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my friends are skinny
my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice
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i've delt with that my whole life too! unfortunatly it SUCKS. but 135 is not fat. its normal. it makes me mad and sad when i look at a picture of britney spears or other super-skinny celebs cause they make young people make them feel like they have to weigh 10 lbs and dress like a slut. but just be happy with your body and if your friends ignore you and the guys can't see how beautiful you are than they aren't worth it!
~*~Natalie~*~
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YOUR NOT FAT AT ALL!!!!!!!! but if u really wanna loose weight.. ( it helped me ) it takes time... u can loose like alot of weight at once..
excirsize 4-6 days a week for about... 4 hrs.. ( including a little swimming ) do cardo and muscle work outs...
instead of regular meals replace them like with yogut or something... ( milk helps burn away the fat ) and stay away from soft drinks... in fact stay away from anything that aint water... TAW*BO IS LIKE AWSOME! it will help u loose the lbs !! and tightly your muscles.. but dont 4 get u need 2 jog like 1 mile a day!
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Hun, I think you should ignore them. If I guy doesn't like you for who you are, he's not worth it. Theres a guy out there for everyone. When he comes you'll know it, he'll love you for you.
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big is beutiful, within reason of course. and youre within reason. you jsut need to find a guy that will like you for you.
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aw, you shouldnt feel left out... if a guy only went to you by the way you look, that wouldnt be a very good relationship would it? i mean we all would like to have the "perfect body" but does anyone have it yet? i dont think so! your only 14 (As am i) and we still are growing everyday. i used to be kinda chubby when i was younger, but once you get those growth sperts- you'll slim out more! if you and your friends arent affected by the different body shapes, and the guys are... i say do what makes you happy. but remember, you're perfect the way you are =] and if losing a few pounds makes you happy, WHY NOT? just remember we're still kids and allowed to have fun no matter what we look like! cheer up! -ask_anything
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Nope! i dont think ur fat at all! my friend is 130 lbs and shes about ur height.. and shes not fat at all!! so i highly doubt you are! But if you want to lose weight just run on a tredmill or actually go runnin, do sit ups, crunches, etc. And eat right!! If you need anythin else babe just ask!! x0x!
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hey ... yeah, i was 135 when i was your age, and i was shorter, and i wasn't really fat. Chubby, but cute kinda chubby. lol. I know lot's of guys who dig girls with an ass . all those girls who are super skinny, when you really look at them, are they pretty? Some of them probley look anorexic or have some kind of sickness.
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dang grlie.. l0l.. thats about tha same as me.. and i kno how it is.. but yea.. just.. dont wurry bout it.. like.. if u wanna loose weight.. then do it.. but dont make it freak u out.. just be outgoing.. and make friends and guys will be drawn to ya! heyy.. if u need any better help.. then IM me.. and ill talk to ya more..
xoxo andie oxox
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there is nothing wrong with you, why dont you just find a boy you like, hang with them and then theyll see how cool you are and then theyll like you. and from youre height and weight. you dont seem fat so dont worry about that.
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well if it makes you feel any better, i am 13 and 5"3 and weigh 120 lbs. so 135 lbs isnt bad at all! and youre a year older and an inch taller. dont worry about it, okay? ignore mean boys, they dont like me neither. okay? dont let them get to you.
-heretohelpyou-
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Every girl is beautiful! Just because those guys like skinny girls doesn't mean every guy does!
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All of my friends are super skinny so i know how ya feel! If you think you'll feel better about yourself if you loose weight, then maybe you should try. You're DEFINATELY not fat though. It seems like it upsets you though, so maybe if you loose weight you'll be a lot happier. You definately do not have to though.
hope i helped..!
xoxo
ali
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Hi!! I am very skinny and i've been skinny my WHOLE life. I dislike it, mainly because the girls with a little more meat on them always have to make a comment on it, and also when someone gets mad at me they say something to me about it. Consider yourself lucky. I dont really like it, i'd rather take the fat from my stomach and spread it over my legs and arms!! But you know I cant be perfect, and neither can you. You're beautiful the way you are, but if you want you can go on a diet, but if you try to lose weight youre going to learn that the guys will love you for you're appeareance, not youre personality, and thats going to hurt you later. But if you wana lose a little weight to do it for yourself..DO IT Man!!! Good Luck i hope i helped, and dont give in to peer pressure! Stay in school and dont do drugs!
<marquee>LoVe, CoNNiE</marquee>
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No girl! Just be yourself! That's that should matter, I mean seriously would you want a boy just to go out with you because you were a size O. It's like you having to dye your hair blonde if your hair is brown for a boy that only goes out with blondes. Seriously girl! I've learned all this!! Be yourself! And you are perfectly fine with your height and weight!! =)
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You are right at the correct weight for your height. You are not too fat or too skinny. If you have a really large frame you may actually be underweight. However, I think that you're weight is healthy, and so do insurance company longevity surveys.
Your friends, if they are your height and skinnier than you, are underweight. They are most likely unhealthy. As you get older you will find plenty of men who prefer girls who aren't twigs, and are actually sickened by the superskinny look.
Judging by just your height and weight, you are the healthiest of the group. I recommed that you don't change a thing!
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Ok im gonna be honest with u I dunt think your fat but maybe you should lose some wieght if it's gonna make you feel good about yourself dont do it juss to impress someone do it for yourself hun
ask your friends or your family wut they think im sure they'll be honest with you 2--i hoped i helped plz rate
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i know how u feel totally!!! all my friends are like these tiny lil thingz..listen, i think that maybe, for YOURSELF ONLY..u should try getting down to 130 or maybe even alil less...ONLY because at ur age and ur height, thats the weight u should be...but that SO doesnt mean ur fat at all!!! dont get down about that typa stuff.. i know soooo manii guyz that go for "thick" girlz...ya know who have "ass" n stuff..if ur gunna loose weight, do it for urself and no1 else. okay? if u need more help leave one in my inbox!!!
love kristin =]
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ok, ive had the same problem. i thot i waz fatter than every1 else! it sounds to me like u dont need to loose a pound. (ur weight is about average 4 ur height!) do u think u or ur friensz look healthier?? chanses r U do! i found out i waz perfectly healthy the hard way! i actually developed a mild eating diorder. i am over it now but it waz awful. i waz always comparing my body to otha people and stuff. it sucked! so dont compare ur body 2 ur friends or people in magazines or amy1 else. god made u r 4 a reason! every1 iz so caught up in there weight riter now. i truly believe ur not fat even tho i dont no u! a lot ov my friends think they need 2 lose weight and r always talkin about it! me and my otha frineds hate wen they do that! it gets so annoying!! but if u dont believe me, next time ur at the doctor ask him 2 show u the chart where it says ur healthy weight range 4 ur height. some solid fact that ur normal cud be just the thing! :) THANX HOPE I HELPED!
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i know wut ur going through im going through the same thing most boyz like my friends cause they are all perfect shaped and i guess thats wut they like.but in my case i just am myself and u shouldn't even think about trying to be a lil like them cause thats not u.if u lose waight do it because u want to not empress guyz but because u think its best 4 urself but be urself more then anything but i bet there is a boi that likes u.good luck i hoped i helped....:)
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maybe lose 10 pounds or so... guys shoudlnt be inlove with your friends only because there skinny thats just not right... maybe show them your great personality so they can see past how much you weigh just be happy with your self
Nicole
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