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Heyy! My names Sara. .Im a cheerleader and i love to dance I also rantrack for 4 years! Im 13 and like all other teenagers need help with my choices! If you need help let me know and i would love to help you because ill try my best and i give pretty good idvice and dont forget to rate! ;-) Dont forget to please anwser all my questions!!

Love ya!

x0ox. .--> Sara*

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im a 13f and i just got my first thong. is it slutty to have one at my age? ill rate! thanx

Not at all hunnii! Its not like you are wearing it for that reason you are wearing it to make you feel better about yourself and too look better so u can see your underwear line! Its like every other under wear...dont worry sweetie!You will probley feel 100% more confident! Good Luck! Love U Hun!...x3*Sara!

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What types of paint colors would make a small room see bigger?

.B.r.i.g.h.t..C.o.l.o.r.s. will make the room look bigger! Good Luck! x33*Sara!!

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should i become anorexic? i am to fat, im 5ft 5in and 115lb my stomach is to big, i feel fat. i play soccer, basketball, and softball. i thought that that info might be helpful..

also am i fat (not compared to you, ingenral)

NOOOO! That is the worst thing that you can do to urself! I tried that an trust me its the worst thing! People get mad at you and your not only hurting yourself but other people too! NOO YOUr NOT FATT! I am 5*4 and 110! No you are not fat you are proubley really pretty! Good Luck Tho BaBe! x33*Sara!

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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx

Maybe she was just trying to help you! Some people are out going around anyone (even your parents) So manybe she does not really realize whats shes doing and how it might bother you! If you dont like it sit her down and tell her how you feel and that u think she might be a lil to load around your parents (Like anwsering ur ?'s) Let her know what ur dad says so that she nos what it looks like shes doing and hopfully everything works out for you hunnii! Good Luck! x33_Sara!*

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(16/F) Alrighty then, there is this guy that I've liked since last year. (name is...Frank) I have told Frank that I like him three time to his face, and we are not going out. I was wondering if it would be weird if I got him a Christmas present. I know its not Christmas yet, but I want to figure this out before hand. Please tell me what you think. Thanks in advance.

Signed-
Just Wondering

If you get him one you are showing him that you care about him! I think it would be cute and that he would see how much u really like him! You never no ur christmas wish may come true! **Christmas wish...Lol!** Good Luck!

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my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\

Tell him excally what you told us! Tell him how you feel and that you want him to come over sometimes! Tell him that you also dont want him to act different around his friends (because thats another thing it sounds like hes doing) let him not taht you love him adn you want it to work but he has to change because some things are really bothing you! hope i help you sweetie! Love ya! -:-Sara-:-

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okay....i kno this isnt really a big thing but on saturday i am going to be playing a really good friend in basketball for CYO. i dunno if i should play serious or just laugh and have fun.If i laugh and have fun my coach will scream at me. What should i do?

Play your hardest! You guys talk all the time and im sure she is going to try her hardest to! Basketball its what u love to do...and u should give 110% all the time! Good Luck Hunnii! x3. .*Sara*

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ok..well on e of my best friends is in 7th grade and the guy I like is in 7th grade and I am in 8th grade I told my best friend [lets say...Rache] that I really liked the guy and she was like awww all that shit and she was going out with someone at the time and then the night I told her that I liked him..she dumped her current boyfriend and asked out the guy I liked..and today I was ganna think hard about when I was ganna ask him out and then all of a sudden her name popped up when me and the guy I like were talking about something and he is like ya me and Rachel are going out and I am like aww kool..like kinda in a obvious way [and he doesnt know that I like him] and ya..and I'm about to cry what do I do and what do I say to the guy/ and or Rachel!! PLEASE HELP!!! i am ganna go under depression.....seriously...
~*Lost N Lost*~ ...again

You gotta say something to Rachel..what kind of friend does that? She was showing you that she dont not care about what you told her a couple hours ago and that who u like dosnt matter to her! She just went out with him which was kinda bitchy because once u tell her u like him she takes him thats not a ture friend... sorry babe! And you should say to the guy that you had feelings for him...ket him no how you feel (guys like that) and then go from there! I would make sure Rachel nos she messed up and that she better show u she can be a better friend! Let me no! Sorry if i didnt help! Love Ya Hunnii! x33--sara*

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me and my bfs relationship is not very well right now...we jsut got into a small fight a week ago and made up but we havent seen eachother for a week...we always see eachother every other day....and its mostly his fault....idk...im really pissed....he is @ the mall right by my house right now....and he called from his older brothers cell and sed if i wanted 2 meet up there with him i said ya but i had no ride and i didnt wanna walk and *he coulda offered to come swing by my house n pick me up* and then he was like well my older bro is about to leave so i wont ahv a fone but my friend is comin so ill call u back frmo his phone n see wat he wants to do (like if they wer just gonna come over) and he sed hed call me bak...and HE HASNT its been over an hour....HE ALWAYS DOES THIS....whenever we make plans THEY NEVER HAPPEN....how can i talk to hmi bout this i dont wanna break up with him i really love hmi (we been together for 11 months)...but lately hes been pissin me off....wat do i say??=[

sit him down and tell him how it feels like you 2 are falling apart! Tell him that you still ove him adn you dont want to break up but u just want to let him know how u feel! A boyfriend should want to hang out sometimes...but they do need space just like girls..if you are with your boyfriend everyday your going to want space to hang out with your gurl, no what i mean? Good luck! x3-*Sara

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ok my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks now and it seem like we arnt going anywhere. i mean we have gone to the movies 2 times and out to eat twice and then ice skating and we held hands during both movies but he wont kiss me or anything. is he afraid? what can i do to get him to kiss me? his friends and my friends have told him too but he wont. what can i do to get our relationship going. or is he showing me signs that he has no feelings for me? please help me. thanks.

Maybe he is nervous! Give him a chance...maybe you should make the 1st move and show him you care! After you make the moe then say sutmhing to him and ask why then he will proubley idmit to being scared or neverous! Some guys have fears of being rejected...so bottom line is maybe you should try and make a move if you dont he is man enough! ;-) Love Ya! Good Luck! x33*sara

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Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!)

Okay...i no where you are comming from i had the same proublem!I think that you should wait till you compleatly comperable with him! And if you do then give it a shot..a boyfirend is just someone u care bout and cares about u the same way, they are someone to love and talk to! when you are on a date you dont have to kiss infront of people wait till your alone to do stuff! Let him no everything that you just told us and he will help you with it and you guys can sit down and talk threw it togther! Me and my b/f waited 2 month before we started going out because i didnt no what to do and i was scared to finally have a real "boyfriend" now everything is great and trust me you will love having a boyfriend better then being single! Hope i help you and let me no what happends! Love Ya Hunnii! *Sara*

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Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp

Its normal for a boyfriend to care! It always is good to no that someone cares about u and he serently does! Give him a chance...make him open up to you and make him tell you how he feels tell him that u want to let eachother no one anothers feelings! Good Luck!

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Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~

Brother:Cd's, shirt, guitar book or pieces, something to put in his car or on key chain for his car keys! Ask him he might give u some ideas!

Dad: mug, shirt, keychain, or u could go get a picture of you and your brother made into something like a mouse pad (thats what me n my brother did last year)

Good Luck!;-)

x3..Sara*

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ok well Im going out with this guy named Shane and he's sweet and eerything , but he gets jealous very easy, like when a guy well lets just call him Chris, talked to me he got all up in his face!!, I truely love him but he can get jealous really easy and now I told him that I can talk to guys and he dosent understand!! he's 15 and so am I but what do I do ??

Make sure he know that u love him and that u are allowed to have guys for friends! He needs too knwo that you would never leave him for someone at ramdom adn he needs to TRUST you!Maybe you should sit and have a talk with him to let him kno all this! Good Luck Babes! x3..SaRa*

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Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do?

Okay..next time he calls you and you have plans make sure that you let him know u still wanna hang out some time and tell him u will call him next time u have time to so sumthing. Hes sounds like a good guy but u have to make sure that it dosnt bother you that he smokes weed 1st. Good Luck Sweetie!! x3_sara*

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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!!

Flirt with him to let him know that u still like him! Tell him that you like this one kid but u wanna be togther for a little bit before you start going out offically! Give him the clue but make him figure it out a approch you about the hole think! Good Luck! x33..Sara*

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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.

*You have to tell him! If yuo sit there and talk to him and tell him that your sorry then he will proubley forgive you and just dont let it happend again! Make sure that u tell him everything and make sure that he know that you love him and that it will NEVER happend again! You have a chance of him forgiving you if you tell him but if u hide it and he finds out another way then he will proubley not forgive you because he thinks that he cant trust you and ur not being honest! Sit and talk to him! Good Luck Babe! x3..Sara*

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My friend does drugs.... i don't know if i should help her or not? What if she doesn't listen to me? help me please with my problem!

Talk to her and try to help her if not get real help and hope that she changes..but if her dosnt dont hang out with her because u dont want to start bad stuff like that Good Luck! Sara..x33

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I Like this girl name Brittany and im not sure iff she likes me because she mite be dating my friand. But I never liked any one before so i kno she must be the one! what should I do?

Flirt with her...and then u will get this hint if she likes you or not...it will be pretty clear if she likes you back or not!! I think you should talk to her and let her know how you are feeling tho! Good Luck...x/3_Sara*

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OK I know this might be a common question but I really need help...
My friends invited me to their pool party/birthday in 4 days. I am not one of their best friends but we are pretty close. They are identical twins *Kaitlynne and Mackenzi* so i was thinkin of goign to a stopre that sells personalize ditems but none realli carry names spellt that way. they love soccer and they are truning 14.. any ideas?

You can get them anything! If you want somthing with their name on it you can proubly find somthing and order it only! If not get a picture fame and a picture of you 3 and maybe (get a plane frame) and get paint or suthming a write and doodle on it...that would be cute! If not get them money and that way they get what they want and you no it will be sumthing they like! Good Luck and Have fun! ...x33_Sara!*

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