 in may. So in away I dont really see a problem with it. But then I do cuz he is a lot older, and you are still in middle school! And obviously, whether you wanna accept it or not, the guy is going to be way more mature. but on the emotional level, a lot of bad things can happen, girls that young become infatuated too easily and can get caught up in the moment with him and wind up doing things they shouldnt. Wait until your in high school to date him, you'll be more emotionally prepared and can more likly handle yourself better.
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Hope I helped
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First, you should spell check a lot better, this question was pretty hard and annoying to read.
But, instead of simply rating it with a frown, I wanted to say somethign first.
Don't let anyone tell you that your a slut just because you hang out with an older guy. This guy seems really sweet and you seem to like each other. If you really like him then do what you feel is right and don't let other people put you down.
Just don't let him pressure you into anything, older guys like to do that a lot.
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If you are happy with eachother and you feel that you can make things work then go for him and dont worry about bad things that people say, as long as you are happy its cool
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It duznt matter if he iz 3 1/2 years olda then un it dont matter wat your friends think its how use feel bout each otha n it duznt make u look slutty when u go out wid older guyz so follow your heart not wat ppl say!
Hope i helped
.*.>> Caitlin <<.*.
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