I'm an 18 year old guy trapped in Arizona. I'm from Texas(The land of women) where women were around every corner and needs were always met. Oh pleace ~amc~ turn a ratio of 7-1 guys-girls to a 1-1 *wink*wink. And when is too much too much. LOL
-BoneHead
Well hey BoneHead...*cough-tony-coughcough* :-) i dont care about ure love life...srry, just care bout my own...hahahaha like i have one..lol ...im jk. You know maybe its just good for u to be single. Ya right, u single! HA...you kno if theres a 7-1 ratio of guys to girls in Arizona..there will always be plenty of guys...he-he., lol.JK!..have fun never getting a g/f!! For future reference, don't come to your lil sis about your love life :-) Bye for now Bro..love lots.*~amc~*
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Well I am 14 years old and in 9th grade of high school. I have this really cool girlfriend who goes to a different school and we have been going out for 4 months. I also have this girl who's my best friend who I've started to like too. I can also hint that she likes me and I've been thinking about possibly asking her out. I mean, I love my girlfriend but i don't know what i should do. I know it isn't fair to like someone else while you're going out with someone so I wanted to know what you guys thought.
Thanks,
Confused
Your g/f goes to a different school. You see ure friend everyday. If u love your g/f y r u thinking about another girl. just choose..i would go for the friend!
*~amc~*
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okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.
-birthday girl
Girl, TELL AN ADULT! maybe she forgot after 5 years but thats not something u just forget. Just talk to her or some1 else! SERIOUSLY! i hate when ppl talk about suicide. how can a person just sit somewhere..and be like...im gonna kill myself..it just makes me so mad. srry
hope i helped!
*~amc~*
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my friend is being a real jerk every time i try to be nice to her we always get into a big argument about stuff i am worried about with her she is moving and i really dont want her to go but every time i say i dont want u to go cause i think it is a bad idea cause if her mom leaves the boyfriend or visversa she wont no where to go and i am really worried about that
plz help
First of all, its hard to see a friend move. But its even harder on her side. Shes just not leaving one friend, shes leaving all of them. If her mom leaves her b/f or visversa, you can't do anything about it, i kno u want to..but..u cant.
Just keep talking to her, and before she moves, SPEND EVERYDAY W/ HER!! she's ure friend....and u might not c her for awile..
Im sorry about ure friend
Hope this helped! *~amc~*
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lets just call my friend mel, well me, my boyfriend, mel and this other boy (lets call him jack) were at my boyfriends house to watch the superbowl. we were all sitting on the couch watchin the game. jack and mels hands were really close so he took her hand and held it. but while jack was holding mel's hand he started talking about this girl that hes totally in love with ( he has no chance with her though) and how he talked to her online for a long time! that really pissed mel off because they were holding hands but she didnt say anything. now she likes jack alot but no ones really sure if he likes her, he hasget over this other girl though and were not sure how long thatll take. my boyfriend told me that jack kind of likes mel though. what does all this mean, does he like her or not and what should mel do? i know this is really long so ill rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!
Does your friend realize that while he was holding her hand he was talking about another girl. Either he's just trying to get over the other girl or hes just playin HARD TO GET. It sounds like he has a crush on ure friend b/c of the hand holding. I think ure friend (Mel) should just wait a while. wait until he makes a move or gets over the other girl. otherwise that might be okward on her side.
Hope some of this helped..~amc
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Where do babies come from??
ure parents were ment to answer these questions! GO ASK THEM!lol...very funny whoever asked this question! ~amc~ :-)
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Well i have thins friend lets call him Jen. Well Jen is so ANNOYING she follows me around EVERYWHERE. Everything i do she does. (ex: i color my hair, she does the same. i cut my bangs, she does the same. i make up crazy words, she says she did.) its getting really anoying and i cannot even joke with her about things and then she gets all mad. even my friends know her for a month and thinks she is annoying. She even tried to steal my BF and she didn't even like him she just wanted a bf. She also like a guy after one hour of knowing him. She always complains about not having a bf and i will never have one. and i cannot do much about. So what should i do be friends or not?
Just tell her nicely to stop. if she doesnt then she is really weird..Everyone is different in their own unique way and apparently she doesnt see that. if she keeps it up after u kindly told her to stop then just stop talking to her..if she keeps on copying u....maybe she'll stop talking to u 2! hope i helped!! ~amc~
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should i do something special for him (my crush) for christmas? He's the heavy metal type who likes metillica, atreyu and stuff! will it show i'm desperate?
If you talk to him like he's one of ure friends then he wont mind if u give him something.*(it won't show that ure desperate)* now if u never really get to see or talk to him...it would be kinda weird!....get him like a CD of his fav. band...or chocolate...everyone loves chocolate.. :-)
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ok im in 7th grade and i have a 9th grade boyfriend and i never see him!!! he went to a party tonight at the movies and i couldnt go bc my mom wouldnt let me.. but he could and this one gurl that i think likes him went too and i dunno if he'll do something with her..shes in 8th grade.. i dont know what to do!? I rele rele like him but everybody says i should dump him but i dont know.. i dont wanna hurt him because i feel if i was too brake up with him, id like him after a day and i would wanna be back with him but he'd say no, thats how i feel and hes so hot and nice but my friend wyatt who helps with anything says im gonna get hurt or hes gonna play me and that he think he likes other gurls..ugh i dont know what to do.. im so confused!! i Mean i love him to death but it just dont feel right i mean im soo attempted to flirt with other guys at my school ugh he prolly flirts with other gurls too...omg i dont wanna hurt him but i gotta do whats best:( what should i do? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me...*Ashlee*
Sorry, but i think that you should dump him. I mean, if you love him like you say, why are you so tempted to flirt with other guys at your school? I don't think that its gonna hurt his feelings because...like you said...you never get to see each other. Sorry to break it to you but, he's probablly flirting with other girls in his grade. You don't deserve this! So just go ahead and do what you want, but i think you should dump him. Go back to those guys that you were tempted to flirt w/...and flirt w/ them. Just forget about your 9th grade friend. You're mom will also trust a guy closer to your age. Good luck and i hope i help!! ~amc~
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my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?
If ure not comfortable being around them, ask them to stop...or dump them. If one of ure friends is being cruel to u, u dont deserve it. Tell the 2nd friend that ure not mad at him. Ure not mad, but u might b upset that their ruining their lives w/ doing drugs. hope i helped! ~amc~
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When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?
I used to be in this situation myself. You need to ask this family for the money, otherwise both of yall will forget. If she or he doesn't have the money right then, then ask for it the next day. The more u ask, the more likely that u'll get ure money. :-) ~amc~
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sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared!
Ppl can cut themselves for various reasons. u need to confront your friend. if she doesnt listen to u, than u need to talk to another adult (more like her parents) She can b doing this b/c shes depressed, angry, sad...watch out for her b/c it could lead to suicide!! ~amc~
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there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone.
U need to talk to her and tell her that this is bothering u..mabye she'll get a clue that u dont want to b w/ her in that way! it's also not cool for her to talk about your friends behind their backs. if u ever thought about going out w/ her...i would suggest not b/c thats NOT good g/f material...just talk to her and tell her that this is bugging her..hopefully she'll understand!
Hope i helped ~amc~
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Well I have been crushing on a guy for like three years , and I really want to get over him . Yeah, I know these things come naturally , but I just want to feel free . Anyway he has a girlfriend and I don't know her at all . I know that she's pretty cool though and the most thing about it is that I am not jealous as I intended to be . No jealousy just lust for him . I barely see him but when I do, he'll look at me and then he just will look away as I'm of no importance . Then sometimes he'll look at me when I am not paying him the most hell of a lot of attention . I don't get it and I really want to get over him so bad .
Could you tell me what to do / maybe why he's doing this and why I'm doing this ? It can't be love 'cause I'm too young to love . And I've been getting a lot of attention this year from six guys. The majority are my friends and the rest we just hang around . Well one asked me out and he's distant towards me now and I want to save our friendship . One of my friends like me and I don't want to play him 'cause I have feelings for someone else . Then there are some guys that say ," you're too out spoken ." What is it with them ? Do they want someone who's a bump on a log . Please . Help me get this straight 'cause it's driving me mad . Thanx so much and have a jolly day .( I know it's not Christmas yet.)
I have been in this situation and u should get over him. if i didnt get over this one guy..i would have wasted another year of not having fun and being w/ the ones u care about. Find someone new who will make u happy instead of depressed. Im glad that i did! ~AMC~
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ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!
~*wants nothing to do with him*~
U need to tell him...if u have already, tell him again. apparently he doesn't understand the meaning of get away b/c i dont like u. So just tell him again..and only if u need to resort to making a scene..DO IT!
Hope i helped..~
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i have a problem w/ making friends...do u have any advice?
making friends can be hard or easy...if u happen to c or meet someone, get to kno them and dont judge them EVER!, by how they look or seem at first. get to know them by the inside and not out. The hard way...is to be mean to other ppl., have the attitude that you'll never make friends. and not get to kno them. At that rate it'll b very hard to make friends.
I hope i helped GOOD LUCK!!
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