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whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

they're the same thing, people just call them different things! hope i helped ya!

Much love
~*~Natalie~*~

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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days?

If you have premarital sex it won't cause you to break up. Not every relationship is the same. Mabey some people will breakup but they probably would have broken up even if they didn't have sex. Hope I helped!

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~*~Natalie~*~
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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?

It's totally normal! Don't worry! 99% of the world feels this way sometimes(the other 1% lies about it!!) lol

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~*~Natalie~*~
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Okay im a 14-year-old girl and im soon gettin a 4-wheeler. I just learned to use a clutch --The one where it has 5 gears and you hold in the clutch and shift with your foot-- and i was wondering if anybody in here knows of a good 4-wheeler for me. Not automatic, not too expensive, and no mix-gas. No oil injectors either. What is better..4 or 2 stroke? And nothing like a banshee becasue i drove them and they have too much power for me to handle :-p. Plzz answer, thanx so muchhh!

hey! 4 stroke is definately for u! my 15 year old brother has one.

luv
~*~Natalie~*~

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ok, i'm not ugly, but i'm not exactly beautiful. does anyone know if there's a way to make me look and FEEL prettier? and by "pretty" i dont mean "slutty"

hey, i think that if YOU want to make yourself prettier just try to get some more like "popular" clothes like abercrombie or hollister, and try to wear makeup that makes you look mature not like a slut, like light colors. Only do this if you want to, you don't have to change for anyone else!

Luv Ya~
~*~Natalie~*~

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okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.

-birthday girl

hey, you need to convice her NOT to do this. Is there something in here life that is making her unhappy? if there is try to help, or get like an adult to help you, just tell her you need her!! DON'T LET HER DO IT!!!

Luv Ya,
~*~Natalie~*~

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I go to a catholic school and we are supposed to do Confession on friday and i dont have a clue what to do...well i know what to do, i just dont know what to say? can anyone help?

you go in and say, "forgive me father, for i have sinned, it has been days/weeks/years since my last confession" and then like if you have lied or swore or back talked your parents yayaya you tell him then he gives you pennance, like 4 Hail Marys or 3 Our Fathers that kinda thing! hope i helped

Luv ya!
~*~Natalie~*~

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i have swimming every-other day first hour at my school. basically, we have to swim for 50 minutes, and then we get 10 minutes to shower - change- and get ready, and then itsoff to our next class. i`m very much a girly-girl, hardly ever seen without my makeup on and spend over an hour getting ready for things. I NEED HELP how am i suposed to get ready in 10 minutes?! and how can i do my hair really cute when it`s wet?? i don`t really care about not having time to put on my make up, because i don't really want to be known as the barbie. BUT i dont want to have gross nasty hair either! HELPPPP

You can bring a dryer and gel and scrunch your hair it doesn't have to be completely dry, do your makeup really quickly! hope i helped!

~*~Natalie~*~

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this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help!

yes you can!

~*~Natalie~*~

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I never had a bf, and i'm 12 and a half, and even though a lot of boys asked me out (sorry if that sounded stuck up lol) there is jusy this one guy that i like. he is sorta shy, but he's really nice to me. a lot of my friends like him bc he's cute, but i've known him for 3 years and thats why i like him. do u have any ideas of how i could ask him out on a casual date *my rents are cool and said we could go to the movies* without gettin my friends pissed at me for it? sorry it's so long.
i rate good! if u could help that'd be awesome...thanx in advance
**xoxoBRITTxoxox**

like you could just go up to him and be like r u doing nething this weekend cause it would be cool if you came to the movies w/ me! or something then like at the movies be like i like you! i hope all goes well have fun thatnks for the question!

~*~Natalie~*~

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Well, tomorrow afternoon we get out of school at 10:30 a.m. because of exams...me and my friends were going to walk to an ice-cream shop and eat. The thing is, we have invited guys to go with us. I dont want to look like a complete slob when we go. Do you have any adivce on how to dress and do makeup? Its supposed to be around 56 degrees tomorrow, so I want to look cute, but still stay warm. THank you so much.

outfit: ok a cute like cardigan or sweater would be cute, or a hoddie from hollister or abercrombie&fitch would look hot! lol w/ tight jeans or khaki jeans w/ ugg boots, phat farm, or luggs.

makeup:black eyeliner(if you don't have eyeliner you can use the tip of a q-tip and use black eyeshadow) w/ dark blue or hot pink eyeshadow, deep pinks or burgundy lip gloss w/ clear like shimmer.

hope i helped
~*~Natalie~*~

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Okay, I asked a question for information on the show what not to wear, I've gotten that info. Now I was wondering, it asks personal questions like dress sizes, and address and phone numbers. I'm doing this for a teacher (she's talked about wanting to be on that show, and wanting to change her look, she's in her mid 20s) and I was wondering, how should I go about finding that information. I know how to find addresses and numbers, I just don't know how to ask for her size. She's not fat, but she does have a belly, like you can tell she's maybe 5 or 6 pounds over weight, and I'm not her FAVORITE student, but she doesn't hate me. I just don't know how to go about getting personal information about a teacher. Any suggestions, or should I just give up. If I give it up, then I know somebody else I can do it for, and I would know all the information, but I'd rather do it for this teacher because she might be getting engaged, and she even talks about hating her wardrobe. Any suggestions for that, or for any other makover type shows that travel. I live in North Carolina... thanks!

you should talk to another teacher and have her/him ask her and be like i was wondering what your size was so icould get you a birthday present! or something like that, or if she like puts her coat on the back of her chair and try to read the size, cause that should be similar! hope it goes well! plz rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.

hey they hurt at first and when they tighten them cause they are pulling our teeth to line them up, i chew gum, just don't chew like big gum balls!, and i have hot pink!, but purple, and baby blue! hope i helped! plz rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes.

midol helps me, staying active, cutting down on caffine, drinking water, and they have those cordless heating pads!! hope i helped!

~*~Natalie~*~

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15/f... ive had my hair cut short for two years now! im talking no longer than three inches long all around. Well now I want to grow it out! any suggestions on how to do this QUICK or what to do with it while it's growing out? thanks!

You could have a professional put in hair extensions. The cost might be a little bit of money but its quick!

~*~Natalie~*~

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This is a bit embarrissing im 16 and my penis is not that big and im worried what my girlfiend will think will it matter? does it matter to girls?

hey it will probably not matter if she really likes you. it wouldn't bother me because its not you fault. besides, it doesn't matter how big it is its how you use it! hope i helped!

~*~Natalie~*~

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How could i overcome my fear on stage?

well just try to practice infront of your family and friends. and soon you should be broken of your fear. Just try to think your in your room all by yourself and just do your thing!

hope i helped
~*~Natalie~*~

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how do you put someone into a mount, like what do you do. And what do the back and front spotters have to do?

hey i was a cheerleader for three years. ok, first you need 2 lifters an the right and left side; than a backspotter behind. the only time u really need a frontspot is in full extentions or if you have a new flyer. then the flyer counts one two down up, than jups into theirhands on one than dip it a little than bring her up to their chest.

hope i helped
~*~Natalie~*~

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Okay me and my best friend whitney love to sing we sing all the time but we've never sang in public or anything. we wrote a song one night and we made a tune to it and we sing it all the time now we sang it to our moms and they loved it my mom started crying and we really think that its a good song. We're really scared of what people might think of us we, sing really good and stuff but maybe other people won't think so we really want to become singers. we don't know what to do though like where to go to or anything.
please help im sorry its long. (btw we live in west virginia) thank you! =] I rate.

hey! i heard an add for this dude, who is a guy for like modeling and acting and stuff, so i did a search, and so if you go to www.johnrobertpowers.com and click on contact us you can talk to him, i live in indiana so i don't know if its just local or what but give it a try and tell me how it works please! best of luck sing on!

tell me how it goes
~*~Natalie~*~

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okay, to those of you that listen to country, lately I've been thinkin of these lyrics, and now I'm getting them messed up, so before I 4get, duz any1 know this song

What if God quit trying
he just turned away....
What would you do
You'd probably give up too
if nobody believed in you

Then in another stanza, I know it says something about taking his name out of the pledge of allegience. If you atleast know who sings it, or the name, or a full stanza of lyrics it'd be appreciated

its if nobody believed in you by joe nichols. i love that song!

~*~Natalie~*~

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