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i need ur help
okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.
-birthday girl
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that makes no sense. First you put "my friends", and then you sign it as "birthday girl". Does that mean you are the birthday girl?
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Wow, i think you need to go tell her parents or a school guidence councelor or somebody that can help! Also talk to your friend yourself. Tell her that there are so many people that love her, and would be heartbroken if she did anything like kill herself or hurt hersef in anyway. And do it quick. Your friend has a serious problem, and she sounds serious. If n e thing were to happen, and she did kill herself, and you didnt bother to tell anyone, think of how you would feel. You wouldnt be able to forgive yourself for not helping when there was a chance to save a life. So help now! Hope i helped, and i hope nothing bad happens to your friend.
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hey, you need to convice her NOT to do this. Is there something in here life that is making her unhappy? if there is try to help, or get like an adult to help you, just tell her you need her!! DON'T LET HER DO IT!!!
Luv Ya,
~*~Natalie~*~
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Has she talked about it ever since she was nine? You have to talk to her about it and if she says she's gonna go through with it...you have to tell someone. Even if you're not 100% completely sure if she's bluffing ot not...you need to tell someone. You'll regret it if you dont and she ends up really going through with it.
So..talk to her..and then tell someone.
<3 Gessyka -- good luck
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tell her..that you love her and would miss her to much..also tell her that you will always be there for her..and she is good enough no matter what people say or she thinks!! hope i helped! xo mauh
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Girl, TELL AN ADULT! maybe she forgot after 5 years but thats not something u just forget. Just talk to her or some1 else! SERIOUSLY! i hate when ppl talk about suicide. how can a person just sit somewhere..and be like...im gonna kill myself..it just makes me so mad. srry
hope i helped!
*~amc~*
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Well the first thing i would do is to first tell an adult about it. Maybe even you should try talking to her about it and find out why and stuff. But tell her its not a good idea and be there for her...
XoXo,
*SaRaH*
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You need to talk to an adult.
X♥X♥
Charmed-Cherry21
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u need to tell her mom so that she can keep a close eye on her!!!! that could be a dangerous situation!!!! hope this helps!!!
~Alyssa
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Oh shit. well you should tell her how selfish suicide is and remind her that she was only 9 when she decided that she would kill herself. let her know that she is loved, if not by anyone else then by you and STAY WITH HER. on her birthday have a slumber party or something. give her something in her life worth living for. good luck.
~ANGE
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Tell a parent or older mentor that you feel close and comfortable with to talk about it. im sure you have alot of feelings locked up inside. letting them out to someone will help alot. there is no reason you or your friend should lose a life. hope this helps good luck :) *amanda*
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ask her why she would want to commit suicide..tell her that her death is not her place to decide,its God's choice,He created her and He loves her very much.i dont no what else to say!just really mean it wen u say it so she knows that you care about her and i would tell an adult.If it is you,then please don't and reconsider.If you need a friend,i'll be your friend!just please dont make this horrible mistake.God loves you sooo much and this isn't a part of His plan for you.
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i think she was going through a rough time then but im sure she has forgotten about it
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dont do it
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Ok, just think about it, why would she be thinking about committing suicide for 8 years!!! I mean if she wanted to commit suicide she wouldnt wait that long. I dont see how a 9 year old could want to do that. Maybe she just said that she wanted to committ suicide from the age 9 but she really wasnt thnking it that long. Ne ways talk to her parents if they dont know even if it would be called snitching and if she has to go to like a place to get her better. Tell her right now that its the wrong idea and say that she going to miss out in wonderful things and that you need her in her life because shes a great person. Deff. tell her parents!!! RIGHT AWAY
~Brina~
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Tell a trusted adult.
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