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What should i do?
my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?
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Tell a trusted person now!!!!!! This is SO serious and cannot b left alone. even if u think they might b mad.... would u rather.... them b mad @ u or them die?
Hope I Helped!!!
xoxo *mwah* -- Amber
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you really need to tell someone who will listen to you about this. an adult should deffinetly be informed because no one will be happy when some one dies because of drunk drivers
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talk to them about drug and drinking abuse. tell them it isnt healthy and could lead them down a wrong path of life. hope i helped! mauuhh
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well stop while u can! find new friends. clean friends. not saying to drop them off a cliff but slowly make new friends and gradually leave them. but if you dont want new friends then talk to them and try to help them instead of avoding them. well sorry i didnt have much to say but i hope i helped some.
Alexxa
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Well.. these "friends" seem to be a bad influence.. It was a lil hard to follow.. but here goes what i think!
Your friends attitude-- you shouldnt have to deal with that. IF they get an attitude with you, just walk away. Its the best thing to do. They wont be mad at you .. and u dont have to put up with it!
The friend thats "mad"-- Talk to him! Theres isnt any other way to settle this. If you wont talk to him, then u most likely wont be friends. I'm pretty sure he cant read ur mind. If he thinks ur mad, let him know your not. There really isnt any other way to let him know ur not!!
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i think you should talk to your friends. just tell them exactly how you feel. if that does not work avoid them. what they are doing is not good and not healthy. as for your other friend just call him up a.s.a.p and ask him "are you mad at me?" and he will tell you and you say "i just wanna let you know that im not mad at you bc i thought you thought that i was mad at you but im not"..
hope everything works out
=-)
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Find new friends.
Seriously. Sure you can tell them why, it's probably a good idea to do so. One day they'll realize that their "real" friends left them and hopefully that will be enough to make them change, but don't expect it to happen for a while.
My ex-boyfriend/fiancee was into drugs and so were his friends, I wasn't. After years of talking to him, hoping he'd quit, him promising to quit...I quit him. I broke everything off with him and haven't talked to him in two years. From what I hear from my friends is that he cleaned up his act, quit using drugs, got a better job, etc. I couln't be happier for him, but sometimes that's the price you have to pay.
Good luck with your friends.
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Sorry i didnt understnd ur question then!...Well if i were u i would find new friends that dont make bad disicions like that!
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*Well, I think you should have a conversation with them about their drug usage. Tell your friends how it makes you feel and be sure to tell them the dangers of their actions. Driving while on drugs is definetly not good! Just let your friend know how much they mean to you and stuff. If they don't listen you might want to tell an adult..*
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i think that you should talk to your friends, find out why they are doing these things, and tell them that if they don't stop then you're going to just find new friends, you don't need/want to be around people that you feel uncomfortable around. hope i helped
*~*shan*~*
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If ure not comfortable being around them, ask them to stop...or dump them. If one of ure friends is being cruel to u, u dont deserve it. Tell the 2nd friend that ure not mad at him. Ure not mad, but u might b upset that their ruining their lives w/ doing drugs. hope i helped! ~amc~
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